AbdiExit gone wrong

Ye we are the biggest group lakiin there are many madows here, even if they hated on us they aint rated like Somalis. Ive seen them try it like the (gambians) lakiin wa langaab and they get shut down quite quickly. But generally the madows here look up too Somalis and dont have that vendetta against us. The madows here are a different demographic however not the Jamacians & Nigerians who seem to have a huge complex towards Somalis.
Both Canada and USA have it less worse then the UK because they aint boxed in with ajnabi hater aswell as spread out as a group.

In MM somalis live together in the same area and there the biggest madow group over there even over AAs.

Lol I think the issue maybe being around other madows as a minority within a minority.
 
Yeah there has been a major shift which is why I can't say this is just an online matter when the dynamics are different now irl. Plus if we are the only one acting this way online then there's definitely something off
Ye in a sense online world might be a reflection, and the tight knit community might be harmed. But one thing we have to realise is the people on socials are the dysfunctional trailer trash people. Every single big tiktoker fobs and say wallahi are not a reflection of the average Somali. One thing ive realised Somalis thrive of negativity & chaos. Makes sense why Qabiil FKD & gender war is thriving just on different continents but same dynamic.
Both Canada and USA have it less worse then the UK because they aint boxed in with ajnabi hater aswell as spread out as a group.

In MM somalis live together in the same area and there the biggest madow group over there even over AAs.

Lol I think the issue maybe being around other madows as a minority within a minority.
Ye 1hunid. I think Madows except Somalis to be like them & accept them. All this madows no matter their ethnicity go to the same parties and feel a connection. So when they see us havin distance towards them & not seekin their approval + lookin diff / bein muslim it makes them feel a certain way.
 
How has it gotten to the point where ajnabis have to step in and defend against these wild generalisations. Some of these girls are moving like the edl just for a few likes no one else does this and the whole comments section is filled with these self hating types:snoop:

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Some Somali girls have this unexplainable need to copy anything Black American women do...from acting like ratchet hood rats to spewing pure vitriol about their men. These self loathing Xalimos that cosplay like AA saw AA women referring to AA men as bullet bags and other disrespectful terms and have fully jumped on the bandwagon by disrespecting Somali men. There is no reasoning with them.
 

Aegon

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The immigration in UK is litteraly a melting polt, they put many ajnabis togethers in the same area, that's why every ethnicites is hanging out with another, these kids have grown up together.

Meanwhile, USA always have a segregation/communitarian society, that's why Somali are hanging out practically only with each other, like blacks or latino or white does.
 
Some Somali girls have this unexplainable need to copy anything Black American women do...from acting like ratchet hood rats to spewing pure vitriol about their men. These self loathing Xalimos that cosplay like AA saw AA women referring to AA men as bullet bags and other disrespectful terms and have fully jumped on the bandwagon by disrespecting Somali men. There is no reasoning with them.
Why is there no reasoning with them? I always come across women who say they used to be like that so clearly they can change and be reasoned with and I think other women would be most effective in doing that by challenging them instead of being quiet about it.
 

Aegon

The Conqueror, King of all Westeros
Some Somali girls have this unexplainable need to copy anything Black American women do...from acting like ratchet hood rats to spewing pure vitriol about their men. These self loathing Xalimos that cosplay like AA saw AA women referring to AA men as bullet bags and other disrespectful terms and have fully jumped on the bandwagon by disrespecting Somali men. There is no reasoning with them.
That's the dominant culture in mainstream medias, that's why.

It's exactly the same with Somali guys wearing durags
 

Mozart

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Why is there no reasoning with them? I always come across women who say they used to be like that so clearly they can change and be reasoned with and I think other women would be most effective in doing that by challenging them instead of being quiet about it.
They change because it’s time to get married. So many guys will have kids who hate themselves and it’ll be because of who they chose to have kids with.
 
They change because it’s time to get married. So many guys will have kids who hate themselves and it’ll be because of who they chose to have kids with.
That's the thing when I say they don't have respect. They just end up making the guys life miserable because they probably felt like they where settling since they still hate or have uqdad for somali guys.
so the cycle of 1 to 2 years of marriage continues.
 
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How do you know they haven’t seen a lot of issues in their own parents marriages, aunts and the like? My parents are still married Alhamdulliah, but I’ve seen some screwed up stuff with family members, cousins and the like and going back home also left a bad taste in my mouth with regards to the lack of accountability of Somali men, obviously not all. In the real world, I have enough emotional intelligence to not let that get in the way of my relationship and tried to the best of my abilities in the talking stages to not judge a man based on other people’s experiences.

Let’s be real, this attack doesn’t happen in real life, only online. In the real world, many of you lot won’t even be attacked if you decided to leave your children and the list goes on. Your dealing with the frustrated rants of young women online, that is it.

It’s not the experiences of a mere few. At this point it’s become part of our culture. In nearly every wider family, there is at least one father that has decided to not bother with the kids, or father that spends most of his time at cafes and hardly provides or one that has went back to Africa at 50 to marry a 16 yr old whilst the wife works in care. There is at least one. Most will have at least one uncle or a bunch of uncles like this is if they’re lucky enough to not have a father like that.

With that, you’re right, we’ll have to wait and see. I can’t say at all that younger Faraxs do this or that. But what’s also an issue is that Faraxs between the ages of 27-35 aren’t doing as well as their female counterparts. The issue is that admitting this, is an ego killer for a lot of men. So now we have young women on attack mode and young men whose strategy is to deny reality.

None of that is an excuse for how some of these Somali girls degrade and demonize Somali men online to the point that even some ajanabis are shocked. Also, when challenged and advised to not project their dysfunctional family onto others, they often claim to have perfectly normal male relatives.

Many communities have similar challenges but you don't see so many of their young women smear all of their men like this. Especially not when outsiders are using slurs against the ethnicity as a whole. I have seen Xalimos co signing comments where ajanabis are calling us "s".

This goes beyond ranting/venting online. Its far more insidious. There is no denying that too many Somali women online have zero loyalty to their ethnicity and they will gladly throw their own under the bus. If they're not badmouting Somali mothers, culture, its Somali men. Even when that madow man threw a brick in the face of that girl, they turned it onto Somali men that weren't even there. When Somali women are murdered by their ajanabi husbands, you won't see them generalise ajanabi men. But let a Somali man do something and they're quick to smear them all.

Remember that Somali taxi driver that was falsely accused? Somali girls were quick to insult his looks even more viciously than the ajanabis without even waiting for the full story to come out. Anything to fit in with our haters.

Other groups of people might have their own gender wars but they still understand that they are the same ethnicity. For some of these Xalimos, you would genuinely think that they are a different ethnicity and they act like they're the "good Somalis" versus Somali men.

I firmly believe that this all comes down to some Somali women suffering from an inferiority complex and self hatred and they deflect this onto Somali men. There is also an element of wanting to be more liberal and feeling held down by Somali men who are often more conservative.
 
None of that is an excuse for how some of these Somali girls degrade and demonize Somali men online to the point that even some ajanabis are shocked. Also, when challenged and advised to not project their dysfunctional family onto others, they often claim to have perfectly normal male relatives.
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Why is there no reasoning with them? I always come across women who say they used to be like that so clearly they can change and be reasoned with and I think other women would be most effective in doing that by challenging them instead of being quiet about it.

From experience, you will only be called a pick me if you challenge them or are accused of being a Somali man pretending to a woman.

Those that change often had a rude awakening at the hands of ajanabis which finally opened their eyes to the fact that we're all we got.
 
Some Somali girls have this unexplainable need to copy anything Black American women do...from acting like ratchet hood rats to spewing pure vitriol about their men. These self loathing Xalimos that cosplay like AA saw AA women referring to AA men as bullet bags and other disrespectful terms and have fully jumped on the bandwagon by disrespecting Somali men. There is no reasoning with them.

A lot of them started calling themselves divestors too. The AA influence is so nasty

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@cooli3o I'm only writing essays because I'm planning on getting married rather soon. I would be damned if I got married to a self hating somali girl and if I can't find one that's normal I'm just gonna have to branch out but I don't want to but if It comes to that I will. Your not even interested in marriage so of course you would have a problem with the essays but I'm gonna keep doing them if I have to.
 

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