I used to always shake every women's hands , habryars to cadaans to Xaalimos of every shape under the sun.One day after whipping out my handshake , I believe 6th grade, my grandmother said why I kept shaking women's hands.I must've made a face because she beat my ass blue black that night.
Now a days I never shake women's hands.If they ain't cadaans that is.
This leads to some people believing in a sheikh!
As for OPs question I go in for very close hugs with my cousins....
Give both genders a tap on the ass as a welcome
"Ayeee , eedo soo dhawoow"