Yannie
The trouble is, you think you have time
Trouble maker lol!
Trouble maker lol!
I know 2 women who fit that description and neither are salafis. maybe blame the lack of fathers in somali households? that explains it better imosho
I dont know, i don't live in the UK or Canada. There is definitely no lack of males in the average Somali households where I live.
The Wali can be anyone. Your uncle, your brother or your cousin.
Women compared to men are more prone to act on feelings and emotions instead of what is logical or practical. So having a male guardian who is their to protect their interests is a must.
I doubt it has to do with lack of parental presence especially since these types of chicks & reverts are known to accuse parents of being jaahil & disobey them “Your father is a jahil racist, his reasons for rejection are unislamic and his wilayah is invalid. We can get married without him.” *Bombards the sister with fatawa to justify it* .a father is important though. They say fatherless girls are more likely to get into crappy relationships, there seems to be some connection so I believe it.
I haven't seen that, you must live in the uk. I heard those (salafi) men divorce women like nothing and they target somali women because somali families are more accepting.I doubt it has to do with lack of parental presence especially since these types of chicks & reverts are known to accuse parents of being jaahil & disobey them “Your father is a jahil racist, his reasons for rejection are unislamic and his wilayah is invalid. We can get married without him.” *Bombards the sister with fatawa to justify it* .
Most western girls are not cultured so many of them surfer from self hate and this is their way rebelling against their parents. They think their parents jaahil tribal racists and they are progressive for simply marrying out. These reverts pick up on it and exploit this attitude.
I haven't seen that, you must live in the uk. I heard those (salafi) men divorce women like nothing and they target somali women because somali families are more accepting.
I feel sorry for reverts in the uk because those guys ruin it for all of them
I do agree with what you are saying. I just wanted to add something, if you don't mind. I believe that Somali culture is a factor why girls rush into marriage . In our society a women who is not married at a certain age is viewed as bad, undesirable, unwanted. This fear push women to get with men they would usually never go for out of fear being alone.I doubt it has to do with lack of parental presence especially since these types of chicks & reverts are known to accuse parents of being jaahil & disobey them “Your father is a jahil racist, his reasons for rejection are unislamic and his wilayah is invalid. We can get married without him.” *Bombards the sister with fatawa to justify it* .
Most western girls are not cultured so many of them surfer from self hate and this is their way rebelling against their parents. They think their parents are ignorant racists and they are progressive for simply marrying out. These reverts pick up on it and exploit this attitude.
I do agree with what you are saying. I just wanted to add something, if you don't mind. I believe that Somali culture is a factor why girls rush into marriage . In our society a women who is not married at a certain age is viewed as bad, undesirable, unwanted. This fear push women to get with men they would usually never go for out of fear being alone.
Actually you will be surprise that this type of behavior exist not only in Somali women, but also all women from all different walks of life.That could be a factor, but I dont know how that plays out in the west. Haven't seen this as an issue maybe in Somalia perhaps, its a bit naive to have these expectations in the west.
But if its true what you say then that is an attitude we need to change.
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