How will you know what a devine being is telling you is right or wrong if you don’t already know right from wrong? He had bad removed from his heart after he was already a prophet but he was always moral. He was just as human as abu bakr. They all died and are buried next to
eachother. People come to Islam cause they see the morality in it so they must already have the sense of what is moral.
Your parents didn’t go to Muslim countries because Muslim countries would not let them in and because they had better opportunities among the gaal. A boatload of Somali refugees was denied entry to Saudi in ‘91 and the ship sank and they all drowned. They didn’t want us there.