Are we making it OK for others to talk down about Somalis?

[SadioMane]

I noticed that Somali men and women are fighting each other on social media. When we are pulling each other down on twitter or tik tok or whatever - then others feel brave to do this as well. It's not a good look.

In real life I don't see this energy between somali men and women.

Do you guys notice as well?

How do we stop this?

 

[Desert Flower]

I noticed that Somali men and women are fighting each other on social media. When we are pulling each other down on twitter or tik tok or whatever - then others feel brave to do this as well. It's not a good look.

In real life I don't see this energy between somali men and women.

Do you guys notice as well?

How do we stop this?

It’s been like this forever. Somalis are seen as a nuisance wherever we go. And so other people think we’re loud and abrasive and have negative opinions about us.

Ex: Look at clubhouse and how we’ve cheapened it.

 

[SadioMane]

somalis incels like to work with incels to bash somali women and vice versa lol. at the end of the day your making a fool of yourself

The mad thing is that I was on tiktok and I saw this video joking about Arab women.
Out of nowhere some dude made a joke about Somali dudes.
Sad thing is that somali girls were enabling this.
I would never back another man mocking Somalis.

 

[Rocktheboat]

Yeah the way Somali men and women speak to each other on public platforms makes it seem like we hate each other. Other groups like getting involved for some reason as well

 

[SadioMane]

Yeah the way Somali men and women speak to each other on public platforms makes it seem like we hate each other. Other groups like getting involved for some reason as well

Crazy thing is that I've been talking to Somali women to get married. The mutual respect and compassion that we had is off the charts.

We got good women and men but this Internet nonsense is blurring people's vision.

 

[Dima&Damo]

Social media doesn't reflect real life

 

[Rocktheboat]

The mad thing is that I was on tiktok and I saw this video joking about Arab women.
Out of nowhere some dude made a joke about Somali dudes.
Sad thing is that somali girls were enabling this.
I would never back another man mocking Somalis.

on TikTok the other day I saw Arabs getting brave saying "Its always the somalis" speaking on Somali girls that were showing skin and a lot of Somali men were egging them on. It's plain out weird. Why does our ethnic group birth so many incels

 

[SadioMane]

Social media doesn't reflect real life

I agree 100% but we need to be image conscious. I grew up knowing always to take care of my people.

Some fools have become brave due to our disunity

 

[Mozart]

Somali gender dynamics will end up like AA in a decade.

 

[Dima&Damo]

I agree 100% but we need to be image conscious. I grew up knowing always to take care of my people.

Some fools have become brave due to our disunity

So Long As The House Is In Order No One Can Dissmantle It We Should Not Worry About Petty Shisheyeeye Shenanigans

 

[digaagjecel]

on TikTok the other day I saw Arabs getting brave saying "Its always the somalis" speaking on Somali girls that were showing skin and a lot of Somali men were egging them on. It's plain out weird. Why does our ethnic group birth so many incels

Crazy thing is Arab women literally don’t cover up at all in the west. It’s got so bad that even the Lebanese parents don’t cover themselves.

 

[Saredo]

I noticed that Somali men and women are fighting each other on social media. When we are pulling each other down on twitter or tik tok or whatever - then others feel brave to do this as well. It's not a good look.

In real life I don't see this energy between somali men and women.

Do you guys notice as well?

How do we stop this?

Well If we don’t respect ourselves first then no one else is going to. Somalis are loud on SM ( always fighting about low IQ stuff) and they love chasing clout.

 

[SadioMane]

Somali gender dynamics will end up like AA in a decade.

But we don't have to. It does not benefit us from a societal/deen/economic standpoint.

What is the solution?

 

[SadioMane]

Well If we don’t respect ourselves first then no one else is going to. Somalis are loud on SM ( always fighting about low IQ stuff) and they love chasing clout.

That's a good point never thought about it like that.

So how does one that has no xishood learn self respect?

 

[Netflix]

Crazy thing is Arab women literally don’t cover up at all in the west. It’s got so bad that even the Lebanese parents don’t cover themselves.

Lebanese aren’t all Muslim it’s an common misconception the population is evenly split into christian, Shias and Sunnis.

 

[Saredo]

That's a good point never thought about it like that.

So how does one that has no xishood learn self respect?

It’s something you grow up with I suppose, or something your parents teach you. I’m not sure. The problem is, these teenagers are on social media 24/7. It would be better for them to focus on their studies , deen, work out. Or do some real activities. Learn new skills etc. They need to take a step back, disconnect from SM for a while and clear their minds.

 

[Sophisticate]

These little twitter kids are merely imitating other groups with their gender wars on that toxic platform. They are utterly lacking in originality and appear to be following whatever agenda is doled out to the masses. It's very sad.

I'm going to defend the Abdis this round. I don't condone the use of the hackneyed term - incel. Since when was not fornicating an insult? Its baffling.

 

[elite1337]

These little twitter kids are merely imitating other groups with their gender wars on that toxic platform. They are utterly lacking in originality and appear to be following whatever agenda is doled out to the masses. It's very sad.

I'm going to defend the Abdis this round. I don't condone the use of the hackneyed term - incel. Since when was not fornicating an insult? Its baffling.

these days u get clowned on for being a virgin its so twisted

 

[Xaruun]

Crazy thing is Arab women literally don’t cover up at all in the west. It’s got so bad that even the Lebanese parents don’t cover themselves.

Arabs comprise a diverse range of nationalities, with some being way more liberal than somalis. People generalise all arabs as hyperconservative saudis

 

[Djokovic]

You man are too funny you talk about other ethnicities all day then get angry when people talk about Somalis loool