Ameen for all of us! And I agree, I definitely want a brother who's ambitious in both the deen and dunya.May Allah make it easy for you sis. I agree with the background checks. It’s seems though you have to be very thorough. I don’t know about you though, but I’m really weary of “super religious wadaad guys.” There always seems to be a huge skeleton hiding in their closets.
I find normal Somali men (pray, fast, etc) but also go to work and school and are productive members of society to be the ones you should go for.