You will never be someone's 1st choice.

[Nak Muay]

Unless you meet someone in your teens while you're both virgins and then get marry, you'll never truly be someone's first choice.

It's a bitter pill to swallow but I thought everyone over a certain age understood this. Evidently not lol

My friend's about to do his nikkah and we were discussing the subject, he proceeded to start autistically screeching like some socially inept 15yr old.

If you've been in previous relationships, 9/10 the person you end up marrying isn't exactly your first choice, they're just the right choice for you at that particular time.
That concept's never bothered me, but people in relationships seem to freak the f*ck out if you suggest that's the case.

 

[inflorescence]

Unless you meet someone in your teens while you're both virgins and then get marry, you'll never truly be someone's first choice.

It's a bitter pill to swallow but I thought everyone over a certain age understood this. Evidently not lol

My friend's about to do his nikkah and we were discussing the subject and he proceeded to start autistically screeching like some socially inept 15yr old.

If you've been previous relationships, 9/10 the person you end up marrying isn't exactly your first choice, they're just the right choice for you at that particular time.
That concept's never bothered me, but people in relationships seem to freak the f*ck out if you suggest that's the case.

did you say congrats to him at least

 

[Nak Muay]

did you say congrats to him at least

Yeah obvsly lol, I'm still going to the wedding etc. I just didn't think people were that delusional wallahi.

 

[Bronco]

Yes, but even being someone's first choice isn't that deep because you don't know for how long you might be.

True love, unconditional love, love on first sight etc. is the oldest meme around.

As long as you don't completely the other person for granted, maxaa iga galay?

Even your boy is gonna wake up one day just annoyed by her existence. Waa caadi, tell him quit the calacaal.

 

[Milo]

So how do I know if im her first choice

 

[Nak Muay]

Yes, but even being someone's first choice isn't that deep because you don't know for how long you might be.

True love, unconditional love, love on first sight etc. is the oldest meme around.

As long as you don't completely the other person for granted, maxaa iga galay?

Even your boy is gonna wake up one day just annoyed by her existence. Waa caadi, tell him quit the calacaal.

Unconditional love only exists between a parent and their child wallahi, everything else is conditional.

So how do I know if im her first choice

You're probably not, and she's probably not yours so why torment yourself?

 

[Milo]

You're probably not, and she's probably not yours so why torment yourself?

i see
so everybody is so foucused on making somebody else’s number 1 spot that they forget that somebody might be wanting to be THEIR number 1 and so goes on the cycle?

 

[Sophisticate]

Some of us were not even dating anyone in high school let alone 'undergrad' so why assume?

Anyway, first selection doesn't infer best fit. And it's all based on availability and viability of the prospect not necessarily the most optimal.

The most favoured one is a bit different. They might not be the first person you talk to. But this individual likely presents to you a feeling of openness, transparency and capacity to be yourself that is unparalleled to those you've met before or so you think. Who knows maybe it's real and difficult to encapsulate? One will never know unless they have a repertoire of relationship experiences with which to compare.

 

[Basra]

Unless you meet someone in your teens while you're both virgins and then get marry, you'll never truly be someone's first choice.

It's a bitter pill to swallow but I thought everyone over a certain age understood this. Evidently not lol

My friend's about to do his nikkah and we were discussing the subject, he proceeded to start autistically screeching like some socially inept 15yr old.

If you've been in previous relationships, 9/10 the person you end up marrying isn't exactly your first choice, they're just the right choice for you at that particular time.
That concept's never bothered me, but people in relationships seem to freak the f*ck out if you suggest that's the case.

My question or concern is: WHY are u a debby Downer??????? Or A party POOPER???


Why are u crushing their delusions? Unless, u r secretly crushing on them. If u r that is twisted

 

[thehappyone]

if I was him I wouldn't invite you to the wedding, imagine what he will say there

 

[Milo]

My question or concern is: WHY are u a debby Downer??????? Or A party POOPER???


Why are u crushing their delusions? Unless, u r secretly crushing on them. If u r that is twisted

no she doing good let her be

 

[Nak Muay]

Some of us were not even dating anyone in high school let alone 'undergrad' so why assume?

Anyway, first selection doesn't infer best fit. And it's all based on availability and viability of the prospect not necessarily the most optimal.

The most favoured one is a bit different. They might not be the first person you talk to. But this individual likely present to you a feeling of openness and transparency and capacity to be yourself that is unparalleled or so you think. Because you've only given this person a shot. Who knows maybe it's real and difficult to encapsulate?

This only applies if you're coming to the table with some baggage or if you've been in prevs relationships like I originally said. If you're both starting with a clean slate then it's completely different.

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[Caadi iskadig]

Unless you meet someone in your teens while you're both virgins and then get marry, you'll never truly be someone's first choice.

It's a bitter pill to swallow but I thought everyone over a certain age understood this. Evidently not lol

My friend's about to do his nikkah and we were discussing the subject, he proceeded to start autistically screeching like some socially inept 15yr old.

If you've been in previous relationships, 9/10 the person you end up marrying isn't exactly your first choice, they're just the right choice for you at that particular time.
That concept's never bothered me, but people in relationships seem to freak the f*ck out if you suggest that's the case.

I agree with you, but it's only when you are in the process in choosing your life partner. Once you marry your partner then things change and you very well maybe be their first choice, because they're the mother of your children and they're loyal to you.

If a very rich man who's also her type, came to your wife (who's loyal) and asked her to marry him and she rejects him then what does that mean? Obviously that you are her first choice no matter who's interested in her.

 

[Nak Muay]

My question or concern is: WHY are u a debby Downer??????? Or A party POOPER???


Why are u crushing their delusions? Unless, u r secretly crushing on them. If u r that is twisted

Because I'm going to be the one getting calls at 2am when those delusions finally crumble

 

[Basra]

Because I'm going to be the one getting calls at 2am when those delusions finally crumble

But u also want the gu.s right?

 

[Milo]

But u also want the gu.s right?

Edo I’m scared of u

 

[Basra]

Edo I’m scared of u

dont be! am very cute and attractive walaahi ha ha ha ha ha ha

 

[Nak Muay]

But u also want the gu.s right?

Want my friend's gus, as a guy? Get back your meds eedo.

 

[Sophisticate]

This only applies if you're coming to the table with some baggage or if you've been in prevs relationships like I originally said. If you're both starting with a clean slate then it's completely different.

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Fair enough.

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[Milo]

dont be! am very cute and attractive walaahi ha ha ha ha ha ha

ok
lakeen if u are something else can u promise u won’t hurt me habryarmacaan