Biggest issue is just opportunity to meet new people. I don’t do shiisha and I feel like that’s where most people regularly meet new people outside of social media. It just sucks because my parents were very strict when I was growing up so I never really talked to guys. Had I known that I get no support and that this is how things would’ve turned out I would’ve just dated up a storm when I was in school. It just seems impossible now truth be told.Damn, I knew Somali women were struggling to get married but I didn't know it was this bad. I wonder what's the cause.
people will tell you to be less picky but my standards are very reasonable. Just not fat, 5ft 8 and above, somali, prays and fasts, has a job that isn’t a lie, not fat, and can actually hold down a conversation. It seems like even this is difficult to find (. People always assume the worst about you as a woman when you struggle to find someone and then when you ask for help it’s “your great I’m sure there’s lots of guys that like you”. It just sucks all around