It's not the be all end all, but it's definitely an important part of being a wife. A lot of you girls have serious beef with home keeping and quite literally want to play the role of a man. A lot of Xalimos have come to view it as degrading and beneath them due to baggage I am not qualified to unpack. Why even get married at that point? Don't want to have kids, calacaal about cooking, cleaning, etc. while wanting to live an unencumbered and independent life. Nothing wrong with staying single.
Average? Are you hearing yourself? 98% of the population can't afford a chef, cleaner, nanny or whatever it is that you think every woman is entitled to so she's relieved of her traditional duties. It also just happens to be that men who can afford that marry women that make up for their lack of home keeping skills in different areas. The average woman is not a 24 y/o 115lbs 5ft8 blonde Slav.
This whole conversation is about a woman earning 100k+. Such a woman can easily get herself someone to help with the chores. So why the hell wouldn't she? You said a man will go Kenya for another wife. Well that very wife probable wouldn't be cooking for him, she'll have a maid, so why is it okay for her and not for a Western wife? Newsflash, women are not your personal slaves. What makes it worse is that at least a wife backhome will have all the bills paid for, but you lot expect a woman in the West to help YOU provide and do all the chores. Get out of here.
Self-hater detected. Why slav? Why blonde? That is peak beauty for you? Seriously get out of here. There are many Somali girls who are 24,115 and gorgeous, but your bottom barrel self thinks only cadaan women are beautiful and deserve to have someone helping them with the chores? Lol, what a disgusting mentality.
The first part is pure waffle. In the real world, even working women who pay bills or the majority actually do most of the cooking and cleaning. This is a fact. Most women want a husband that helps them, but strangly, a woman saying I want a man that helps has now been changed to 'women no longer cook and clean'. If that is the case, who is feeding, cleaning and raising the kids you see running around? Wives/mothers and a lot of these women are also ontop of that are doing 12hr shifts so that they can help their husbands pay the rent. That is the crux of the issue. Absolute xaasidnimo. You went women to help you financially, but refuse to help them with the house.
