Why is it the average/ below average earning men worried about gold diggers

[JohnCena]

No joke , if she said that older wealthy men prefer younger women, I would've agreed with her.

But to say men enjoy gold diggers or even wealthy men enjoy gold diggers, that's a misinformed statement that has 0 scientific evidence to back it up

 

[Yaraye]

& all I'm saying is if the older man has 2 options between the 22 year old gold digger & the 22 year old who isn't one.
Who will he go for ?

You said men love gold diggers which is bullshit. There's a key difference between gold digging and being provided for .

What know do they prefer oday's or not

@JohnCena @Nak-Muay-Femeu

Caught your ass red handed sir! You are so shady, wallahi.

Point 1: These girls definitely prefer Western men particularly older ones because of the money and passport
Point 2: but the thing is hardly any women want to be with older men. That is the reality and this is only happening in Somalia due to the rampant poverty of our people

EVERYONE MAKE SURE TO FULLY READ THE ENTIRE TWO POINT AND LOOK AT THE PARTS THIS GUY HIGHLIGHTED. You only bolded the things that serve you. You didn't bold the full information. If you fully read both points its the same stance. No women genuinely like older men, only for their money, passport and security. Shady bastard

 

[Bundasliga]

@Yaraye
You are too pure & innocent to participate in gender wars.

Go play with your dolls.

 

[Yaraye]

@Yaraye
You are too pure & innocent to participate in gender wars.

Go play with your dolls.View attachment 252739

 

[Angelina]

It's ancedotal but I've seen plenty of older guys pull girls young enough to be their daughters. They weren't exactly working the sunday morning shift at McDonalds but they were older and in way better shape than the girl's peers. Did it materialize into something long term thing? No. But they still pulled. Trust me, plenty of younger women with unresolved anger issues and hatred toward their dear ol'papa and will f*ck a greying man in his 40s, it's not as uncommon as you think it is lol

It’s very rare to find a middle aged man to be in better shape than a man in his prime. By older if you mean 30s then forget it as 30s is still young and a man of that age can still be handsome. I’m talking 40s and 50s. That’s the age in which the face shape/head becomes bigger.

Also, you’ve said it yourself, daddy issues.

& all I'm saying is if the older man has 2 options between the 22 year old gold digger & the 22 year old who isn't one.
Who will he go for ?

You said men love gold diggers which is bullshit. There's a key difference between gold digging and being provided for .

Those women back home don’t give a shit about these men’s personalities. They have guys in their neighborhood they grew up with they’d probably get along with them more. It’s all about the finances.

What know do they prefer oday's or not

@JohnCena @Nak-Muay-Femeu

you’re being dense. They prefer them purely for finance. That is it. That is you hear a lot of tales of them cheating on them with younger local boys. You know what I meant. Stop being dense.

 

[Angelina]

Conservative values? Somali odeys go there because they can’t get a young and pretty 2nd wife in the West. It has nothing to do with just conservativism. There are many conservative women here, but not just ones who will lower their standards of livings. Whilst they can go back home, get the prettiest and get her a small villa and maid. That is what happens in our community.

Those women in Thailand and Brazil are usually strong willed Christain/Buddhists. They don't have to be Muslim for them to have strong conservative beliefs.

You’re getting desperate at this point. Thailand and Brazil are sex tourist destinations. There is nothing conservative about poor women who are sleeping with men to get money. That’s called prostitution/sugar baby/good old fashioned gold digging but of the worst kind.

The submission these men get is due to the class/wealth divide. These women aren’t going to feed the hand that feeds them and those redpill/misogynistic men know this. They’re smarter than you think they are which is why they’ve started to demonize women’s right to education and wealth. Why? Because if women need men for money, that is when they can treat them like they do Thai/Brazilian women. It’s all interlinked.

Yes, they are. Especially in our culture. Also lot of second wives of rich men are significantly younger especially amongst the divorced elites. The wife that built with them the first wife is usually around the same age and the woman he gets with after is a lot younger.

Men who end up wifing a younger wife with no strong assets are idiots. My point still stands that they are low IQ and why I'm a big believer of having a prenup.

I agree, they are dumb. There is no doubt about that.

Like I said I was being sensationalist. But I do believe that men will overlook gold-digging provided they get what they want and benefit.

Men are just interested in sex with younger women and only care to make it short term. There's no need to wife up a gold digger unless they . The one's that do are low IQ.

 

[JohnCena]

You’re getting desperate at this point. Thailand and Brazil are sex tourist destinations. There is nothing conservative about poor women who are sleeping with men to get money. That’s called prostitution/sugar baby/good old fashioned gold digging but of the worst kind.

The submission these men get is due to the class/wealth divide. These women aren’t going to feed the hand that feeds them and those redpill/misogynistic men know this. They’re smarter than you think they are which is why they’ve started to demonize women’s right to education and wealth. Why? Because if women need men for money, that is when they can treat them like they do Thai/Brazilian women. It’s all interlinked.

I agree, they are dumb. There is no doubt about that.

yeah I'm getting desperate despite the fact that you haven't provided any research articles to back your claims up and going off anecdotal evidence.

Also I was talking about getting with conservative people as in people that hold conservative values, not to exploit and sleep with them.

Anyways, this conversation is over seeing that I'm wasting my time here with someone that has no idea how to debate and provide scientific evidence for such claims.

Good day.

 

[JackieBurkhart]

Heartless

It's a cold world out there and a girl's gotta eat

 

[Bundasliga]

It’s very rare to find a middle aged man to be in better shape than a man in his prime. By older if you mean 30s then forget it as 30s is still young and a man of that age can still be handsome. I’m talking 40s and 50s. That’s the age in which the face shape/head becomes bigger.

Also, you’ve said it yourself, daddy issues.

Those women back home don’t give a shit about these men’s personalities. They have guys in their neighborhood they grew up with they’d probably get along with them more. It’s all about the finances.

you’re being dense. They prefer them purely for finance. That is it. That is you hear a lot of tales of them cheating on them with younger local boys. You know what I meant. Stop being dense.

Okay women are all gold diggers and men love gold diggers. Let's leave it at that.
You figured it out

 

[Abdisamad]

Men love golddiggers.

They only complain about them when they can’t afford them.

1.They have no problems with golddiggers that are within their pay grade. Example, the same guy that complains about the materialism of a Western woman will go to a third world country and try to get with a woman who sees him as a walking talking ATM machine.

2. Another example, when many men become rich, it is rather common unfortunately for them to dump their wife/GF of many years for a woman who he deems as someone he couldn’t afford when he was broke.

3. Another example, in the redpill and even Muslim community, especially amongst some of our wayward men influenced by Tateism and redpill argue against female education and financial stability. Why? Because they want women to financially rely on men and thus settle for men they normally wouldn’t if they didn’t have finances to think about. That is textbook gold-digging yet that is peddled as a ‘solution’ to increase marriages in the Muslim community and beyond.

4. Therefore, I need average/men from low socioeconomic backgrounds to stop complaining. Western Gold-diggers do not want you and that is why you dislike them. You have no problems with third world women who merely want you for finances as their needs due to cost of living and differences in exchange rates makes it affordable. Nor do you have issues with creating a world in which the financial circumstances of Western women is greatly reduced and would thus have to resort to gold-digging from average/poor men.

That is what it boils down to: accessibility to women.

Truth be told, I don't mind if she uses me as an atm, as long she treats me like a king.

 

[Abdisamad]

Only low IQ morons love gold diggers. There's nothing masculine about wanting a woman who's a gold-digger. It makes 0 sense.

What if she satisfies all your needs and treat you like a king? Wouldn't you shower her in money? Anyway if your full of money and alone what's that good for anyways..

 

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Wake up Y'all!!!!
There is need to be worried about gold diggers or women who have a cinderella dream like me since its not in your realm of possibility
However those somali brothers who are filling the Uni, well well..........

Because if they lose money things get scary for them. Since a man with money will always have enough to make the landing softer.

 

[NordicSomali]

Without gold diggers rich guys who are not attractive wouldn’t find the partner they really want. So she gets to spend his money and he gets the bimbo he dreamed about, it’s a deal that works for them.

 

[Angelina]

yeah I'm getting desperate despite the fact that you haven't provided any research articles to back your claims up and going off anecdotal evidence.

Also I was talking about getting with conservative people as in people that hold conservative values, not to exploit and sleep with them.

Anyways, this conversation is over seeing that I'm wasting my time here with someone that has no idea how to debate and provide scientific evidence for such claims.

Good day.

Okay women are all gold diggers and men love gold diggers. Let's leave it at that.
You figured it out

You’re the king of purposely trying to misunderstand people’s post. You know damn well that isn’t what I believe.

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[Angelina]

Truth be told, I don't mind if she uses me as an atm, as long she treats me like a king.

Find yourself a woman who loves you for you.

 

[Abdisamad]

Find yourself a woman who loves you for you.

I believe all women are goldiggers some more than others.

 

[Waa dhamatay]

Without gold diggers rich guys who are not attractive wouldn’t find the partner they really want. So she gets to spend his money and he gets the bimbo he dreamed about, it’s a deal that works for them.

If they spent that money on surgeries and a PT then maybe they wouldn’t have to use their money lol

 

[Angelina]

I believe all women are goldiggers some more than others.

If that was the case, broke men wouldn’t be able to find spouses, also a lot of rich men have had spouses that have helped them build and made sacrifices for them. It’s just a shame that some men aren’t appreciative of that. Although you’ll find a lot of men and women who have been together since their late teens/twenties and have raised kids and have built a life together that one can be proud of.

 

[Abdirazaq]

Find yourself a woman who loves you for you.

I really don’t understand you. On one post you’re talking about how Somali men failed Somali women and the community due to not being financially stable enough to support their women and eventually family but now you’re arguing that men love gold diggers? You and other women let men know real quick that they have to have a stable income and money in the bank in they wanna support a family but when men show their wealth they just wanna attract gold diggers? You can’t have your cake and eat it too.

Either you’re being dishonest whenever it suits your world view or you’re suffering from some sort of cognitive dissonance in which case I’m sorry for your condition. The only way you can reconcile your two view points is if every women is a gold digger.

 

[Angelina]

I really don’t understand you. On one post you’re talking about how Somali men failed Somali women and the community due to not being financially stable enough to support their women and eventually family but now you’re arguing that men love gold diggers?

Wanting a provider who is on your level isn’t gold-digging. There is a clear difference with a woman who isn’t attracted to you but simply needs you for a come up and a woman who is educated and in the same social position who simply wants her equal, but also takes other characteristics in account. Example, if she doesn’t have any feelings or attraction towards him, she wouldn’t entertain him, even if he checks her box with regards to provision.

You and other women let men know real quick that they have to have a stable income and money in the bank in they wanna support a family but when men show their wealth they just wanna attract gold diggers? You can’t have your cake and eat it too.

Not the same whatsoever. A gold-digger is a woman who only/mostly wants a man for his financial position.

Example: A young 21 yr old with a portly odey. She’s not attracted to him, but needs him as she doesn’t have qualifications or opportunities to wait and provide for self in the mean time. Number one reason she’s with him? Money.

It is not the same as a woman let’s say 24 married to a young 26 yr old whom she loves who can also look after her and is making around the same as her or a bit more. She’s not in it for the money. She already can stand on her own two feet.

Either you’re being dishonest whenever it suits your world view or you’re suffering from some sort of cognitive dissonance in which case I’m sorry for your condition. The only way you can reconcile your two view points is if every women is a gold digger.

What’s dishonest is conflating two different scenarios just so that you can score a point. Wanting a man that can provide isn’t the same as gold-digging. One exclusively goes for men for their money and prioritizes that above everything like even character and one takes provision into account without letting go of character and attraction.

I have always preferred a man that is making around my own income or more, but i never went for someone solely for the income. I don’t need to. I work and have always bought my own shit, however a provider is important for the sake of my kids and because i might want to dedicate time for my kids and husband and stay from work for a bit.

Can you not seriously see the difference? You either lack nuisance or you’re seriously trolling me right now.