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Are we clones or something? I've had the same issues but avoided them when they came over. They'd pretend to make phone calls and disappear on me for hours because they're "tired".

But never had the decency to ask beforehand if I was willing to. I roasted them 1 too many times for this and they now mostly refuse my help.
Lmao, that's so funny because my sister in law is the opposite.
She would show she is independent and does not need help with taking care of her children, even if she was struggling cause she had so much hate and pride to ask my mother and my sister's for help, we'd offer it to her too.
 


Are we clones or something? I've had the same issues but avoided them when they came over. They'd pretend to make phone calls and disappear on me for hours because they're "tired".

But never had the decency to ask beforehand if I was willing to. I roasted them 1 too many times for this and they now mostly refuse my help.
This girl will disappear for hours she’s not even the problem
My brother is for allowing her
She dosent even work
She’s a housewife and dosent want to look after her own child
 
That's really toxic , you need time for yourself aswell.
But, it could be she likes you and trust's you with her children.
Yeah I just don’t talk to them no more
I think it’s cos I took a few months off work when my sister gave birth but then my parents weren’t here so I was the only that was able to help her

She thinks I’m miskeen and will do the same for her
When her whole family is here
 
Bit judgemental no? Its only been days as you say and you're already making assumptions of how shes going to be in the future. I bet you and ya whole family telling eachother shes not gonna let you lot see the kid, shes a 6itch, talking about all the lil things shes done in the past you all didnt like etc typical somali behaviour. back biting this woman whos just given birth and you wanna make her seem bad. Go make ya own babies. This is how badmind somali parents think and pass it down to their kids like op.
Huh? Read the rest of the posts you dunce. I clearly stated how she mistreats me and my family
 

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This girl will disappear for hours she’s not even the problem
My brother is for allowing her
She dosent even work
She’s a housewife and dosent want to look after her own child
Your brother is at fault here because he's the middle person between you guys. He should be actively trying to mediate issues instead of letting her behaviour slide.

I'd never allow my husband to disrespect my family. If they're out ofline I will check them for it. But a back and forth squabble is out of the question. If your spouse feels comfortable disrespecting your family its crystal clear how they value you.
 
Huh? Read the rest of the posts you dunce. I clearly stated how she mistreats me and my family
Boohoo she just had a baby days ago and youre complaining bout how you cant see the child already. You're inconsiderate. How you try generalize and say women wear the pants in a relationship no its just your 6itchmade brother in this predicament. Nigga an embarrassment to the tol cause we dont fold.
 
Visit as often as you can, and even when you can’t.
Family is so precious, and aunts even more.

I don’t have kids yet but my husbands family aren’t warm on me, and he’s not a very buddy buddy arrange gatherings sort of guy anyways. So InshaAllah when and if our family grows I don’t expect them to be part of my child’s life. Not because they hate me or I hate them but we never got to be sisterly and develop our own relationship. Long story short - if you haven’t done so already reach out to your sister in law, don’t go through your brother. Call her directly, ask about her life, if she needs a hand with baby etc.
 
Boohoo she just had a baby days ago and youre complaining bout how you cant see the child already. You're inconsiderate. How you try generalize and say women wear the pants in a relationship no its just your 6itchmade brother in this predicament. Nigga an embarrassment to the tol cause we dont fold.
you clearly didn’t read my posts lol.
 
you clearly didn’t read my posts lol.
Tbf i got abit of experience tussling with the other side over a child i suppose that come out but all i got is that your bro a h03 in his relationship and your badmind family dont like his wife. You want your own clearly and i said go on then make em.
 

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Tbf i got abit of experience tussling with the other side over a child i suppose that come out but all i got is that your bro a h03 in his relationship and your badmind family dont like his wife. You want your own clearly and i said go on then make em.
Are you on your period
 

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@salma saluuni It would make sense if you guys have beef that she would act a certain way but since you guys been nothing but kind to her and she treats you guys bad your brother should have set the record straight with his wife nin walba sharafta reerkisa he must defend it at all cost cause if she talk shit about his family and sit back and do nothing he's a doqon
 
These are probably new parents/newly wed problems.

With time, people realize they need you and relax more.

My sis-in-law was a real pain in the haha a few years back and now we are on speed dial.
 

Abdalla

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Am I the only one that doesn't like newborn babies? They are too fragile, holding them freaks me out. I don't want to be known as the dhaadhaan that dropped a baby.

2-3 year olds arw the cutest, when they crawl and start walking.
 

Halimo Supremist

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Am I the only one that doesn't like newborn babies? They are too fragile, holding them freaks me out. I don't want to be known as the dhaadhaan that dropped a baby.

2-3 year olds arw the cutest, when they crawl and start walking.
I remember when I was a child I dropped my baby brother and he cried for like an hour. I've been paranoid ever since.
 

Odkac WRLD

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Your brother should have disciplined her the moment she showed disrespect to his sister and the woman who birthed him. I know I would've. :francis:
 

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