What it takes to be a man is mainly subjective depending on one's culture but there are general points of agreement humanity does share. This applies to mainly Somalis in the west.
1. A man should develop his body. Most somali males come mainly in two forms. Fat as sh*t with breasts or skinny af. There is nothing attractive about this for any woman and its why somalis have the most females who marry with foreigners than the other way around. Im not saying you should look like Mike Tyson jacked but most somali males, its really obvious they don't hit the gym. And thats because most are lazy.
2. They are controlled by their women. Most Somali males lack the courage to stand up to their women and lay down the law. In any marriage or household a power dynamic should be established. A woman ought to respect and somewhat fear her husband. But instead Somali women have no such fear. If you look at any other household whether they be white or Arab, no such circumstance exists. Your typical Somali wife goes out partying way way more times than her husband and often, its without his consent. The Somali male bends over backwards and often times unessesarily and even stupidly gives in to his wife's dumb commands. This is extremely unattractive because a woman can smell whenever a man is emasculated. Its like a shark when it tastes blood in the water. And once a woman senses your manhood has been sidelined thats it. No coming back...its why most Somali women are screwed up in the head. Because they've watched their fathers be abused by their aggressive feminist mothers and they've internalized that a man isn't a gender to be feared. The male compensates for this by being hard on the boys. He verbally abuses them and forces them to essentially be butlers for his sisters. This instills in his sons a deep sense of inferiority and instills lazyness. Which is why the typical somali male looks like a slob.
3. The mere fact Somalis are the ONLY race where more women are with foreigners than the other way around is utterly shameful. This alone proves just how inferior the Somali race is. When a ajnabi takes a somali woman, that is a conquest. Its a lesson the Arabs understand (hence why we rarely hear of an arab woman with a non arab) and others. Its also a lesson our grandparents understood whenever they'd take women from a different qabil. But this lesson has been lost it appears. The Islamic sharia states that lineage stems from a man. The way Somali boys are being raised, it appears the opposite is being instilled. Im not saying Somali males shoud en mass get with ajnabis but Somalis need yo make it crystal clear that our women with am ajanib is unacceptable like the arabs do.
Many of us live in foreign lands and its imperitave we establish and prove our dominance as men. Otherwise we'll be viewed as weak. I leave you with a hadith:
"Mansur ibn Abdullah reported: Al-Kattani, may Allah have mercy on him, said, “The truly weak man is he who is too weak to manage himself.”"
Source: Tārīkh Dimashq 54/254
1. A man should develop his body. Most somali males come mainly in two forms. Fat as sh*t with breasts or skinny af. There is nothing attractive about this for any woman and its why somalis have the most females who marry with foreigners than the other way around. Im not saying you should look like Mike Tyson jacked but most somali males, its really obvious they don't hit the gym. And thats because most are lazy.
2. They are controlled by their women. Most Somali males lack the courage to stand up to their women and lay down the law. In any marriage or household a power dynamic should be established. A woman ought to respect and somewhat fear her husband. But instead Somali women have no such fear. If you look at any other household whether they be white or Arab, no such circumstance exists. Your typical Somali wife goes out partying way way more times than her husband and often, its without his consent. The Somali male bends over backwards and often times unessesarily and even stupidly gives in to his wife's dumb commands. This is extremely unattractive because a woman can smell whenever a man is emasculated. Its like a shark when it tastes blood in the water. And once a woman senses your manhood has been sidelined thats it. No coming back...its why most Somali women are screwed up in the head. Because they've watched their fathers be abused by their aggressive feminist mothers and they've internalized that a man isn't a gender to be feared. The male compensates for this by being hard on the boys. He verbally abuses them and forces them to essentially be butlers for his sisters. This instills in his sons a deep sense of inferiority and instills lazyness. Which is why the typical somali male looks like a slob.
3. The mere fact Somalis are the ONLY race where more women are with foreigners than the other way around is utterly shameful. This alone proves just how inferior the Somali race is. When a ajnabi takes a somali woman, that is a conquest. Its a lesson the Arabs understand (hence why we rarely hear of an arab woman with a non arab) and others. Its also a lesson our grandparents understood whenever they'd take women from a different qabil. But this lesson has been lost it appears. The Islamic sharia states that lineage stems from a man. The way Somali boys are being raised, it appears the opposite is being instilled. Im not saying Somali males shoud en mass get with ajnabis but Somalis need yo make it crystal clear that our women with am ajanib is unacceptable like the arabs do.
Many of us live in foreign lands and its imperitave we establish and prove our dominance as men. Otherwise we'll be viewed as weak. I leave you with a hadith:
"Mansur ibn Abdullah reported: Al-Kattani, may Allah have mercy on him, said, “The truly weak man is he who is too weak to manage himself.”"
Source: Tārīkh Dimashq 54/254
