Women and gossiping

[Geeedi]

Why do girls and women in general like to gossip
Is gossiping a fuel for them because they seem to get depressed If they don’t gossip 2 to 3 times a week
I don’t understand why woman are emotional and at same time gossips

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

Why do girls and women in general like to gossip
Is gossiping a fuel for them because they seem to get depressed If they don’t gossip 2 to 3 times a week
I don’t understand why woman are emotional and at same time gossips

Read my post I made it relates to this

 

[Geeedi]

Read my post I made it relates to this

So you mean people who backbite others care a lot, that makes sense but I think the main reason they do it is entertain themselves, it makes them happy
In other words they are addicted to it

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

So you mean people who backbite others care a lot, that makes sense but I think the main reason they do it is entertain themselves, it makes them happy
In other words they are addicted to it

No, they don't care ! They backbite to hide their own insecurities, to feel they belong and are afraid to be judged themselves.

 

[Geeedi]

I agree those who gossip has problems may be insecurity but how do you explain rich individuals gossiping poor. I have seen bosses gossiping their employees

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

I agree those who gossip has problems may be insecurity but how do you explain rich individuals gossiping poor. I have seen bosses gossiping their employees

They feel superior that's why and they're human too, everyone gossips and some do it worse then others.

 

[Geeedi]

Your reasoning is great
You are the first intelligent dhoocil I have ever come across

 

[Basra]

I think we are prone to make friends more than men. Lots of men do not have a network of friends. So if u have a bunch of women together, what else will they talk about? The weather? lol

 

[Geeedi]

I think we are prone to make friends more than men. Lots of men do not have a network of friends. So if u have a bunch of women together, what else will they talk about? The weather? lol

So do you seek entertainment with gossip at the expenses of others dismay

 

[Basra]

So do you seek entertainment with gossip at the expenses of others dismay

Its time wasting. Its a tool of bonding with others. Finding common ground, despite being its dark, because gossip is harram. Its a reflex. A form of entertainment. The older i get the more i try to stop gossiping, i add "God forgive me" before i go unhinged on someone.

 

[Geeedi]

i add "God forgive me" before i go unhinged on someone.

That is not seeking Forgiveness that is joke
Fear allah and stop backbiting you are indeed burden to earth

 

[Happy_]

It‘s a short term gratification, when you hear a good, nice, juicy gossip. The crazier and more out raged the gossip, the better the feeling of... idk, can’t describe it very well. It‘s a shock, disbelieve, wtfff kind of feeling... It‘s like heroin
It‘s like you go to cirka on cloud 9 and fly for couple mins, then the dreaded crash comes, waa xanuun. The pain of guilt, shame and disappointment...

Why did I indulge in this madness, why did I laugh like a hyena when that qumayo came running with the fresh xan, shame.on.me.

 

[Bronco]

Far from all women, just the ones with low emotional intelligence

 

[Basra]

Far from all women, just the ones with low emotional intelligence