Would you marry a high-maintenance man/woman?

[reer]

That is why i made it clear its about affordability.

When you're rich and money isn't an object of worry, a lot of men couldn't care less. If they did, their 'type' wouldn't change upon getting money. All of a sudden they're marry trophy wives who've never grinded with them..

I'm also fully aware not all men are the same.

a habaryar told me women hate stingyness from husbands even more than domestic abuse. waxay tiri gabadh ma aqbaleyso stingy man laakiin waa laga yaabaa in la arko domestic abuse inay aqbasho.

 

[Eedaaf]

I don't think Jeff's situation counts. He was with his wife for decades. He didn't up and leave as soon as he became very successful. Also, he left his wife for a woman who is the same age as him and his wife. I think his current girlfriend is in her 50s and a grandmother. She looks beautiful and looks stunning for her age though.

Didn’t his wife leave him for a teacher

the divorce was a lot of money

 

[celidheere]

When I become rich inshallah I'd consider it but until then I don't think I could keep a woman like that

 

[Lostbox]

I'm starting to come to appreciate high maintenance women. While all effort they put to maintain themselves might be off putting but the standards for low maintenance women from how I remember is getting worse. More young women are putting on more fat and doing less to take care of themselves... they have no hobbies, no life or really anything going for themselves

I'm starting to appreciate the amount of self-care they are putting into all the appointment, having great style, working out and eating healthy to maintain their weigh and a knowing that a ever time you go at even for a short shopping trip she'll look amazing.

These women are usually highly ambitious, well traveled and know how to give back.

But in they end they are very expensive and expect far more from you

 

[Xaruun]

I'm starting to come to appreciate high maintenance women. While all effort they put to maintain themselves might be off putting but the standards for low maintenance women from how I remember is getting worse. More young women are putting on more fat and doing less to take care of themselves... they have no hobbies, no life or really anything going for themselves

I'm starting to appreciate the amount of self-care they are putting into all the appointment, having great style, working out and eating healthy to maintain their weigh and a knowing that a ever time you go at even for a short shopping trip she'll look amazing.

These women are usually highly ambitious, well traveled and know how to give back.

But in they end they are very expensive and expect far more from you

I think all of us have different definitions of high-maintenance. If she values alone time and budgeting then she’s low maintenance. Low maintenance women aren’t necessarily dumpy and unattractive with no lives and high maintenance women don’t necessarily take care of themselves or look good.

 

[Lostbox]

I think all of us have different definitions of high-maintenance. If she values alone time and budgeting then she’s low maintenance. Low maintenance women aren’t necessarily dumpy and unattractive with no lives and high maintenance women don’t necessarily take care of themselves or look good.

Are you talking a women that always wants and doesn't give back? A leech?

 

[Xaruun]

Are you talking a women that always wants and doesn't give back? A leech?

She may give back. She could be a leech or someone who has high standards for herself and you.

 

[AbdiS]

Low-maintenance.

I prefer loyalty over everything.

Loyalty > Royalty.

 

[Angelina]

I think all of us have different definitions of high-maintenance. If she values alone time and budgeting then she’s low maintenance. Low maintenance women aren’t necessarily dumpy and unattractive with no lives and high maintenance women don’t necessarily take care of themselves or look good.

High maintenance women can also value budgeting. In this world if you want to get somewhere, you need to be able to save money.

I think people define high maintenance differently. I have the same definition as @Lostbox.

 

[Xaruun]

Are low maintenance women are the one that don't have a life and expect to entertain and validate feeling them 24/7?

No. Someone who wants a constant stream of entertainment and validation would be high maintenance.

High maintenance women can also value budgeting. In this world if you want to get somewhere, you need to be able to save money.

I think people define high maintenance differently. I have the same definition as @Lostbox.

I think you’re talking about someone with high standards.

 

[Basra]

IMO, no. I’d prefer a low-maintenance woman. They’re more likely to be loyal when the marriage hits a rough patch and it’s more satisfying to spoil them. I’m not sure as to what qualifies as a high maintenance man.

Abaaay calm down

 

[Molotoff]

As long as she doesn’t have "history", takes care of herself in terms of hygienes and looks, cooks and is good with the children, I am good.

All a man want is a hot meal after a long days work and for the woman not to nag. Is that too much to ask? Really? C'mon.

 

[Hali]

I think all of us have different definitions of high-maintenance. If she values alone time and budgeting then she’s low maintenance. Low maintenance women aren’t necessarily dumpy and unattractive with no lives and high maintenance women don’t necessarily take care of themselves or look good.

Are you talking about girls who according to some have no right being high maintenance

 

[قوة الشرطة الصومالية]

Some ethnic women from some sub clans will take you to the grave early. My aunt warned me of some sub clans. I don’t want to blast anyone on here but it is what it is.

 

[Sophisticate]

I think we have different definitions of high maintenance.
I'm allergic to synthetic fragrances and a lot of make up. I look good in simplicity. But I avoid food that isn't organic and stay clear of most chemicals in personal care and cleaning products and don't touch some food groups. I would hardly call my lifestyle one of conspicuous consumption. I do not care to impress and am far from materialistic. As for loyalty I'm loyal even during the talking stage. I would avoid low-maintenance cheapskates. If you cannot at least invest in the best quality food and water you can afford then you have no business trying to get to know me as more than a friend. That's lifestyle incompatibility. The sister who said to avoid a stingy man is correct. Even if he's well-off. And I'm not speaking about shrewdness in personal finance/saving/investing

 

[Desert Flower]

I believe that deep down, many men don’t respect and value low maintenance women. Also, many trade in that so called “down to earth” woman for a high maintenance one as soon as they level up and make bank. It’s a tale as old as time.

I don’t see any benefit for a woman to present herself as a low maintenance person. She’ll end up getting burned and will become resentful when she doesn’t get what she wants out of the relationship.

It also costs money to look good. Skincare, nutrition, dental hygiene and work, good clothing, high quality makeup, exercise, money for hobbies etc. These are investments.

 

[Mukhy]

High maintenance. Just like me lol

 

[BobSmoke]

If she can't give me back equal amount of energy, devotion and juice for life that I pour into this woman then it's a no go.

Too many men be choosing anybody willing to entertain them and neglects the purpose of a woman in your life.

A woman can either multiply or decimate a man's kingdom. Either you think and choose like a king or you'll suffer in life like a peasant.

That's why mfs suffer in marriages and post divorces, because the man viewed himself like a peasant and therefore moved like one.

Money and status won't change a man's psychology, if anything, these things are the male equivalent of makeup. You can paint your blemishes of your psyche and soul all you want, but soon enough it will show itself to the light.

I have suffered like a peasant before and that's strictly because of my choices in women I entertained and what I did to impress them. Drained all my energy, gave away pieces of me to them and now, I'm slowly filling up this void of vitality and energy in me.

I know this sounds like some alien shit that makes no sense but deep this

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

High maintenance in the traditional sense? No. There's nothing more pathetic than a man who kowtows to a "high maintenance" woman's absurd demands and whims. Your entire existence shouldn't revolve around pussy, not that it would do you any good anyway lol

 

[Djokovic]

Why would a women want to Be low maintenance it don’t make sense to me I want a high maintenance women who don’t work and is excepting me to provide for the family