Why older Somali men so secretive about their second wife?

[General Asad]

How old are you? I thought you were a habaryar? 30 isn't that old though

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[Helios]

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We're the same age

 

[Daacad90]

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Unexpected nice surprise though, I am your abayo ok dheh

 

[General Asad]

Unexpected nice surprise though, I am your abayo ok dheh

Haaye abaayo

 

[General Asad]

We're the same age

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[Lostbox]

He might not be, but the majority of somali men are.

This is true

look at the poverty map zones and were the Somalis mostly populated

 

[Sambuus]

Kurdish? Qashin

 

[Céleste]

@General Asad illeen we are the same age.

 

[Hodan from HR]

I believe marriage is what you make of it if you want a fun marriage you go travel the world with your wife stay at 5 star hotels and do couple activities

But I guess they bored with their marriage and to have fun they marry a secret wife

People here debate about who will cook, clean and all them boring marriage talks.

How about we buy a camping van and hit the road during whole summer/spring? My abdi better be okay with living on edge

No, he knew the wife wouldn't be happy or not even his kids, an his definitely not broke. I feel like his very gullible even for a person at his age. It sounds like the lady sweet talk him and has worked perfectly on him. As I said before his the shy quiet type

Why do you say she sweet talked him? He is a grown man, no?

 

[Hybrid()]

geeljirre fobs are natural born cheaters. from my experiences with married farahs back home, they're ready to pipe any chick that spreads her legs. even my own childhood friend who got a gorgeous wife started hitting on my girl the days I was moving back to US

 

[Aladdin]

There was a big thing on around my Somali community. A family friend of are whose a very quiet and shy man type recently found out he secretly married a local Kurdish women. if you see her you understand why. She fine as hell, plus I don't agree with his actions.

What I wanted to know is that, is this acceptable in Islam. My would agree morally it's wrong but what about religiously?

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It complicated but Islam allows it. Men only marry 4 wives to sleep with multiple women. Once an old men told me he married 4 wives just to be in shape. Historically, Prophets time. Muslims use to be in series of wars, leaving many women widows. So Allah ordained 4 wives for each man but under certain conditions. Marrying 4 wives was to save women, Now it just legal cheating.

 

[Lostbox]

People here debate about who will cook, clean and all them boring marriage talks.

How about we buy a camping van and hit the road during whole summer/spring? My abdi better be okay with living on edge


Why do you say she sweet talked him? He is a grown man, no?

His usually smart and relational even the dealing with his first wife but playing stupid around this woman.

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@Basra gossips is good. To much entrainment

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[Hodan from HR]

His usually smart and relational even the dealing with his first wife but playing stupid around this woman.

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@Basra gossips is good. To much entrainment

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I get what you mean but I don't find his behaviour odd at all. Men do these things and more for a woman they love.
Adeer just fall hard

She is a shady person though. What kind of a woman is okay with being kept a secret?

 

[Mercury]

I get what you mean but I don't find his behaviour odd at all. Men do these things and more for a woman they love.
Adeer just fall hard

She is a shady person though. What kind of a woman is okay with being kept a secret?

Maybe she dont love him just loving sll the gifts she gets