Odious Delirium
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im going into the tech industry myself but no i don't know any american tech bros. ill get back to you if i get acquainted with anydo you know any in MN? asking for a friend
im going into the tech industry myself but no i don't know any american tech bros. ill get back to you if i get acquainted with anydo you know any in MN? asking for a friend
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Lol this is the type of behaviour I’m talking about. Just bare assumptions and my post was about finding a solution for myself. No where did I blame Somali men and for the record I didn’t talk to guys when I was younger because I believed it was haram to be too friendly with them. I was always respectful. When I was in uni the ratio was 1:4 guys to girls. The odds were not in my favour then. Furthermore, there are young women who feel the same way but they’re just more passive about it. When I asked for people to introduce me to guys I was 22/23 but I was told either a) that’s not our culture or b) your great you probably have so many guys throwing themselves at you.
make sure to remember me when ever your somali tech friends/ colleague ask for a decent somali womanim going into the tech industry myself but no i don't know any american tech bros. ill get back to you if i get acquainted with any
im a shy guy myself i actually answered this in a thread i made way back ill send you the thread
I am overtly aggressive
it’s a dog eat dog world
got xaniinyo waaweyn on the table 24/7
They’re a rarity bro. I volunteered extensively with job agencies during high school, simply put most Somali fobs brought to America by women don’t end up doing well. And if they do, it took them years to get there. If a Somali woman marries a fob man she has to accept she’ll be the provider for at least the first 5 years, if not more.I disagree with your claims here. I go to Starbucks and meet all of these Somali fob guys who are all running businesses, and some of them are millionaires. I have yet to see guys born or raised outscoring the FOB guys.
As for the sister, culture and compatibility may become an issue for her, but if he meets a brother with akhlaaq and willing their relationship to work, I think she should go for it irrespective of him being a fob or western-raised ones.
There are not many, as I am yet to encounter any at conferences.do you know any in MN? asking for a friend
What do most gen z somalis go into over there industry wise?There are not many, as I am yet to encounter any at conferences.
I am afraid I have not got the faintest idea, as I do not see many where I live. I hear of Nursing, and Public Health for the ladies, and Buss/Finances for the gents.What do most gen z somalis go into over there industry wise?
They’re a rarity bro. I volunteered extensively with job agencies during high school, simply put most Somali fobs brought to America by women don’t end up doing well. And if they do, it took them years to get there. If a Somali woman marries a fob man she has to accept she’ll be the provider for at least the first 5 years, if not more.
If she’s stay at home and relies on his income they’ll be living in poverty and pain. Facts.
Any tips for picky men and women?Your problem is you're a recluse and still expect a husband. This is different from picky people. You just chose to not engage with anyone to the point that you even lost your own friends during the pandemic. These are two separate issues. If you put yourself out there in society, someone would have taken you.
Any tips for picky men and women?
What would be considered picky tho? Where is the line between normal and reasonable requirements and picky/highly unrealistic ones in your opinion?I'll PM you.
That's odd. My younger male cousin who is currently is high school is planning on getting into that field. One of the biggest reasons why he got in was due to his older male dugsi friends convincing him. A lot of those male friends of his are in their early 20s and mid 20s.There are not many, as I am yet to encounter any at conferences.
I think the real reason is that a lot of these guys in that industry in general are more reclusive so probably aren't out and about intermingling with the general somali populous.That's odd. My younger male cousin who is currently is high school is planning on getting into that field. One of the biggest reasons why he got in was due to his older male dugsi friends convincing him. A lot of those male friends of his are in their early 20s and mid 20s.
Hey now don't hate it's definitely better than doing it on twitter or Instagram and any joke app out there.Imagine telling your kids where you met their mother
even in the masjid, they won't interact with any girls. vise versa. its extremely segregatedI think the real reason is that a lot of these guys in that industry in general are more reclusive so probably aren't out and about intermingling with the general somali populous.
They probably spend there time on forums and stuff like that together.
I guess the middle ground between all somalis of all walks of life to meet is at the masjid.