Would yall cough it up?

Discussion in 'General' started by Shmurda, Dec 5, 2019.

  1. HalimaJ

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    He disrespected his grandmother himself. I was just correcting him, making sure he understood that it not the case for all of our grandparents.

    Its not my fault that people will post on the web for the world to see them talking about their own families like that. But what can I do?

    I hope he was exaggerating. In Somali culture men pay mahr and had to pay the abo as well.
     
  2. IBRAHIM.

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    Lol. No aabo is paid caadhi iska dhig. If ur dad was paid then u were pimped not married off.
    :mjlol:
     
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  3. HalimaJ

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    In the past walaal. Dads were in fact paid with geel. This is our granparents and great grand parents generation. Especially in the meey.

    Obviously that is not the case anymore as we have become more practising and more enlightened.
     
  4. Mahacagalla

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    How much do you think her Mehr was?
     
  5. Yahya

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    No woman is worth more than one that can do all those things for free and is pure and on the deen.

    No self respecting man will be taken seriously if he buys a mail order bride.

    :ulyin::mjlol:
     
  6. HalimaJ

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    Islamically a man has to pay a 'mehr' as it is a sign of seriousness. A man that is trying to marry for 'free' as some are advocating here isn't the type of man a self respecting father should allow to marry his daughter.

    Easy come, easy go.
     
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  7. Tukraq

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    Nobody said no Mehr, but a reasonable one like the prophet paid (around 300) is the way to go
     
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  8. Frostybigmo1

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    wait who? lmaoooo
     
  9. Frostybigmo1

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    i barely ever see this dude post on his snap story for a while now, tf happened to him??
     
  10. Frostybigmo1

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    can someone fill me in loool who is that shorty?? niggas on here already have piping hot tea on her
     
  11. NotMyL

    NotMyL "You are your best thing" VIP

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    When she wants 50k wedding but 10k ring :meleshame:
     
  12. BenInHer

    BenInHer Jefe de Jefes

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    All my wife is getting from me is the Quran.

    Possible a joint bank account..

    Why the hell I gotta cough up 15k
     
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  13. Basic

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    The broke Abdis exposing themselves in this thread :dead:
     
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  14. Yukon_Niner

    Yukon_Niner I'll Batista Bomb your ayeeyo in Asda

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    Suzuki? That's a bit much don't you think. Just pad up the back seat of your Toyota Corolla and spray £1 febreeze to get rid of smells.
     
  15. Bosaso

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    So that would add up to a total of 140k, excluding all other demands she has like job/house/car.

    Good luck to her in finding a suitable partner.
     
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  16. Tukraq

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    Interesting dilemma, question being are you your types type?
     
  17. RasCanjero

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    Imagine if only simps end up marrying and reproducing.

    In a generation or two the simp gene will end up taking over and destroying us from within.

    Time to change to a dowry system.

    Mehr system is just a race to the bottom.
     
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  18. Mukhalas

    Mukhalas Macawiis, dacas iyo AK47.

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    Any man will happily pay the mehr as long as she isn't 'used goods' tbh.
     
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  19. RasCanjero

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    @HalimaJ I ain't taking business away from you :stevej:so no need to feel threatened.

    You'll end up with a higher class of men. It's a win win for all.
     
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  20. AliUK

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    new account macminded258
     
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