How does it make him insecure? Is the jilbab even necessary? It's not. You can wear nice abayas, skirts with a khimaar, etc. because who's really gonna hire a woman in a jilbab who doesn't have to wear it anyway? I was really shocked to see jilbab wearing girls being trained at Edna Adens hospital isn't that a safety hazard.
Accudubillahi. That's why they are called maryoleey. There are plenty Somali women who wear traditional garbasar and a baati and they are more than modest. The jilbab has to go. It's ugly, heavy, it's a barrier to integration and getting a job and it makes Somali women a target. They look 100% better without it. It has nothing to do with deen, you can be modest in other attire.