Your 100% correct. I should’ve been more clearer.
I meant to say your talking to a dude for a few months, you both know marriage is end goal or whatever.
And one or both of you have people on the side. In my eyes at that point you should both be ready for a life together, one without other people involved lol.
Especially if your a girl I’d say don’t ever get tied down to one of these guys unless marriage is definitely within sights.
Even then he should meet your dad as insurance. He’s less likely to do you wrong that way, in my eyes at least.
If you were my sister I’d say a buffer of three months max of avoiding aaboYou couldn't have said it any better. If you have been talking to a guy for months and he refuses to talk to your abo, run for the hills.
If you were my sister I’d say a buffer of three months max of avoiding aabo
Too many stories of dudes claiming to want marriage, taking what they want, and running for the hills and telling their boys
Your dad is your best protection with these kinds of things, he won’t mess with you when your dad and his clan are breathing down his neck
I know some of these people. I say dumb shit on here sometimes but I’m a mature dude irl, I see these things.Eww those guys are so immature. But as long as the girl is conducting herself in an appropriate manner, what can those guys say? Do you think some even lie about the girl to their boys?
Also, I agree. 3 months is more than enough. Especially if you're talking to the person all the time. But sometimes telling abo can be pressure, especially if you're unsure and still getting to know the guy.