28f Toronto Somali woman really struggling to make friends and find a husband

[JackieBurkhart]

Mid.

I thought you were like this..............

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

no wonder you sound smart and polite.

I could be awfully rude, for I am a Brit, then again, therein not lies the gen.

 

[Odious Delirium]

It is so hard for women to find husband compared to men finding wives. I think it’s because men can just move to women whilst most women look down on doing such thing so they have to wait to get courted and approached

Women have to be more proactive to increase there chances of getting picked.

One thing women don't realise tho is that if they tried initiating 99% of the time they would have success.

 

[Yaraye]

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[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

I thought you were like this..............

Possibly.

 

[Yaraye]

I could be awfully rude, for I am a Brit, then again, therein not lies the gen.

I don't think i can ever imagine you rude

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

I don't think i can ever imagine you rude

Not worth it, or appropriate, esp. amongst Somalis, no.

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

I thought you were like this..............

Come to think of it, no one is as old Baroness Jackie

 

[JackieBurkhart]

Come to think of it, no one is as old Baroness Jackie

I'm afraid I have too much of a temper to be an older lady. Some would say it's the recklessness of my youth.

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

I'm afraid I have too much of a temper to be an older lady. Some would say it's the recklessness of my youth.

Oh you are mint, am teasing you.

 

[mrlog]

@mrlog, don't talk shit about me and then delete it. Wasn't this you the other day:

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[World]

It is so hard for women to find husband compared to men finding wives. I think it’s because men can just move to women whilst most women look down on doing such thing so they have to wait to get courted and approached

They should still make it obvious to a guy that they like them, smile at him and look at him. They be acting like they aren’t interested at all and avoid eye contact whilst liking a guy.

 

[Waa dhamatay]

It is so hard for women to find husband compared to men finding wives. I think it’s because men can just move to women whilst most women look down on doing such thing so they have to wait to get courted and approached

Well that’s just self inflicted isn’t it lol. If you don’t put any effort in ofc you’ll struggle finding someone

 

[Yaraye]

They should still make it obvious to a guy that they like them, smile at him and look at him. They be acting like they aren’t interested at all and avoid eye contact whilst liking a guy.

I've seen women do that and the guy still doesn't get a f*cking hint. they think she's just being nice

 

[Lostbox]

You do think you anxiety is holding you back from living life? You have something limiting you to just do something simple as make a friend or get into a relationship

 

[AbdiFreedom]

What would be considered picky tho? Where is the line between normal and reasonable requirements and picky/highly unrealistic ones in your opinion?

Picky is anything beyond attraction, bringing peace/kind and having shared goals/values and providing.

It is so hard for women to find husband compared to men finding wives. I think it’s because men can just move to women whilst most women look down on doing such thing so they have to wait to get courted and approached

Have a neutral smiling face and many men will stick to come to them like flies to shit. Lots of Black people have mean neutral faces. That's not approachable. If you're a Black person who has a neutral smiling face, many fellow Black people think you're a weirdo.

 

[Man with a garuun]

Are you American by any chance? It’s a lot harder to move up financially in Canada compared to the US.

Yes. But I only have a job and did not move the latter up.