@Knowles your saying that he is being unfiar but what if I was to say that your both being unfair & ultimately biased both yourself &
@Inquisitive_ are suffering from abad case of the "confirmation bias* you must remove your sociopolitical views and put them aside remember liberalism isn't your fight as a EA/somali especially as a somali woman your much yearned for and appreciated place & overall needed place is among your people not the privileged white woman or otherwise as well as others who may not have a community to call upon in dire times wallahi we should all say alhamdulillah that we're somali but my points is that if we want to and are sincerely serious about solving the issues within our community then we need to stop with this quarrelsome blame game,gender wars etc which by the way our many non somali detractors are reveling in we must put aside ideologies/thinking in other words external influences & that also includes other cultures neighbouring us either within the continent or middle east we basically shouldn't take from africans or arabs with some minor exceptions... and once this is done by utilising our objective and critical thinking Insh'allah however this continous vilification of our sisters and brothers has to stop wallahi we need to as a community start holding to account brothers and sisters who do wrong or support ideals that are inherently detrimental as a community as they're not compatible with our identity and values why do you think they disproportianately push these toxic agendas on people of color basically all non white people I am of the opinion that its terrible to be a white or asian person whether man or woman basically because white men no choice they either have to be always the nice guy and thats just to be pleasant & socially acceptable (passable) or something else just to be individualistic but is still not considered the norm and as for white women they're always being pushed to accept western social norms even if it goes against what they really want and makes them ultimately unhappy and with asians there existence must only leave you in despair if anybody is one the point I'm trying to make is that if only we remove our rose tinted spectacles and come together then we can overcome Insh'Allah the solution is found within our own culture
@Kurolady08 I'm sure will agree as it has done so for tens of thousands of years if not thousands of years and will do so for another tens of thousands of years Insh'Allah To my somali brothers keep doing what you have always done & will continue to always do which is be the valiant,courageous,loyal,dedicated etc geeljire's you have always been but with a vital exception please brothers don't demean and bring down your beautiful sisters that are like hooral ayn in their beauty rather uplift & honour them whatever they do don't bicker or argue with them just ignore them you are somali men not the effeminate men of other races who constantly oppress or objectify their women by constantly either sexualising and degrading their women or others who oppress their women by having their entire lives spent around cooking,cleaning, or even having other disgusting abusive practices perpetrated on them like marrital rape wallahi things like these have happened in other communities my next point To my somali sisters i Know our brothers are not the easiest at times to deal with however if you want to understand someone in this case for example you must see things from their disposition meaning if you want to really understand somali men then you must think like a somali man understand their needs wants desires or things that make them angry basically because somali men are so prideful they'll never admit their mistakes by being slighted or disrespected in other words if you want to get a somali man to admit his faults then he shouldn't be insulted but rather be spoken to in a normal room voice make him understand or remind of what lifes really worth by reaffirming within him that he has the blood of the Pharoah within him and that a Pharoah needs his queen we love our beautiful,loyal,brave, sisters wallahi we do but we shouldn't give up on each other Insh'Allah we'll never give up on each other given what happened recently to our brave and noble sister Hodan Nalayeh who in my opinion is definitely the greatest if not one of the greatest somali sisters that is a public figure along with Ilhan Omar although I prefer Hodan and what she was doing for us as a people is something wallahi we should be proud may Allah grant her and her husband paradise Insh'Allah. This is the time we should really be reflecting on what it really means to be somali
. It’s always nice to hear different perspectives or similar one’s.
