Bad cook a deal breaker?

[Enter]

If a dude even suggested getting another wife then I will divorce on the spot. You are not playing me

If you don't cook for your husband you seriously deserve him taking the infamous trip to Kenya. It's your own fault

Why these girls wanna get married if you don't want to be a wife?????

 

[World]

Would you marry a women that can’t cook? What if she works a high paying job (100k+) and doesn’t have the time or desire to cook often?

The problem isn’t that she can’t cook, as long as she intends to learn and knows she will be cooking every meal, then no problem. Rather the problem is that she works a high paying stressful job and doesn’t have time.

 

[Angelina]

If you don't cook for your husband you seriously deserve him taking the infamous trip to Kenya. It's your own fault

Why these girls wanna get married if you don't want to be a wife?????

Lol, since when is cooking the be all and end all of a wife? Men don't go back home for 'cooking'. Most girls back home that have a diaspora husband have a maid that does the cooking. Even they don't cook.

The only men that cry about cooking are average men. As soon as a man has a lot of money he'll hire a cheif and maid for the wife.

 

[World]

She out if she cant cook. Home sweet hargeisa, so many beautiful lightskin pink lip women who has elite home making skin.

Oh and did I forget to mention lightskin

Bleached*

 

[bluebird]

my wife works as nurse and comes home exhausted everyday yet she still cooks and clean before going to sleep if your wife won't help fix up some food and clean after 10 hour shift she isn't the one and divorce immediately

is this you're wife

 

[Goodbye ✌]

That's not a valid reason for divorce though

Actually she can annul the marriage, she can leave the home and she is not obliged to allow him to be intimate. https://islamqa.info/en/answers/245...ermissible-for-her-to-refuse-to-share-his-bed

 

[ImanStan001]

they expect me to be ruining my health and body to work for what $14/hour

are u a house husband , wife working 10 hours as a nurse

 

[Badboy4life]

Actually she can annul the marriage, she can leave the home and she is not obliged to allow him to be intimate. https://islamqa.info/en/answers/245...ermissible-for-her-to-refuse-to-share-his-bed

A husband getting another wife is not a valid reason for divorce, that is what I said.

 

[Hmohamed54]

She out if she cant cook. Home sweet hargeisa, so many beautiful lightskin pink lip women who has elite home making skin.

Oh and did I forget to mention lightskin

Wallahi your lying. My friends wives from back home all cook full course meals when they bring them here. There home making skills cant be touched. ManShaAllah

 

[Awad]

These niggas think being a wife means you in the kitchen but men these days can’t even build you shelter if you get caught up in a storm or fix things broken in the home or build a home, they can barely change tires

Damn you always gotta make things complicated if I want a sandwich I want a fucking sandwich who said anything about a storm nigga tf???

 

[Goodbye ✌]

A husband getting another wife is not a valid reason for divorce, that is what I said.

Ohh I thought you were referring to him not providing. Nevermind sorry about that.

 

[Enter]

Lol, since when is cooking the be all and end all of a wife? Men don't go back home for 'cooking'. Most girls back home that have a diaspora husband have a maid that does the cooking. Even they don't cook.

The only men that cry about cooking are average men. As soon as a man has a lot of money he'll hire a cheif and maid for the wife.

It's not the be all end all, but it's definitely an important part of being a wife. A lot of you girls have serious beef with home keeping and quite literally want to play the role of a man. A lot of Xalimos have come to view it as degrading and beneath them due to baggage I am not qualified to unpack. Why even get married at that point? Don't want to have kids, calacaal about cooking, cleaning, etc. while wanting to live an unencumbered and independent life. Nothing wrong with staying single.

Average? Are you hearing yourself? 98% of the population can't afford a chef, cleaner, nanny or whatever it is that you think every woman is entitled to so she's relieved of her traditional duties. It also just happens to be that men who can afford that marry women that make up for their lack of home keeping skills in different areas. The average woman is not a 24 y/o 115lbs 5ft8 blonde Slav.

 

[rep]

Learning to cook is very easy . The most important thing is that she's beautiful good-hearted and obedient the rest can be learned.

 

[Qeelbax]

If you don't cook for your husband you seriously deserve him taking the infamous trip to Kenya. It's your own fault

Why these girls wanna get married if you don't want to be a wife?????

I’m not marryong someone like you, so no need to worry about me and my hubby’s buisness. I’m not going to school for all those years to be a maid, I will hire a maid.

would you rather have some mid bariis or a 5 michelin meal? Y’all nikkas have a poverty mindset. My husband will have his own personal chef, and it will not be me. Go be poor elsewhere. We are living luxuriously in my street.

 

[Angelina]

It's not the be all end all, but it's definitely an important part of being a wife. A lot of you girls have serious beef with home keeping and quite literally want to play the role of a man. A lot of Xalimos have come to view it as degrading and beneath them due to baggage I am not qualified to unpack. Why even get married at that point? Don't want to have kids, calacaal about cooking, cleaning, etc. while wanting to live an unencumbered and independent life. Nothing wrong with staying single.

Average? Are you hearing yourself? 98% of the population can't afford a chef, cleaner, nanny or whatever it is that you think every woman is entitled to so she's relieved of her traditional duties. It also just happens to be that men who can afford that marry women that make up for their lack of home keeping skills in different areas. The average woman is not a 24 y/o 115lbs 5ft8 blonde Slav.

This whole conversation is about a woman earning 100k+. Such a woman can easily get herself someone to help with the chores. So why the hell wouldn't she? You said a man will go Kenya for another wife. Well that very wife probable wouldn't be cooking for him, she'll have a maid, so why is it okay for her and not for a Western wife? Newsflash, women are not your personal slaves. What makes it worse is that at least a wife backhome will have all the bills paid for, but you lot expect a woman in the West to help YOU provide and do all the chores. Get out of here.

Self-hater detected. Why slav? Why blonde? That is peak beauty for you? Seriously get out of here. There are many Somali girls who are 24,115 and gorgeous, but your bottom barrel self thinks only cadaan women are beautiful and deserve to have someone helping them with the chores? Lol, what a disgusting mentality.

The first part is pure waffle. In the real world, even working women who pay bills or the majority actually do most of the cooking and cleaning. This is a fact. Most women want a husband that helps them, but strangly, a woman saying I want a man that helps has now been changed to 'women no longer cook and clean'. If that is the case, who is feeding, cleaning and raising the kids you see running around? Wives/mothers and a lot of these women are also ontop of that are doing 12hr shifts so that they can help their husbands pay the rent. That is the crux of the issue. Absolute xaasidnimo. You went women to help you financially, but refuse to help them with the house.

 

[Last Laugh]

why are you getting married if you cant afford to take care of a wife and kids by yourself? You shouldn’t worry about marriage until you get your shit together

 

[Taij4an]

How is that not valid? Get a second wife and I will kill you and the lady with the unfortunate audacity. Best to avoid.

bc its selfish

 

[Taij4an]

yes I know this guy that made 100s of thousands from buying shit coins before the hype started last bull market what do I look like slaving for 15 dollars a hour

Noone makes good money from crypto, its so rare that its not sustainable for 99% of ppl
How do u earn money now?
Do you leech off of someone else?

 

[Taij4an]

build a home,

building a home is nowhere on the same level as cooking a meal

 

[Taij4an]

they expect me to be ruining my health and body to work for what $14/hour

u can't function in society without ppl working, ur entire life in america is taking advantage of other ppl working while u are sitting like a lazy child all day doing nothing but playing games while other ppl have to work to upport society
if everyone had ur mentality you wouldnt even be able to live in america bc u wouldnt have all the resources to survive
the entire house u live in is in the land of america which is funded by yahuudis
u support yahuudis because u live in america, u profit off of ur wife working for yahuudis,
if you truly believed what u were saying u would move to a 3rd world country