salma saluuni
For the thrill💃🏽
So to cut this short and wrap it up my brothers wife gave birth two days ago. I have a few siblings and we’re quite a big family alhamdullilah. This is the first grandson btw. We went to his wife’s family home to visit the baby and see how she was doing today. She’s at her family home for a while you see as she’s just had a c section, it’s going to take some time for her to recover and heal her body miskeenta. Now fast forward to when I had her in my arms for the first time, I couldn’t hold back my tears and it takes a lot for me to cry as emotionally let’s just say I’m not all there. It just dawned on me then and there that I’m not going to see her as often as I want. When ur from the dads side of the family the bitter truth is wax aa meesha ka tahey maleh. Naturally your always around your mums side growing up and
I know it all depends on how strong your relationship with your brother is but the truth is in marriage the woman wears the trousers and what she says goes. I guess I’m just really upset I probably won’t be taking a active part in her life and this makes me really upset. He’s sent me a few videos and pictures of her, and every few minutes I see my self going on my camera roll to smile at them. Let’s just say my brothers wife is not so much of a friendly person. But regardless I’m not her parent so I need to back off and stop obsessing over her and know my boundaries as a edo. I wanna know if anyone else has ever been in this situation.
I know it all depends on how strong your relationship with your brother is but the truth is in marriage the woman wears the trousers and what she says goes. I guess I’m just really upset I probably won’t be taking a active part in her life and this makes me really upset. He’s sent me a few videos and pictures of her, and every few minutes I see my self going on my camera roll to smile at them. Let’s just say my brothers wife is not so much of a friendly person. But regardless I’m not her parent so I need to back off and stop obsessing over her and know my boundaries as a edo. I wanna know if anyone else has ever been in this situation.