Why the hate towards passport bro’s?

[Amber]

Where u two get the idea am underage?

@Qeelbax

 

[Abdirazaq]

Passport bros are weak. I said it. 10000 years of your forefathers adapting to the harsh and brutal and yet you in 2023 can’t adapt to the dating market . They have a term for this “ tucking your tail and running” like a dog defeated in a fight.

You could say the same thing about men who grew up in middle class/upper class households.

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

If you’re a Somali guy that grew up in the west but you’re not up to standards for western Somali women (not attractive and working a dead end job) then what’s the issue with going for Somali women in Somalia/Somaliland? Unless you’re forcing these men to a life of loneliness I don’t understand, it just screams Xaasidnimo to me.

I’d honestly consider it if I can’t find anyone here.

Ain’t nothing wrong with marrying back home the issue some people have with it is it leaves less available men for the women here that’s why sometimes you see a bad reaction when it’s brought up

 

[Waa dhamatay]

Well their opinion doesn’t matter tbh. I think at some point as a man you can’t really let anybody’s opinion dictate your personal life like that. A man has to eat

If you’re incel you’re already lonely and outcast long term so you might as well

 

[SociallyAwkwardFarax]

If you’re a Somali guy that grew up in the west but you’re not up to standards for western Somali women (not attractive and working a dead end job) then what’s the issue with going for Somali women in Somalia/Somaliland? Unless you’re forcing these men to a life of loneliness I don’t understand, it just screams Xaasidnimo to me.

I’d honestly consider it if I can’t find anyone here.

it’s just bitterness and mate guarding, western diaspora women feel entitled to the men of the diaspora; if a bunch of men decided to go back home for marriage reasons, that’ll reduce the already small pool of eligible bachelors.

 

[Amber]

try and guess, walaal

 

[Abba Sadacha]

If you’re a Somali guy that grew up in the west but you’re not up to standards for western Somali women (not attractive and working a dead end job) then what’s the issue with going for Somali women in Somalia/Somaliland? Unless you’re forcing these men to a life of loneliness I don’t understand, it just screams Xaasidnimo to me.

I’d honestly consider it if I can’t find anyone here.

I think it's mainly one or more of these reasons:

1) Jealousy-because that would mean more women here would be single and lonely.
2) People think it's exploitative. Even though, as long as the mans intentions are purely for the sake of getting a wife to help maintain his chastity, there's nothing wrong with it.
3) Maybe other reasons too. hmm let me think.


I have cousins who found wives within north america (1 went to canada, from texas, and brought her back to Texas, while others went back to ethiopia and brought their wives back, cause those women are raised from childhood on how to cook, clean, be feminine, kind and cooperative, aka perfect wives for a Muslim man). I think it's context based, whatever works best for your particular situation.

 

[Som]

A somali going back home to get married is not like American passport bros. American passport bros talk shit about their women and go specifically to other countries to marry women of a difference ethnicity/ nationality. If you are a somali going to Somalia to find a wife and you treat her respectfully there's no problem.

 

[TekNiKo]

If you’re a Somali guy that grew up in the west but you’re not up to standards for western Somali women (not attractive and working a dead end job) then what’s the issue with going for Somali women in Somalia/Somaliland? Unless you’re forcing these men to a life of loneliness I don’t understand, it just screams Xaasidnimo to me.

I’d honestly consider it if I can’t find anyone here.

Go for it sxb, Western Halimo standards these days are insane whose gonna pay 50k meher for a run down bicycle

 

[Khaem]

I don't see much of a problem as long as the you go back to your own country for a wife.
But I do understand that diaspora somali women might not like it cause it reduces the already small amount of somali men she can marry from her own status.
Only thing I can say is that if lots of diaspora somali men go home for a wife, then they can't get mad when Western somali women start to marry out because what other options do they have left?

 

[JohnCena]

They hate us cuz they ain't us

 

[Abdisamad]

If you’re a Somali guy that grew up in the west but you’re not up to standards for western Somali women (not attractive and working a dead end job) then what’s the issue with going for Somali women in Somalia/Somaliland? Unless you’re forcing these men to a life of loneliness I don’t understand, it just screams Xaasidnimo to me.

I’d honestly consider it if I can’t find anyone here.

Some expired xalimos want the faraxs to go extincting along with them.. Don't listen to them go wear your western passport as a necklace flash it around and get atleast 3 wives.

 

[abayoqurux]

Some expired xalimos want the faraxs to go extincting along with them.. Don't listen to them go wear your western passport as a necklace flash it around and get atleast 3 wives.

I promise you us "expired xalimos" don't give af whether y'all wanna marry a frog let alone a human being, the obsession with villainizing somali women when we actually don't give af is you projecting your insecureness and the rejection you've probably undergone by one of us "expired xalimos", please, if you struggle with finding a woman that actually likes you, don't shift the blame onto somali women merely on the fact that we are more desirable, its a bad look and it makes you look like this gif below.

 

[abayoqurux]

Go for it sxb, Western Halimo standards these days are insane whose gonna pay 50k meher for a run down bicycle

"Run down bicycle", good luck finding woman who would even wanna look at your face with that attitude, and mehr isn't the worth of the girl you are marrying, this isn't buying and selling, it's a gift, embarrassing

 

[Yaraye]

"Run down bicycle", good luck finding woman who would even wanna look at your face with that attitude, and mehr isn't the worth of the girl you are marrying, this isn't buying and selling, it's a gift, embarrassing

i heard that misogynist is married. I wonder which poor lady is so unlucky

 

[Erythrean]

i heard that misogynist is married. I wonder which poor lady is so unlucky

Married? This is the internet! What’s that mean?

 

[Yaraye]

Married? This is the internet! What’s the mean?
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[Abdisamad]

I promise you us "expired xalimos" don't give af whether y'all wanna marry a frog let alone a human being, the obsession with villainizing somali women when we actually don't give af is you projecting your insecureness and the rejection you've probably undergone by one of us "expired xalimos", please, if you struggle with finding a woman that actually likes you, don't shift the blame onto somali women merely on the fact that we are more desirable, its a bad look and it makes you look like this gif below.

You right now lol.

 

[Abdirazaq]

Ain’t nothing wrong with marrying back home the issue some people have with it is it leaves less available men for the women here that’s why sometimes you see a bad reaction when it’s brought up

I really don’t believe that all these Somali women are struggling to find people anymore, most Xalimos have people willing to marry them, so I’m not worried in that regard, they’ll settle down eventually.

 

[Angelina]

It’s because those guys that want to marry from back home via social media like to project their inability to find a mate on Somali Western women. Look at @Abdisamad comment of TekNIko who compared Western women to used bikes to suggest they sleep around. @Jammy that is one of the reasons why women will start to insult guys who go back because many of them talk this way. It’s very simple, in life if you don’t want to be insulted, don’t insult people first.

2ndly, many men Western odeys have been using their own homeland and Kenya as some sort of playground in which they marry and divorce women like they’re used trainers. People hearing about stuff like that and the fact that some men talk about women from back home like they’re robots who will do their every command is embarrassing. This is clearly coming from a Western diaspora kid who doesn’t routinely go back. Women back home might have their daily challenges, but many have the ability to chew you and spit you go out.

But lastly, Somali is your country. You’re not a passport Bro for marrying your own people. Getting married back home is normal. Women do it sometimes, men do it all the time. As long as your intentions are to find a lifelong mate and you’re not allowing your bitterness towards Western women not wanting you to take over, then who really cares? A Somali woman is a Somali woman.