He really said that? I am not seeing the video. Either it was removed or doesn't load for me.
Anyways, I wonder if this is a psyop to try to make Islam look bad.
A person's intention has to be for God. Islam benefits in terms of akhirah and dunya but your intention is supposed to be for Allah.
Wallahi I think both Tate and Muhammad Hijab are freemasons. I've seen both of them seem to flash hand signs that made me think this.
Anyways, people should forget "Western dawah scene". People shouldn't be into these YouTube people to begin with. They just need to stick with real scholars.
We’ll have to see with Tate. He has just converted. But I do have issues with Western Dawah men. They have put him on a pedestal, hence they need to have a good word with him to stop advertising Muslim women to these non Muslim redpillers. We should empathizing aqeeda as that is the basis of being a Muslim, not women. Where is the gheerah. What is this? Get an Islamic wife? First become a Muslim, learn the basics of aqeedah, the five pillars ect, then think about getting an obedient wife. Also, who said fathers are going to give their daughters away to man on the internet who keeps on talking about women? They need to understand that in Islam, a woman can’t get married without the permission of their fathers, and do they really think they can convert to Islam and within a few weeks get a good wife when they're ignorant about what is expected of them?
how does that contradict what i said that a woman obeying her husband and pleasing him is a great deed in Islam? maybe in the shafi madhab she doesn’t have to in those circumstances, but if it pleases her husband would she get good deeds for doing so?
Yes, of course someone will get good deeds. Being loving and helpful is one way of gaining Jannah. Also, if your marriage is traditional in a sense that the husband works long hours and the wife is at home all day, then of course common sense dictates that she in turn looks after the home.
Btw, all madhabs apart from Salafis influenced by Ibn Taymiyya believe that cooking and cleaning isn't a wife's duty. Hanafis break it down a bit and make a distinction between the rich wife and poorer one. Also, if you look at Islamqa being Salafi, believe a woman's duty is to cook and clean but:
'There may be a servant to help her with that if her husband can afford it.
If the husband knows that the majority of scholars say that it is not obligatory for the wife to serve her husband and take care of the house, I say that one of the benefits of this may be that he will not go to extremes and demand too much'
Islamqa believes that a woman
should cook and clean, but notes that the majority of scholars throughout history believe a woman doesn't, hence even they argue that based on this, men shouldn't demand much.
However, marriage isn't based on fiqh. It's about kindness and helping each other. How is it kind for a woman with an average husband and no maids who is at home all day, do nothing when her husband comes back after a long hard day?
Likewise, as a husband having the mentality that your wife has to do everything for you because she's a woman is damaging because what she is doing is a form of kind sadaqa and you should be appreciative.