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Cheating on your spouse is a ticket away from hell. In Sharia, the death penalty is required for adultery.

Religious guys are the worse to cheat with. Some end up dead. The only guys that will forgive you for cheating are non-muslim white men who are cucks and don't know their worth.
 
Who cares about what some random xalimo says online? Y'all moving like incels and probably beat the goose to midget when u get the chance
 
She is obviously chatting shit.

She wants to get likes and retweets and probably doesn't even have a man in her life.

Also, you cannot 'cheat' on someone you are dating. How can you even cheat on someone that isn't your husband or wife?

I can't believe in big 2020, with coronavirus everywhere people are taking tweets seriously.

Now you are making the girl along with her dumb tweet famous.
 

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Too much make up
I need to see the natural, idk about you guys but makeup has become a fat turn off for me personally :gucciwhat:
 

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Cheating on your spouse is a ticket away from hell. In Sharia, the death penalty is required for adultery.

Religious guys are the worse to cheat with. Some end up dead. The only guys that will forgive you for cheating are non-muslim white men who are cucks and don't know their worth.
When confronted they often reverse the situation
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It's a blessing that Somalis are not fond of honour killings like their Arab and South East Asian counterparts and neither should we encourage or condone these sorts of actions but this is beyond outrageous , this will pave a way for more to continue this footpath and as you are aware the genders wars on every social media platforms intensified within these years thus hostile and anonymity is not a stranger.
There are individuals with concealed intentions to destroy the already dysfunctional Somali households if we aren't taking preventative measures to deter these threats and nuisances

You are right religious folks are worse to cheat on and they are also the highest in divorce rates but it's obvious that men are becoming like cadaans very soft and often getting bossed up by Ajnabis
It's unfamiliar despite living overseas we are exposed to their environment thus its inevitable that'll occur several times

What do you suggest if there are solutions to minimise these metastasing cancers

I'm lost for words sxb
The optimism I had for my dear Somali queens are slowly fading and I know it's not a feasible explanation to generalise an entire gender based on the actions of individuals, I hope that they are just a small fraction
This is new in Somali culture
 
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When confronted they often reverse the situation
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It's a blessing that Somalis are not fond of honour killings like their Arab and South East Asian counterparts and neither should we encourage or condone these sorts of actions but this is beyond outrageous , this will pave a way for more to continue this footpath and as you are aware the genders wars on every social media platforms intensified within these years thus hostile and anonymity is not a stranger.
There are individuals with concealed intentions to destroy the already dysfunctional Somali households if we aren't taking preventative measures to deter these threats and nuisances

You are right religious folks are worse to cheat on and they are also the highest in divorce rates but it's obvious that men are becoming like cadaans very soft and often getting bossed up by Ajnabis
It's unfamily despite living overseas we are exposed to their environment thus its inevitable that'll occur several times

What do you suggest if there are solutions to minimise these metastasing cancers

I'm lost for words sxb
The optimism I had for my Somali queens are slowly fading
This is new in Somali culture

Did you just write a Ph.D thesis on “Somali gender conflicts on the interwebs”.
Real ass nigga wlhi
 
She is obviously chatting shit.

She wants to get likes and retweets and probably doesn't even have a man in her life.

Also, you cannot 'cheat' on someone you are dating. How can you even cheat on someone that isn't your husband or wife?

I can't believe in big 2020, with coronavirus everywhere people are taking tweets seriously.

Now you are making the girl along with her dumb tweet famous.

I agree with you on this, but I guess it may be “cheating” if the guy is chatting to other girls, while he told you that you two were exclusive. Some girls are naive, and may perceive that to be cheating, but in reality it really isn’t because your relationship isn’t binding (legally or even religiously)
 

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She is obviously chatting shit.

She wants to get likes and retweets and probably doesn't even have a man in her life.

Also, you cannot 'cheat' on someone you are dating. How can you even cheat on someone that isn't your husband or wife?

I can't believe in big 2020, with coronavirus everywhere people are taking tweets seriously.

Now you are making the girl along with her dumb tweet famous.
Eh “dating” someone or even getting to know someone with the end goal of marriage, requires a little bit of loyalty.

I’m sure most Somali boys and girls getting to know a potential partner seriously won’t be texting other guys or girls during the process.

I agree with your general statement though, but if you can’t show basic fidelity/loyalty in the talking stage don’t expect it from either person in the marriage (which should always be the end goal).

Like @Desert Flower said it may not be “cheating” because it isn’t religiously or culturally official but it still lying, being dishonest, and being disloyal which all play a part in what makes cheating bad.
 
I agree with you on this, but I guess it may be “cheating” if the guy is chatting to other girls, while he told you that you two were exclusive. Some girls are naive, and may perceive that to be cheating, but in reality it really isn’t because your relationship isn’t binding (legally or even religiously)


Its definitely a horrible thing to do, and a breach of trust, but I would never class it as cheating for the simple fact that you shouldn't be claiming a man that hasn't introduced himself to your father.

Until then, he is simply a man you are talking to, and he too shouldn't claim you. If he wants to, then he needs to put a ring on it.
 
Its definitely a horrible thing to do, and a breach of trust, but I would never class it as cheating for the simple fact that you shouldn't be claiming a man that hasn't introduced himself to your father.

Until then, he is simply a man you are talking to, and he too shouldn't claim you. If he wants to, then he needs to put a ring on it.
I agree. What do you think about girls who go around claiming that the dude they were talking to was their “ex?” I chuckle.
 
I agree. What do you think about girls who go around claiming that the dude they were talking to was their “ex?” I chuckle.

Embarrassing.

But a lot of Somalis have become a bit liberal and actually have long term boyfriend and girlfriend relationships. So I can see why they would view that person as an 'ex' when they were dating that said person the way a non Muslim dates.

Although my other point might seem callous, I just want young girls not to get attached to men they have no claim over. Don't believe his commitment to you, unless he is willing to act on it.
 
Embarrassing.

But a lot of Somalis have become a bit liberal and actually have long term boyfriend and girlfriend relationships. So I can see why they would view that person as an 'ex' when they were dating that said person the way a non Muslim dates.

Although my other point might seem callous, I just want young girls not to get attached to men they have no claim over. Don't believe his commitment to you, unless he is willing to act on it.

100% abayo. This is true. I’ve heard couples date for yearsss and then get married. By then, they’ve done everything and some actually live together before marriage! So nothing really surprises me anymore.
 
Eh “dating” someone or even getting to know someone with the end goal of marriage, requires a little bit of loyalty.

I’m sure most Somali boys and girls getting to know a potential partner seriously won’t be texting other guys or girls during the process.

I agree with your general statement though, but if you can’t show basic fidelity/loyalty in the talking stage don’t expect it from either person in the marriage (which should always be the end goal).

Like @Desert Flower said it may not be “cheating” because it isn’t religiously or culturally official but it still lying, being dishonest, and being disloyal which all play a part in what makes cheating bad.


It most definitely does. However, in the begining stages what can happen is someone can be talking to others, to not put all their eggs in one basket and to see who they click with the most and who is the most serious. You cannot be loyal to a guy or girl you hardly know.


However, I find it reprehensible when both parties become serious and tell each other they are talking to get married and then one decides to talk to others. That is misleading and is wasting a persons time. Be honest and if you don't feel someone is the one, then tell them.

I don't know if I can call it cheating, because talking to someone is completely different to marriage. You are not in a relationship with the person you are talking to, well you're not meant to anyway.

But I completely get what you are talking about. In my books, it shows a lack of seriousness and honesty.
 

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It most definitely does. However, in the begining stages what can happen is someone can be talking to others, to not put all their eggs in one basket and to see who they click with the most and who is the most serious. You cannot be loyal to a guy or girl you hardly know.


However, I find it reprehensible when both parties become serious and tell each other they are talking to get married and then one decides to talk to others. That is misleading and is wasting a persons time. Be honest and if you don't feel someone is the one, then tell them.

I don't know if I can call it cheating, because talking to someone is completely different to marriage. You are not in a relationship with the person you are talking to, well you're not meant to anyway.

But I completely get what you are talking about. In my books, it shows a lack of seriousness and honesty.
Your 100% correct. I should’ve been more clearer.
I meant to say your talking to a dude for a few months, you both know marriage is end goal or whatever.
And one or both of you have people on the side. In my eyes at that point you should both be ready for a life together, one without other people involved lol.
Especially if your a girl I’d say don’t ever get tied down to one of these guys unless marriage is definitely within sights.
Even then he should meet your dad as insurance. He’s less likely to do you wrong that way, in my eyes at least.
 
100% abayo. This is true. I’ve heard couples date for yearsss and then get married. By then, they’ve done everything and some actually live together before marriage! So nothing really surprises me anymore.

Loool, in that situation they have given that guy or girl everything, things a married couple should only give each other. Also, i'm not just talking about sex, but also deep commitment.

I don't know how girls do it, because if my younger self was in that situation and the relationship broke down, I would have been devastated. Imagine being overly heartbroken over a man that was never your husband, having the same grief a divorcee deals with, but that man never really gave you true commitment??

I think if a girl is talking to a guy, she should keep her wits about her. Still be genuine, but don't get too attached unless he has put marrying you into motion.

Too many guys chat shit.
 
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