The dynamic on the Somali-Afar border is also not favorable to Afar men taking Somali wives. Historically, it was Somali men taking Afar wives, and rarely the other way around. You will never see Somalis claim Afar male ancestors, but you will see Afar men who claim Somali male ancestors. Case in point, the Afar prime minister of Djibouti (Abdulqadir Kamil) and other Afar politicians who claim that their clan descends from Somalis (specifically Warsangeli).
Somalis have a sort of ethno-cultural and a very small tinge of "racial" dominance over the Afar, albiet the Afar will never tell you that. It isn't to the degree towards the Oromo. Afars were traditionally seen as a lower people then Somalis, but not as low as Oromos and Habashas were traditionally seen.
The Afar T1 more likely have Isse and Dir male ancestors. There are many Afar who belong to clans that descend from Isse men. Isse and Somali men bordering the Afar marry their women, and kill their men. The Afar kill Somali men but also assimilated many, even enemy Somali warriors, but also sailors.
Any proof that Somalis took more Afar wives rather than vice versa?
I think you're heavily downplaying Qafari social standing just because they're a relatively new tribe and not much is known about them, and u seem to throw a lot of "if" and "maybe" aroubd when talking about them. Seems biased.
There's never been any type of dominance or superiority towards the Afars either. Them being a different tribe and being in smaller numbers might make Somalis see them as lesser but history tells us different, they've never been looked down on or abused by Somalis. If anything, the Afar conflict in Djiobuti showed that Afars have no problem stepping on Somalis, they're agressive.
"The dynamic on the Somali-Afar border is also not favorable to Afar men taking Somali wives. Historically, it was Somali men taking Afar wives, and rarely the other way around. You will never see Somalis claim Afar male ancestors"
There's no proof to what you said there....they're just pure assumptions
Somalis have a sort of ethno-cultural and a very small tinge of "racial" dominance over the Afar, albiet the Afar will never tell you that. It isn't to the degree towards the Oromo. Afars were traditionally seen as a lower people then Somalis, but not as low as Oromos and Habashas were traditionally seen.
The only Oromos that were seen as inferior were the galla pagans and even those were seen as racially equivalent to the Somalis, even more beautiful at times. Soma gallas even enslaved and captured Somalis but not as much as Somalis did to them.
It's even documented that Somalis in the Ogaden gave their daughters to Oromo men for permission to use and work on the vast Oromo lands. Some Somali clans have been entirely absorbed by Oromos in the past, this is well known, and they're doing it till this day.