Afar Xaasle Taakeeye is back and is now joining Macalin Xaliye '''Gabdhaha Ninkii Lacag Siiya Waa Daanyeer'

[Angelina]

In the west there are also women who are after money and they often date older men in a sugardaddy relationships.. I think men especially Muslim ones should treat women with respect and honor their honor not spread false rumors or slandering on social media, the reason for dating someone is with the intention of marriage if you are musim, during this period you can test out how you match and your chemistry etc.. If you have money and marry a poorer woman one should still honor her and give her the best possible life he can afford... But unfortunately we have seen some men who take advantage of poor women back in Africa, they go there and become sex tourist, this is very wrong and against our deen and culture.

Yes, but itsn't as common at all. The average woman in the West is married to a man who is only 2-4 years older and is of a similar background as her. Compared Western Xalimos to the ones back home. It is very rare to see a wedding of a UK or Scandinavian 23 yr old Xalimo with a 45 yr old man, yet it is common back home.

Actual statistics shows that the poorer or less economically advanced a nation is, the bigger the age gap. Why? Because priorities are very different for women and families back home.

 

[Abdisamad]

Yes, but itsn't as common at all. The average woman in the West is married to a man who is only 2-4 years older and is of a similar background as her.

Actual statistics shows that the poorer or less economically advanced a nation is, the bigger the age gap. Why? Because priorities are very different for women and families back home.

Well to be honest I don't have the statistics on this, but here where I live many couples are not married and they just have casual sex or live in a boyfriend and girlfriend relationships.. I know there's younger women who are most often times university students etc. Who are in a relationship with older men who finance their shoppings, internet/phone subscriptions or otherwise help them financially in different ways this in return for sex favors, so even in wealthy nations this kinda stuff happens but it is not visible because it is kinda taboo.

 

[Angelina]

Well to be honest I don't have the statistics on this, but here where I live many couples are not married and they just have casual sex or live in a boyfriend and girlfriend relationships.. I know there's younger women who are most often times university students etc. Who are in a relationship with older men who finance their shoppings, internet/phone subscriptions or otherwise help them financially in different ways this in return for sex favors, so even in wealthy nations this kinda stuff happens but it is not visible because it is kinda taboo.

My point is, it isn't common. The average young girl isn't with or settling down with a 50 yr old.

Look at your own community. How many times have you seen a Western 23 yr old Xalimo marry a 45-50 yr old man?

Marriage still happens where you are from? Even in cohabitation, the men are usually of a similar age and are usually 2-4 years older.

Sugarbabes ect is different to settling down. It is similar to whoring for money as these women aren't in relationships ect.

 

[Woke1.4rm.Shibis]

I agree with afar xaasley why on earth will you give money to a women your not married to , any clown who does that ain't serious about life .

Having 4 wives isn't something to brag about acting like he hit the jackpot somalis glamorize polygamy too much just shows theres 0 love 0 loyalty in such a marriage

Hes not bragging .if you watched the video youd know his wifes dearly love him and are happy that their husband is practicing sunnah . You seem jealous of mudane taakeeye , jealousy is a female trait my brother .work hard and you might be lucky to practice this sunnah .

 

[Angelina]

I agree with afar xaasley why on earth will you give money to a women your not married to , any clown who does that ain't serious about life .


Hes not bragging .if you watched the video youd know his wifes dearly love him and are happy that their husband is practicing sunnah . You seem jealous of mudane taakeeye , jealousy is a female trait my brother .work hard and you might be lucky to practice this sunnah .

Everyone is saying he has murdered and is a murderer. There is no smoke without a fire. You're literally defending someone for getting with extra women? Are you not ashamed?

 

[Woke1.4rm.Shibis]

Everyone is saying he has murdered and is a murderer. There is no smoke without a fire. You're literally defending someone for getting with extra women? Are you not ashamed?

Ppl are saying he murdered ppl in the u.s.a , some are saying he murdered ppl in Europe, some ppl are saying he murdered ppl in canada and few are saying he murdered ppl In somalia . Sorry for not being gullible but I dont know which group of ppl to belive , it seems to me somali men are jealous of his success in bussines and securing 4 wifes . I dont defend ppl I dont know and havent defended him . if you read my post youd come to find out that I simply agreed with him when he said a men shouldnt give money to women hes not married to . Since you accused him of murdering ppl plz enlighten me on how many ppl he murdered and which continent .dont bring me she said he said shit either bring me paper works that shouldnt be hard as we live in the age of information

 

[Angelina]

Ppl are saying he murdered ppl in the u.s.a , some are saying he murdered ppl in Europe, some ppl are saying he murdered ppl in canada and few are saying he murdered ppl In somalia . Sorry for not being gullible but I dont know which group of ppl to belive , it seems to me somali men are jealous of his success in bussines and securing 4 wifes . I dont defend ppl I dont know and havent defended him . if you read my post youd come to find out that I simply agreed with him when he said a men shouldnt spend money on women hes not married to . Since you accused him of murdering ppl plz enlighten me on how many ppl he murdered and which continent .dont bring me she said he said shit either bring me paper works that shouldnt be hard as we live in the age of information

Nah, some people have evidence and its something multiple people have mentioned. Murder is a huge thing nor is it something commonly thrown around. Only Allah knows, but my whole point is, there isn't smoke without fire.

Lets be real, having 4 wives back home is an easy achievement for any Western passport carrying Farax with a bit of money, so please explain how is he exactly very successful? You can work as an ubber driver or a truck driver in the America and get 4. Is that how low our standards are?!

 

[Woke1.4rm.Shibis]

That’s what am saying!!!!! They disgust me! I hope those men and women that protect these evil people get their karma!

This guy literally killed two Somali men and ran to Somalia. He went to a refugee camp to marry vulnerable women. Our community is disgusting! I for one do not abide by that stupid ceeb culture.

Xaliye started a evil sunnah and he will be held accountable. These poor women were already vulnerable are now going to be exploited even more! I hope he gets his karma in this dunya and the hereafter!

Alhamdulilah I live in the west and have the opportunity to go to school and work! May Allah protect me from ever depending on any men and women ameeen

The more I enter the Somali community the more I become disgusted. #exsomali. Am ashamed that I share the same ethnicity with these barbaric people uffffff

Somali women don’t feel pressure to stay with these farax! Marry out to whoever respect you and your family! Make sure to vet them properly! Don’t deviate from your non negotiables.

We live in interesting times….

I had no idea there was evil sunnahs
Can you elaborate?

 

[HiraanBorn]

The more I enter the Somali community the more I become disgusted. #exsomali. Am ashamed that I share the same ethnicity with these barbaric people uffffff

Relax sxb a few bad apples doesn't ruin the harvest

 

[Abdisamad]

Relax sxb a few bad apples doesn't ruin the harvest

@Aboow right now

 

[Woke1.4rm.Shibis]

Nah, some people have evidence and its something multiple people have mentioned. Murder is a huge thing and lets be real, having 4 wives back home is an easy achievement for any Western passport carrying Farax with a bit of money, so please explain how is he exactly successful?

So your not going to bring evidence of taakeeye murdering ppl but you'll call him a murderer because you heard someone said he murdered ppl ?
Give me a break .
Ppl do get jealous of others success specially if your a bussines men .
That afar girl @Aboow Is here to cause fitnah between somali males and females laakin I'm still trying to figure out why your soo keen on spreading propganda against somali men even calling them murderous when you yourself cant provide any evidence .

 

[Abdisamad]

My point is, it isn't common. The average young girl isn't with or settling down with a 50 yr old.

Look at your own community. How many times have you seen a Western 23 yr old Xalimo marry a 45-50 yr old man?

Marriage still happens where you are from? Even in cohabitation, the men are usually of a similar age and are usually 2-4 years older.

Sugarbabes ect is different to settling down. It is similar to whoring for money as these women aren't in relationships ect.

I haven't been to Somalia, so I don't know or have the statistics on the marriage dynamics or age gaps between the genders.. But inshallah khair..

 

[Mercury]

Hes not bragging .if you watched the video youd know his wifes dearly love him and are happy that their husband is practicing sunnah . You seem jealous of mudane taakeeye , jealousy is a female trait my brother .work hard and you might be lucky to practice this sunnah .

Of course it isn't bragging when you appear on bbc news I find it funny somalis deem this newsworthy as if its a hard thing to accomplish theres taxi drivers in europe that got 3-4wives back home

 

[Mercury]

I can't take them seriously when it comes to their claims of golddigging. They know damn well what they're doing, but they want to cry 'victim'.

They go to a country which lacks stability unfortunately (May Allah give us peace and prosperity) and get with a type of young woman whom they're not able to attract in the West. They know these women are poor and care about financial gain rather than attraction and personality ect, yet they want to cry golddigger.

Talking about golddiggers in the Somali back home context is foul. Let our people get peace, 1st rate education, better job market, economic opportunities and development ect and only then can we talk about golddigging.

Those guys claiming the girl is gold digging will never admit they went back home to marry out of their league

He married her for her looks and she married him cause of the stability he can provide and the chance to get to the west

 

[Abdisamad]

@Mercury
@Angelina

Why do you guys always look down on taxi drivers, warehouse workers and truck drivers.. Aren't they all roles needed to make our society function? When I read you guys replies it seems like hordes of Uber and truck drivers who are middle-aged are going in droves to Somalia to cuff young 18 year old xalimos.. Are things this bad back at home? I know no one of those guys going back home to get married.

 

[TekNiKo]

Ppl are saying he murdered ppl in the u.s.a , some are saying he murdered ppl in Europe, some ppl are saying he murdered ppl in canada and few are saying he murdered ppl In somalia . Sorry for not being gullible but I dont know which group of ppl to belive , it seems to me somali men are jealous of his success in bussines and securing 4 wifes . I dont defend ppl I dont know and havent defended him . if you read my post youd come to find out that I simply agreed with him when he said a men shouldnt give money to women hes not married to . Since you accused him of murdering ppl plz enlighten me on how many ppl he murdered and which continent .dont bring me she said he said shit either bring me paper works that shouldnt be hard as we live in the age of information

The dude is a millionaire and owns multiple apartment complexes yet she is saying average Uber Driver can get the same thing lol. No Uber driver can afford four wives ridiculous. I think Somalis especially Xalimos spread that fake rumour to sully his name. You think BBC would interview a killer?

Nonsense

 

[Angelina]

@Mercury
@Angelina

Why do you guys always look down on taxi drivers, warehouse workers and truck drivers.. Aren't they all roles needed to make our society function? When I read you guys replies it seems like hordes of Uber and truck drivers who are middle-aged are going in droves to Somalia to cuff young 18 year old xalimos.. Are things this bad back at home? I know no one of those guys going back home to get married.

Nothing wrong with them, but it's a low skilled job that doesn't require studying and or brainpower. Many people don't aspire to become ubber drivers or warehouse workers. Who dreams of being one? Our parents had no choice but to enter those proffessions as they are the easiest jobs to get so that they can put money on the table, hence I would never look down on those roles. At the end of the day, everyone wants to feed their families, so good for them.

Lol, many middle aged odeys who do happen to work in those sectors do go back home for a young wife though? I didn't say they go in droves, but marrying back home is easier for both genders tbh, but its simply men who are more likely to take advantage of that.

 

[Angelina]

The dude is a millionaire and owns multiple apartment complexes yet she is saying average Uber Driver can get the same thing lol. No Uber driver can afford four wives ridiculous. I think Somalis especially Xalimos spread that fake rumour to sully his name. You think BBC would interview a killer?

Nonsense

Lol, are you denying that the cost of living is cheap in Somalia? You can send a wife 200 dollars a month and there are truck drivers earning 100k a yr. Of course they can marry multiple women.

You don't need to be a multimillionaire in Somalia to be polygamous. If that was the case, polygamy would not be common back home.

I know average men who have multiple wives back home. Don't try it. Don't you even have two wives and you're an uber driver as well?! Do you simply argue for the sake of arguing?

 

[TekNiKo]

Lol, are you denying that the cost of living is cheap in Somalia? You can send a wife 200 dollars a month and there are truck drivers earning 100k a yr. Of course they can marry multiple women.

You don't need to be a multimillionaire in Somalia to be polygamous. If that was the case, polygamy would not be common back home.

I know average men who have multiple wives back home. Don't try it. Don't you even have two wives and you're an uber driver as well?! Do you simply argue for the sake of arguing?

200 dollars a month kulaha you really think lowly of our sisters back home. 200 wont even cover the rent in places like Nairobi and Muqdishu. This is not the 90s anymore and not that cheap. It can cost upwards of a 600 -1000 dollar a month.

 

[Angelina]

So your not going to bring evidence of taakeeye murdering ppl but you'll call him a murderer because you heard someone said he murdered ppl ?
Give me a break .
Ppl do get jealous of others success specially if your a bussines men .
That afar girl @Aboow Is here to cause fitnah between somali males and females laakin I'm still trying to figure out why your soo keen on spreading propganda against somali men even calling them murderous when you yourself cant provide any evidence .

200 dollars a month kulaha you really think lowly of our sisters back home. 200 wont even cover the rent in places like Nairobi and Muqdishu. This is not the 90s anymore and not that cheap. It can cost upwards of a 600 -1000 dollar a month.

Lol, in Moqdishu in certain places it really does. Nairobi not so much. I'm not talking about Kenya. But lets not lie, £500 pounds NOT canadian dollars is more than enough for a woman back home, but it wouldn't be enough for a person in the West.

It isn't about thinking lowly, its about actual cost of living and not personal standards. Also, poverty is rife there, but keep lying to yourself that an 18 yr old is attracted to a 60 yr old man. Even young men are now marrying middle aged habars now, but they did out of love did they and not because of money?!

Lol, very rare are people paying 1000 dollars a month. That is mostly the diaspors and the upper classes there. Don't try and compare housing in Somalia to that of London and Toronto.

One thing i've noticed on this app is the manipulation and the gaslighting. Many on here lament the cost of living in the West. How expensive marrying here is and many of you guys have including yourself routinely talk about how cheaper marrying and living back home is, but all of a sudden now that i'm saying it, you want to change the narrative?!