What is considered guarded to you though? What would make you think, i'm not going to bother with her?
Would you marry a high-maintenance man/woman?
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What is considered guarded to you though? What would make you think, i'm not going to bother with her?
Off the top of my head?
- Scared of emotional intimacy, keep you at a distance
- Emotionally shut down from time to time
- Do the gay hot\cold shit
- Put up the faux "I'm not really that interest" facade, only to have a meltdown when you call their bluff and actually start pursuing other people.
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Approaching is a waste of time in my opinion a girl who likes you will make up excuses for her to talk to you. My advice would be never approach unless you’re a legit 9/10.Maybe I worded it weirdly. l personally wouldn't go out of my way to avoid pretty girls, but I've just come to the realization that must of the time the juice isn't worth the squeeze. Are there pretty girls who have a good head on their shoulders? Absolutely. But 9/10, they can be really guarded and come with more confidence/trust issues than your avg girl.
A legit 8-10 Syrian mate of mine told me something along the lines of "it's hard to discern between the guys who genuinely like me as a person and to pursuit something long term, and those who'll fake a connection just so they can f*ck me." So I completely understand why they can come across as cold/guarded etc.
I'll still approach attractive girls, but I'm x10 more flighty. If I get a whiff that she still needs to work on some deep-seated issues, I'll peace the f*ck out. I've got other priorities and going on a journey of self-exploration with some girl I might not even end up marrying is a waste of my time and hers. Don't know about other guys, but that's been my personal experience
The whole "approach" shit only works in a very specific context/environments and only if you're a people person to begin with. Not every interaction with a girl has to lead to something. Just enjoy the conversation and if there's something there you'll know. I don't get why people over-complicate this shit so much wallahi.
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Nah, that is not what i'm talking about when it comes to observing and 'assessing' a guy. What you're describing is emotional immaturity.
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You guys think to deeply. I'm here telling bad jokes to make myself laugh. If she laughs that a plus.
I've already expressed my intention right from the start. If she wants together the fine if not. The also fine
A whole lot of honestly and directness get you a long way
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100%. I'm too old for the "I'll act a little disinterested and act like I've got options/swimming in cunny to signal how much of a catch I am" shite wallahi. Get on board or don't. I've got shit to do.
What's your MBTI?
Think it was Debater, why do you ask?
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You gave off ENTP vibes. They are straight shooters that don't mince their words.
I wasn't always like that, I've just gotten a lot more abrasive with ageYou gave off ENTP vibes. They are straight shooters that don't mince their words.
You know the personality test wasn't made by phycological or any professional...
Why the Myers-Briggs test is totally meaningless
It’s no more scientifically valid than a BuzzFeed quiz.
www.vox.com
There other more in-depth tests you can do but they're contingent on you being totally honest.
But I think anyone with a shred of self-awareness knows the sort of person they are anyway.
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