i have a confession to make i am hopelessly romantic. i tend to feel deeply in almost all
matters to the point that i can at any given time immerse myself into any experience even when
being undergone by others. it can be a beautiful experience and can make your life a continuing
ecstatic experience but at the the same time this capacity or gift of empathizing can also be a burden
of great responsibility. i can live with that as the benefits far outweigh the costs but what greatly
perturbs me is the fact that i find my somali bretherens to be somehowly devoid of this feeling
of empathy which is the greatest requisite for romance. are they wired differently or is it a matter of nurture.
i feel somalis hate more than they love and thats where all the cynicism, hostility and aggression stems
from. why do somalis take this noble and lofty human ideal to be a weakness when in truth it is strength
or are somalis simply masking their deep fears of inadequacies by rejecting love.
matters to the point that i can at any given time immerse myself into any experience even when
being undergone by others. it can be a beautiful experience and can make your life a continuing
ecstatic experience but at the the same time this capacity or gift of empathizing can also be a burden
of great responsibility. i can live with that as the benefits far outweigh the costs but what greatly
perturbs me is the fact that i find my somali bretherens to be somehowly devoid of this feeling
of empathy which is the greatest requisite for romance. are they wired differently or is it a matter of nurture.
i feel somalis hate more than they love and thats where all the cynicism, hostility and aggression stems
from. why do somalis take this noble and lofty human ideal to be a weakness when in truth it is strength
or are somalis simply masking their deep fears of inadequacies by rejecting love.