I never let people get too close to me, is this normal?

Gambar

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There must be a reason for that. It’ll serve you well once you really become an adult with responsibilities (mid to late twenties), because a lot of people are stupid and not worthy of being close to.
 
Yukon_Niner

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dr.leorio said:
That's normal man shit. Congratulations you probably have normal testosterone levels and think more logically then emotionally.

Nobody mentions how becoming a man is a grueling lifelong lonesome process. But that's just the way it is.
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Yeah I was wondering about that with all these "am I normal posts". @World you're normal a lot of people can relate, it just stems from trust issues I think.

Mukhalas said:
That means you're normal, masculine male. A rare breed in modern society.

Only effeminate cucks tell their personal issues to someone else or write in diaries.
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Alex Jones discovers there's chemicals in the water turning frogs gay.

Suddenly there's a rise of men on the internet overcompensating their masculinity.

Coincidence? I think not
 
World

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When I was a child/early teens I was a follower, and I never had any true passions/interests, I’d just copy my friends. But then I started drifting away from them, and learnt more about myself and started doing things on my own. I enjoy my own company. Even my friendship groups, I can cut them all off now and start new ones if i want to. I don’t feel that close to them. I don’t view them as friendships, just people that I keep in my life for a purpose for my own interests.
 
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Gambar said:
There must be a reason for that. It’ll serve you well once you really become an adult with responsibilities (mid to late twenties), because a lot of people are stupid and not worthy of being close to.
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I used to be like everyone else when I was younger but I became a bit of a gamer in my early/mid teens and isolated myself from people. I believe that’s the reason why. I’ve never been the same since. But I’m grateful for that experience.
 
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Ayubi

Laugh with many but don’t trust any.

I use to be close to people but when they started to expose their true selfs, I learned to be my own person. I don’t trust a single person on earth except my parents.

Don’t tell anyone anything cuz it can be used against you in the future. Keep to yourself.
 
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Mukhalas

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Yukon_Niner said:
Yeah I was wondering about that with all these "am I normal posts". @World you're normal a lot of people can relate, it just stems from trust issues I think.


Alex Jones discovers there's chemicals in the water turning frogs gay.

Suddenly there's a rise of men on the internet overcompensating their masculinity.

Coincidence? I think not
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What?
 
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Kanini said:
Well if you're happy being like that then there isn't really anything to worry about. If you don't feel like you're missing out on anything, nothing wrong with wanting to be alone or private.
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Idk if I’m happy about it tbh.

I would love to belong to a tribe, a people bonded by the blood of their ancestors for centuries, friends who would fight and die for each other, friends who would have went to war and fought their enemies with each other, who were in the trenches for months fighting off an enemy’s siege.

Is that too much to ask for?
 
Luciddreamer

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World said:
I used to be like everyone else when I was younger but I became a bit of a gamer in my early/mid teens and isolated myself from people. I believe that’s the reason why. I’ve never been the same since. But I’m grateful for that experience.
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Solitude is where you learn the most about yourself and the lies of society.
See it as a blessing man, worst thing to be in life is a follower.
 
Yukon_Niner

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World said:
Idk if I’m happy about it tbh.

I would love to belong to a tribe, a people bonded by the blood of their ancestors for centuries, friends who would fight and die for each other, friends who would have went to war and fought their enemies with each other, who were in the trenches for months fighting off an enemy’s siege.

Is that too much to ask for?
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Sign up for the French foreign legion and get used as fodder for Jihadis in Mali. You'll love it.
 
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Kanini

World said:
Idk if I’m happy about it tbh.

I would love to belong to a tribe, a people bonded by the blood of their ancestors for centuries, friends who would fight and die for each other, friends who would have went to war and fought their enemies with each other, who were in the trenches for months fighting off an enemy’s siege.

Is that too much to ask for?
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Hmmm friends like that are very difficult to come across especially here in the West. It's almost like every man for themselves but we're lucky that Somalis differ (the good ones) and we tend to be more tight knit. Inshallah you'll find these type of lifelong friends.
 
Samaalic Era

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World said:
Idk if I’m happy about it tbh.

I would love to belong to a tribe, a people bonded by the blood of their ancestors for centuries, friends who would fight and die for each other, friends who would have went to war and fought their enemies with each other, who were in the trenches for months fighting off an enemy’s siege.

Is that too much to ask for?
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It's the curse of the modern world. Bonding for men is through surviving and fighting together. People you travel with, eat with, fight with and die with. It's why men before would do anything for the tribe and were willing to die for them
 
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HalimaJ

Nothing too abnormal tbh. You're pretty young, so in time you might meet people you feel are on your level with whom you can truly gel with. There are times in which I sometimes feel this way in my friendship groups, but not to your extent and I don't feel this way consistently.

The only things I would say is a little worrying, is maybe the fact that you look down on others and the fact that you seem to not give a f*ck as you put it. It kind of sounds narcissistic tbh, or it could be that you're just a naturally aloof individual.
 
Gambar

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World said:
I used to be like everyone else when I was younger but I became a bit of a gamer in my early/mid teens and isolated myself from people. I believe that’s the reason why. I’ve never been the same since. But I’m grateful for that experience.
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Are you still a gamer?
 
World

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Gambar said:
Are you still a gamer?
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No, but it helped me learn to enjoy my own company so I don’t ever get lonely. I can spend a whole day reading my favourite book, or even going on holiday on my own. Before that, I could not go a day without social interactions. But I don’t tell people this as they might think I’m weird. Like for example I want to go Mongolia on a solo trip and go to the steppe and ride horses, but this is something I keep to myself.
 
Samaalic Era

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QurboExit
World said:
No, but it helped me learn to enjoy my own company so I don’t ever get lonely. I can spend a whole day reading my favourite book, or even going on holiday on my own. Before that, I could not go a day without social interactions. But I don’t tell people this as they might think I’m weird. Like for example I want to go Mongolia on a solo trip and go to the steppe and ride horses, but this is something I keep to myself.
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I wanted to go Mongolia myself aswell along with Tibet and the Himalayas :ooh:
 
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