I'll give some real advice. Walaal the problem is you act like something is missing. Thats the problem. There is no void to fill that you can't take care of yourself.
1. Get comfortable with you. And enjoy time by yourself.
2. The truth is there is no magic formula. Some will just ignore nearly every request. Others require you to slowly build rapport. Some are skeptical. Some are not interested. Some are just overloaded with messages. Others are receptive.
3. Ask yourself this question. If you met a girl that talked to nimaan indiscriminately and then pinned all her hopes on you in the very beginning how would that make you feel? A little taken aback and unspecial, right. Its the same with women.
4. Give them a slow drip of who you are. There is no need for your whole life story in a single convo. You are dynamic so act in accordance with the complex and intriguing person you are.
5. Make your time appear valuable and do not linger around.
6. Match the energy of the other party. If they are aloof, preoccupied or suffer from lacking texting ettiqutte do the same or remove yourself.
7. Don't take a non response personally. Its about them. And they aren't losing sleep so don't despair.
8. Act from a position of strength and invest in you. Be a better human being.
9. Take care of your health, appearance and improve your financial solvency. You are a mirror that will only attract what you are and think you deserve.
10. If you are aiming to get to know someone to eventually settle down look for someome that appeals to you, wants what you want and wants it with you.
Ignore the xasiid posters and their disparaging remarks as they have nothing of substance to pass along.