Xalimo Says Somali Culture Is Oppresive Because Women Bring Guests Water To Clean Up With After Eating

[Angelina]

It should become common again, no wonder why all the xalimos back home are fat now compared to the past. They eat as much as men today and used to eat our leftovers in the past. Good way to control obesity.

The majority of women back home are skinny btw. Being fat is in 'vogue' as it makes you look middle/upper class. Hence fat girls are in high demand.

Obesity is only an issue because YOU faraxs have decided you find it attractive and now women are taking fattening chicken pills and all sorts of absurdities.

 

[Angelina]

One sad thing my reer Koonfur ayeeyo told me is that in the badiyo back in the day when hilib would be prepared the liver and I assume the good cuts of muscle meat would be for the men and stuff like the kidneys were left for the women. In fact, men would tease you if they saw you eating kidneys cos that was basically left over organ meat for women. Ceeb.

Says a lot about how men viewed and valued women. They'd leave their own mothers, grandmothers, sisters, wives ect the scraps.

@Gantaal97 if you don't see what @Shimbiris posted as ceeb giving your own ayeeyo and hooyo the not so great parts, after they slaved away making it, then I don't know what to say.

Culture is man-made and people here need to understand that not every aspect is good. We have fantastic elements and not so great parts.

 

[Angelina]

If the women only eat the leftovers how come their heavier than the faraxs?

Lol, only in the West is that the case. Back home only a minority are fat btw and some of them even go as far as taking pills to make themselves large.

Also, this culture is dying. It was prevalent during our ayeeyos gen and it was 5x worse, if you read Shimbiris post..

 

[Lady Whistledown]

I understand doing that in Africa, but in the west? Unless you’re disabled, you better walk to that sink

 

[Hybrid()]

As it should be. Why you think the lions is the most respected animal in the world. Xalimos could learn a lot from lioness

It's interesting how the male lion has been celebrated by every culture throughout history for its alphaness. Don't get why feminist get mad when it's obvious that both men and women were evolved to have more respect for alpha males.

 

[Hybrid()]

Lol, only in the West is that the case. Back home only a minority are fat btw and some of them even go as far as taking pills to make themselves large.

Also, this culture is dying. It was prevalent during our ayeeyos gen and it was 5x worse, if you read Shimbiris post..

Reer magaal women are actually heavier than western Somali women. Those who take estrogen pills are the ones with high metabolism who can't gain weight on a 3000 cal diet.

 

[Angelina]

Reer magaal women are actually heavier than western Somali women. Those who take estrogen pills are the ones with high metabolism who can't gain weight with a 3000 cal diet.

What class are the heavy reer magaal woman?

 

[Hybrid()]

What class are the heavy reer magaal woman?

Middle and upper class

 

[Shimbiris]

It's interesting how the male lion has been celebrated by every culture throughout history for its alphaness. Don't get why feminist get mad when it's obvious that both men and women were evolved to have more respect for alpha males.

Lions are admired for their regality which is largely owed to their mane. I mean look at this nigga:

Doesn't he look absolutely fabulous?



And yeah, they are apex predators and that is part of why they're admired but if that was all it was they'd be equal to Tigers in people's eyes. Ain't nobody out here admiring them for murdering the cubs of rival Lions, abowe.

 

[Angelina]

Middle and upper class

By minority I meant middle/upper class women.Those women don't do exercise as being fat is the beauty standard and hardly do any work like Western women.

Women in the West go to work and cook their food and clean their own homes. Middle/Upper class women in the East have maids and don't do anything inside and outside the home.

 

[Hybrid()]

Lions are admired for their regality which is largely owed to their mane. I mean look at this nigga:

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Doesn't he look absolutely fabulous?



And yeah, they are apex predators and that is part of why they're admired but if that was all it was they'd be equal to Tigers in people's eyes. Ain't nobody out here admiring them for murdering the cubs of rival Lions, abowe.

Tiger males are bigger and better hunter than male lions but they don't get the praise they deserve because they lack not only the maine but the alpha characteristic of a male lion.

 

[Angelina]

It's interesting how the male lion has been celebrated by every culture throughout history for its alphaness. Don't get why feminist get mad when it's obvious that both men and women were evolved to have more respect for alpha males.

Alpha doesn't exist in humans. Its cringe and its only become a popular concept because of redpill and incels. Also, women don't admire what many guys view as alpha and its usually the mistreatment of women. They think the more a man is a dick to women, the more 'alpha' a man is.

What human wants to be treated like shit?!

 

[Hybrid()]

Alpha doesn't exist in humans. Its cringe and its only become a popular concept because of redpill and incels. Also, women don't admire what many guys view as alpha and its usually the mistreatment of women. They think the more a man is a dick to women, the more 'alpha' a man is.

What human wants to be treated like shit?!

I don't think that's the true definition of an alpha

 

[Angelina]

I don't think that's the true definition of an alpha

Lets be real, in this day and age, an alpha is a man that sleeps around, isn't caring because hey, that's for beta's right? Don't really bother with compassion ect. Isn't going to stay long enough to help you raise kids because he's too busy being with other women.

I don't see how many men's definintion of 'alpha' benefits women. Only a woman with low self esteem wants to be treated like dirt likes that.

 

[Vanessa]

Somalia are know for hospitality. Bringing farxal/ serving the guests is our culture

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

Lets be real, in this day and age, an alpha is a man that sleeps around, isn't caring because hey, that's for beta's right? Don't really bother with compassion ect. Isn't going to stay long enough to help you raise kids because he's too busy being with other women.

I don't see how many men's definintion of 'alpha' benefits women. Only a woman with low self esteem wants to be treated like dirt likes that.

The whole "alpha male" shit is beyond cringe wallahi, but the gaal women who gets treated like toilets by these men aren't worthy of compassion, respect etc in the first place. As long as Muslim sisters aren't treated like that, I'm A-Okay with it

 

[Gantaal97]

Says a lot about how men viewed and valued women. They'd leave their own mothers, grandmothers, sisters, wives ect the scraps.

@Gantaal97 if you don't see what @Shimbiris posted as ceeb giving your own ayeeyo and hooyo the not so great parts, after they slaved away making it, then I don't know what to say.

Culture is man-made and people here need to understand that not every aspect is good. We have fantastic elements and not so great parts.

I understand what you saying and where you're coming from but there's important element you're forgetting is that not that many nomads were rich in livestock so the meat that was cooked was first reserved to men who usually do the hard work like looking after the herds taking long jocking in the hot sun and protecting the family household and the livestock with that said the men usually don't jump in and finish the meal they leave some for the women to eat so nothing is wasted but nowadays when most somalis are urbanized and the abundance of meat and food that culture is already now is dead.

 

[Angelina]

I understand what you saying and where you're coming from but there's important element you're forgetting is that not that many nomads were rich in livestock so the meat that was cooked was first reserved to men who usually do the hard work like looking after the herds taking long jocking in the hot sun and protecting the family household and the livestock with that said the men usually don't jump in and finish the meal they leave some for the women to eat so nothing is wasted but nowadays when most somalis are urbanized and the abundance of meat and food that culture is already now is dead.

Saxib,

I don't want to make it a male vs women argument, but if you want to argue that Reer magaal men did more work then women, you'd be right.

However, life for a nomad woman was rough, they did all the child rearing, cooking, cleaning, they built the areesh (Somali house) which in most societies would be a man's job and were in charge of all the other livestock apart from the camel, which would was the man's job. Oh and on top of that, the women also had to deal with the physical difficulties that comes with motherhood, pregnancy, breastfeeding along with all their responsibilities.

I've read countless of historical books about the traditional Somali nomadic life and this point usually comes up:

In endurance the women of the Somal are far superior to their lords: at home they are engaged all day in domestic affairs, and tending the cattle.. if necessary, to make them; to pitch the hut, to bring water and firewood, and to cook.

https://www.gutenberg.org/cache/epub/6886/pg6886.html- First footsteps into East Africa.

There is also a documentary that was recorded in the 50s that mentions this when talking about life in the meey.

There is no denying that men worked hard as well, but to suggest that Reer meey women had an easier life is a lie. My own ayeeyo talks about the hardships women faced. Men gave women the scraps because they could. It was a man's world. My ayeeyo even said that women weren't even allowed to drink tea, why? Because men could discourage it and drink it for themselves.

 

[Saredo]

If the women only eat the leftovers how come their heavier than the faraxs?

Such insolence. Calm down

 

[Abdisamad]

Such insolence. Calm down

You know I love xalimos with all their kilos

Just wish me good luck I don't break my back after the wedding while trying to carry one home