I'll always choose the Mr. Nice guy. It's a no-brainer. Studies prove it as well.
I tend to weigh the cons more than the pros and this would completely disgust me. I'm really not picky but my only goal in marriage is to not divorce. I have to find a husband that has a strong personality, not going to give up when shit gets hard. The player husband is a liability fr definitely not reliable like the mr.nice husband. Also nobodies boring, maybe you have to do extra to make them not socially awkward but I'd rather chose a shy guy over a sneaky one.Cons: he's more likely to cheat on you once u pass ur prime (mid 30s) or after u become pregnant. More likely to seek new pussy and knows he how to play mind games and talk his way of out arguments
Im somewhere in the middle. There needs to be balance. Everything in moderation, right?
NiceGuys™ are definitely not much better
Go on Reddit NiceGuys subreddit see how bad NiceGuys can get
Check out r/incels if you really wanna laugh.
pretty what all girls would kill for , however rare like a unicorn in the Somali communityHe's fun, outgoing, adventurous, knows how to carry conversation, can be funny and will u laugh. Good in the bedroom. Goes down on u.
he's loyal, consistent, pays the bills, buy u flowers, says nice things, won't cheat on u. Will pay 20k in meher. Educated. Doesn't argue with u..