Age between marriage?

Legal is legal sxb. Also, how do we count what is and isn’t legal? This is Somalia, not the west. What are Somalias rules and regulations? What is Islam’s rules and regulations? We need to follow something and can’t go off personal morals
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I saw what @durwa posted, how his wife is 17 and he’s 28 (11 year difference).

Some people were saying it’s caathi since she’s mature, some people called him a Pedo (which is overboard).

What’s an acceptable age gap? Since he’s 28, what should his range be? And what premise do we make these ranges on?
aint he like 22 and hes jokin
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@durwa is a predator who travelled all the way to Somalia from the U.K to marry a 17 year old girl. Not only is she underage but that is his first cousin! He obviously had to go to a third world country to take advantage of the poor girls there because everyone in the west sees how much of a loser he really is.
Why do u assume the people back home are poor? Shes my relative and I'm from a good family! Alxamdulilah
 
Yes. He went to Somalia because he knows that the women back home are used to serving their husband and taking abuse from their man. He knows that no women in the west would deal with that bs
Trust me in somalia u gotta deal with the girls qabil if u f*ck with her. If the man doesn't have his way, he divorces the girl. Were not fucking pakis tf

Domestic abuse isn't practised by somalis, only the Ethiopiansand ajnabi do that shit. Our only issue is we hit the children which I don't agree. Somalis in the west live a more individualistic life and are more likely face abuse. I've heard many cases of Jamaicans beating their somali wives into a pulp where i came from :manny:
 

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Our only issue is we hit the children which I don't agree. Somalis in the west live a more individualistic life and are more likely face abuse.

I think many Somali parents are either too strict or too relaxed.
There's too many black parents out there
that go "you'd have to be somebody to get somewhere" attitude
they either push too hard for that or just let you fail all on your own
the love is all there but it's not easy to go through
just all of us learn not to care bout it no more cause
"Just Deal With It" - is the typical response we give out
yeah it's some issues that are taken too far when things are out of hand
but for the most part on regular things in life just no balance
agan summaa almost here - so time to kick it an break free!!!
(Lesson to Somali kids: you do what you want away from your parents anyway, so don't be shameful to them by giving their old black camel asses a break once in a while.)
 
cmon you honestly think a 28 year old should go for a 17 year old. that's weird
That isn’t weird in any sense, especially in Somali culture. My 32 year old cousin married a 16 year old woman, she has children with him and is happy with her marriage. Don’t use your subjective Westernized (feminist) understanding to judge different cultures and people.
 
Any man who is over the age of 30 and gets married to someone under the age of 20 is both a nonce and a manipulater. You have nothing in common with someone that age and the only reason you are getting married to someone that young is because any women that is of similar age will see through your manipulative ways. Disgusting.
 

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Any man who is over the age of 30 and gets married to someone under the age of 20 is both a nonce and a manipulater. You have nothing in common with someone that age and the only reason you are getting married to someone that young is because any women that is of similar age will see through your manipulative ways. Disgusting.
lol stfu simp :chrisfreshhah:
 
That isn’t weird in any sense, especially in Somali culture. My 32 year old cousin married a 16 year old woman, she has children with him and is happy with her marriage. Don’t use your subjective Westernized (feminist) understanding to judge different cultures and people.

People are free to do what they want as long as both parties are consenting. But highlighting this reality isn't feminist. It is a fact that massive age gaps are a lot more common in poorer nations. If Somalia's GDP increases, education and the livelihood of men and women, you will find less girls will be willing to be in relationships with men 15+ older than them.

There is a reason why the majority of young women in developed countries prefer guys who are only a few years older than them. I think you'll find its the same everywhere even in poorer nations like Somalia, but sometimes our basic need for stability and sustenance over comes this.
 
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I saw what @durwa posted, how his wife is 17 and he’s 28 (11 year difference).

Some people were saying it’s caathi since she’s mature, some people called him a Pedo (which is overboard).

What’s an acceptable age gap? Since he’s 28, what should his range be? And what premise do we make these ranges on?
Well it depends. 11 years difference sound like a lot between 17 and 28 but it's nothing if it's between 30 and 41 or even 25 and 36.
 

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