I'll always choose the Mr. Nice guy. It's a no-brainer. Studies prove it as well.
I tend to weigh the cons more than the pros and this would completely disgust me. I'm really not picky but my only goal in marriage is to not divorce. I have to find a husband that has a strong personality, not going to give up when shit gets hard. The player husband is a liability fr definitely not reliable like the mr.nice husband. Also nobodies boring, maybe you have to do extra to make them not socially awkward but I'd rather chose a shy guy over a sneaky one.Cons: he's more likely to cheat on you once u pass ur prime (mid 30s) or after u become pregnant. More likely to seek new pussy and knows he how to play mind games and talk his way of out arguments
NiceGuys™ are definitely not much better
Go on Reddit NiceGuys subreddit see how bad NiceGuys can get
pretty what all girls would kill for , however rare like a unicorn in the Somali communityHe's fun, outgoing, adventurous, knows how to carry conversation, can be funny and will u laugh. Good in the bedroom. Goes down on u.
he's loyal, consistent, pays the bills, buy u flowers, says nice things, won't cheat on u. Will pay 20k in meher. Educated. Doesn't argue with u..