Age between marriage?

it’s not just a little mental maturity it’s 8 whole years of life experience. are you the same person you were 8yrs ago? probably not.
people shouldn’t be making huge life changing decisions like marriage at the age of 17.
People have been getting married in Somalia from the age of 15+ for hundreds if not thousands of years. But people lose their shit when a Somali from the west does it. Why?
 

King Khufu

Dignified Gentlemen
Legal is legal sxb. Also, how do we count what is and isn’t legal? This is Somalia, not the west. What are Somalias rules and regulations? What is Islam’s rules and regulations? We need to follow something and can’t go off personal morals


Lol in Africa I can have 4 wives (older than me if I chose) being only a younger person myself
with my own property inheritance to build a settlement for my family to garnish comfortably.
The rules are very much more different back home - I meant it when I said the young rule first!
 
he seems like that weird kid. he went to Somalia just to find a wife that he could "mould" (his words not mine) to be perfect.
Yes. He went to Somalia because he knows that the women back home are used to serving their husband and taking abuse from their man. He knows that no women in the west would deal with that bs
 
he seems like that weird kid. he went to Somalia just to find a wife that he could "mould" (his words not mine) to be perfect.
“Mould her into the perfect wife. Basically, I thought she could learn and grow with me.” Let’s not take things out of context here :farmajoyaab:
But yeah I do see what you mean.
Now let me ask you this, if he married someone who he wasn’t married to in Somalia and they both agreed to it, would it be bad? Let’s say she’s 17 as well
 
Yes. He went to Somalia because he knows that the women back home are used to serving their husband and taking abuse from their man. He knows that no women in the west would deal with that bs
Abuse? What makes you think he wants to abuse her? So if a man wants to marry a woman from Somalia, that means he wants to take advantage of her? I think we’re jumping to conclusions here. Their are thousands of reasons on why he wanted to marry someone from Somalia.

Both the husband and the wife serve each other, this isn’t one sided.
 
“Mould her into the perfect wife. Basically, I thought she could learn and grow with me.” Let’s not take things out of context here :farmajoyaab:
that doesn't make it any better. that makes it worse
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he admits that she doesn't have any life experience
 
maybe. maybe not. I don't know. all I know as a 16 year old I probably have a lot of growing between now and 28 :manny:
She’s 17, not 16.

But you live in the west, you get to experience something new every day and broaden your horizons. She lives in Somalia, she sees the same thing every day.
 

King Khufu

Dignified Gentlemen
She’s 17, not 16.

As creep as it sounds
the age of consent in most places now has been 16+ up.

Is the Age of Consent 16 and 17 in Majority of US States? | Snopes.com
"In around 30 states across the U.S., the age of consent is 16 years old. Meanwhile, in just a handful of states, the age of consent is 17 years old. In more than eleven states, including Florida, the age of consent is 18 years old."

Doesn't mean you can take advantage perversely; but it's not actually all that bad.

However I do forewarn it goes further:
Age of Consent in the US By State - WorldAtlas
"In 32 of the US states, the legal age of consent is 16 years. They include Alaska, Alabama, Arkansas, District of Columbia, Connecticut, Georgia, Indiana, Hawaii, Iowa, Kentucky, Kansas, Maine, Massachusetts, Maryland, Michigan, Mississippi, Minnesota, Montana, Nevada, Nebraska, New Jersey, New Hampshire, North Carolina, Oklahoma, Ohio, Pennsylvania, South Carolina, Rhode Island, South Dakota, Vermont, West Virginia, and Washington.
18 of these states have close in age exemption laws which protect underage couples who consent to sexual activities from prosecution, even in cases where one of the partners is slightly over the age of consent."
 
As creep as it sounds
the age of consent in most places now has been 16+ up.

Is the Age of Consent 16 and 17 in Majority of US States? | Snopes.com
"In around 30 states across the U.S., the age of consent is 16 years old. Meanwhile, in just a handful of states, the age of consent is 17 years old. In more than eleven states, including Florida, the age of consent is 18 years old."

Doesn't mean you can take advantage perversely; but it's not actually all that bad.

However I do forewarn it goes further:
Age of Consent in the US By State - WorldAtlas
"In 32 of the US states, the legal age of consent is 16 years. They include Alaska, Alabama, Arkansas, District of Columbia, Connecticut, Georgia, Indiana, Hawaii, Iowa, Kentucky, Kansas, Maine, Massachusetts, Maryland, Michigan, Mississippi, Minnesota, Montana, Nevada, Nebraska, New Jersey, New Hampshire, North Carolina, Oklahoma, Ohio, Pennsylvania, South Carolina, Rhode Island, South Dakota, Vermont, West Virginia, and Washington.
18 of these states have close in age exemption laws which protect underage couples who consent to sexual activities from prosecution, even in cases where one of the partners is slightly over the age of consent."
I see. But we can’t apply this to them since they’re currently in Somalia. We need to follow Islam when we’re pressed with these issues :jcoleno:

I want to see @durwa @Angelina @Amirah @Arma @Nak-Muay-Kru @mr steal your naag response to this, I think they’d have some interesting points.

Read the whole thread and tell me what you think:
 

King Khufu

Dignified Gentlemen
I see. But we can’t apply this to them since they’re currently in Somalia. We need to follow Islam when we’re pressed with these issues :jcoleno:

Believe it or not the official age of consent in Somalia is listed as "18"
but not many of us young guys actually live by it (Since most of us marry at youth anyhow)
It's a different world out there for everybody saxiib.

I'd say if I wait for a good girl whose a virgin to be around than if God permits it will go to happen for myself.
 
Believe it or not the official age of consent in Somalia is listed as "18"
but not many of us little niggas actually live by it (Since most of us marry young anyhow)
It's a different world out there for everybody saxiib.

I'd say if I wait for a good girl whose a virgin to be around than if God permits it will go to happen for myself.
Mashallah brother
 

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