Why is it the average/ below average earning men worried about gold diggers

[Angelina]

Using red pill ideology to justify Gold diggers, but if any man uses red pill he's a misogynist sexist predator

I’m not justifying it at all. I don’t agree with that and wouldn’t advice a woman to go for a man just for money. That is how women end up in messed up situations.

Talk about purposely misunderstanding a post.

 

[A Mean Guy]

I’m not justifying it at all. I don’t agree with that and wouldn’t advice a woman to go for a man just for money. That is how women end up in messed up situations.

Talk about purposely misunderstanding a post.

Abaayo. i'll be real with you ok.
You and that puntite Queen gal should really stop replying to every comment, you're not gonna change anyone's opinion. Be like me and turn your brain off before logging onto this site.

 

[JohnCena]

that is why I said men don’t mind transactional relationships when it benefits them. Example a very rich man with a much younger woman. He spends on her but has enough money stacked away that a 4k channel bag is peanuts for him.

You’re looking at this way because you’re average and your money is very limited, so anything you spend on a woman adds up . The same cannot be said for a very rich man or if you go back home for example in which your money will stretch.

Even in the other thread about looksmaxxing a lot of the guys there were saying that making money will make you more attractive ect. Men definitely associate more money= with prettier women.

Again all these examples are purely anecdotal.

You can't state something without providing a relevant research article.

Your claim was that "Men prefer dating Gold diggers". After making this claim , you should have provided research articles/studies that showcase this.

"You’re looking at this way because you’re average and your money is very limited, so anything you spend on a woman adds up ."

You don't know how much money I'm currently making and resorting to ad hominem attacks.

You're now being intellectually dishonest for both of those critical mistakes.



Even in the other thread about looksmaxxing a lot of the guys there were saying that making money will make you more attractive ect. Men definitely associate more money= with prettier women.

Making more money will make you more attractive, however that has nothing to do with Men actively looking for gold diggers to date. They'll prefer to date younger women, but that doesn't mean they're interested in dating "gold diggers" like it's some fetish.

 

[Yaraye]

This whole gold digger/ soft life/ never settle argument is above my tax bracket.
i can’t be the only working /middle class person on the internet?
why is everyone rich? Where are they getting this money from?

I’m not rich. But I want a Cinderella life~~ but since it is not possible I’ll settle for an upper middle class. That is possible with Allah’s help

 

[JohnCena]

Using red pill ideology to justify Gold diggers, but if any man uses red pill he's a misogynist sexist predator

bro don't you know that Men love gold diggers. It's in our DNA to try to make as much money as possible and then waste it all on a gold digger who's 19 years old!

Trust me bro, I know what I'm talking about. The latest People's magazine has all the information you need.

Source:

 

[Nak-Muay-Femeu]

Never understood the fear around "Gold diggers". Just get you want (if you can) and then sack them off, it's not like you have to marry these women and financially/legally tie yourself to them. They're not exactly subtle about being gold diggers. Pay for one nice dinner and then hit them with the old "I want to cook for you at mine" if you've got a nice enough place

They're not gna ask for your pin number before they f*ck you lol. Besides, if you're getting rinsed by a woman then there's a 9/10 chance she's not really that into you. Some other lad's probably dropping by her place at 2-3am for the low low price of 2 uber rides.

 

[JohnCena]

Never understood the fear around "Gold diggers". Just get you want (if you can) and then sack them off, it's not like you have to marry these women and financially/legally tie yourself to them. They're not exactly subtle about being gold diggers. Pay for one nice dinner and then hit them with the old "I want to cook for you at mine" if you've got a nice enough place

They're not gna ask for your pin number before they f*ck you lol. Besides, if you're getting rinsed by a woman then there's a 9/10 chance she's not really that into you. Some other lad's probably dropping by her place at 2-3am for the low low price of 2 uber rides.

Exactly this. It's mainly low IQ men who end up getting rekt by one anyways.

Wealth will attract gold diggers. That doesn't mean Men love them.

 

[Bundasliga]

Trust me ,if I was a woman I'd push for one myself.

You really can’t come for me. The rise of Tate, passport bros and men in the other thread saying how all a man needs to do is make money all point towards the points I made. Are we also going to pretend that men don’t lead with their money when they’re trying to get women?

Don’t worry I’ll wait, and I’ll show you first hand how full of contradictions you lads are.

Yeah sure if there are 2 woman.
1 is a gold digger & the other isn't, men will choose the gold digger anyday ,sure.

Thats why guys like kevin samuels became famous telling woman if a man pays for your dinner she owes him s*x.

 

[Nak-Muay-Femeu]

Exactly this. It's mainly low IQ men who end up getting rekt by one anyways.

Wealth will attract gold diggers. That doesn't mean Men love them.

Broke good looking lads f*ck gold diggers for free all the time. The avg guy should be more worried about Interest rates than gold diggers wallahi

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[Angelina]

Trust me ,if I was a woman I'd push for one myself.

Yeah sure if there are 2 woman.
1 is a gold digger & the other isn't, men will choose the gold digger anyday ,sure.

Thats why guys like kevin samuels became famous telling woman if a man pays for your dinner she owes him s*x.

A better question.

A 40 yr old man would choose a 38 yr old woman with her own company and doesn’t need his money

vs

A pretty 22 yr old who wouldn’t have gone for an average 40 yr old.

We both know what a lot of men would want. And unless you think a lot of those types of men are they know what’s what.

So essentially yes, many rich men are choosing the gold-digger.

Funny right? You cannot deny this.

 

[Nak-Muay-Femeu]

A better question. A 40 yr old man would choose a 38 yr old woman with her own company and doesn’t need his money

vs

A pretty 22 yr old who wouldn’t have gone for an average 40 yr old.

We both know what a lot of men would want. And unless you think a lot of those types of men are thick, they know what’s what.

So essentially yes, many rich men are choosing the gold-digger.

Funny right?

A 38yr old, irrespective of how attractive she might be, doesn't a hold a candle to a 22yr old looks wise. I think there's a biological component to this you might be ignoring

Not to mention having to pay the price for 2 decades worth of trauma inflicted on the 38yr old by other men. Why get a used Ferrari and the mechanical issues and other buuq that goes with that when you could get a nice new 2022 Ford Fiesta for a fraction of the price?lol

 

[JohnCena]

I was being a bit of sensationalist with that heading. But my true view is that a lot of men if they can afford it don’t mind being with a woman who is mostly there for the money. Unless you’ll argue that men are dumb, why else would many of them have no issues traveling to poorer country knowing that the women’s main reason would be wealth? Why would those women choose men from different cultures, values, hardly know them? For what? Money. They know it and she knows it, yet why don’t they mind?

Men aren’t stupid. When you go for a significantly younger woman there is a probably an 80% chance that the main perk for her is the money. The vast majority of women wouldn’t look at a man that is 15, 20, yrs older if resources wasn’t involved. The fact that you won’t take that into account makes me feel like your grappling here.

Was I being sensational when I said men ‘love them’ maybe, but many have no issues attracting them as long as they desire these women.

why else would many of them have no issues traveling to poorer country knowing that the women’s main reason would be wealth

They're interested in dating those women because they hold stronger conservative values. There's a reason why a lot of western men have been converting to Islam because of the strong values they old.

Women in the east aren't progressive and hold those values whereas Women in the West are very progressive.

With the rise of modern feminism, women aren't interested in dating with the same standards as they had decades ago.

Men aren’t stupid. When you go for a significantly younger woman there is a probably an 80% chance that the main perk for her is the money. The vast majority of women wouldn’t look at a man that is 15, 20, yrs older if resources wasn’t involved.

Men aren't marrying these women though and are only interested in smashing them. They're not stupid enough to sign a prenup or buy her expensive dates.



The fact that you won’t take that into account makes me feel like your grappling here.

I'm not taking it into account because you haven't shown me any studies that show that " Wealthy Men actively enjoy dating gold diggers".




Come on Angelina, at this point you're just regurgitating the same misinformation you provided earlier. You also haven't provided me any research articles proving any of your claims.

 

[Angelina]

A 38yr old, irrespective of how attractive she might be, doesn't a hold a candle to a 22yr old looks wise. I think there's a biological component to this you might be ignoring

Yes and a 22 yr old generally wouldn’t want to be with a man old enough to be her senior. So yes a lot of men will sacrifice the sure knowledge that a woman wants him for him so that he could be with a woman that fits into his desires even if the relationship is solely transactional.

Not to mention having to pay the price for 2 decades worth of trauma inflicted on the 38yr old by other men. Why get a used Ferrari and the mechanical issues and other buuq that goes with that when you could get a nice new 2022 Ford Fiesta for a fraction of the price?lol

Lol, you’ve fell into my trap. Good one. Btw, a 38 yr old could be a widow or a woman who who is divorced from a long 18 yr marriage. These days you have 22 yr olds with more relationships with older women who may have just been one long committed relationship. But that is besides the point.

I’m talking about a man going for a 22 yr old despite knowing that under any normal circumstances and he was an average man, he’d never get a look in. As a middle aged man, you must be stupid to think a woman of that age would go for you based on attractive and love.

 

[Angelina]

why else would many of them have no issues traveling to poorer country knowing that the women’s main reason would be wealth

They're interested in dating those women because they hold stronger conservative values. There's a reason why a lot of western men have been converting to Islam because of the strong values they old.

Conservative values? Somali odeys go there because they can’t get a young and pretty 2nd wife in the West. It has nothing to do with just conservativism. There are many conservative women here, but not just ones who will lower their standards of livings. Whilst they can go back home, get the prettiest and get her a small villa and maid. That is what happens in our community.

Oh and of course women in Thailand, Brazil ect are all so conservative LOL. Those places have a rep and you know it.

Women in the east aren't progressive and hold those values whereas Women in the West are very progressive.

With the rise of modern feminism, women aren't interested in dating with the same standards as they had decades ago.

Men aren’t stupid. When you go for a significantly younger woman there is a probably an 80% chance that the main perk for her is the money. The vast majority of women wouldn’t look at a man that is 15, 20, yrs older if resources wasn’t involved.

Men aren't marrying these women though and are only interested in smashing them. They're not stupid enough to sign a prenup or buy her expensive dates.

Yes, they are. Especially in our culture. Also lot of second wives of rich men are significantly younger especially amongst the divorced elites. The wife that built with them the first wife is usually around the same age and the woman he gets with after is a lot younger.

The fact that you won’t take that into account makes me feel like your grappling here.

I'm not taking it into account because you haven't shown me any studies that show that " Wealthy Men actively enjoy dating gold diggers".

Like I said I was being sensationalist. But I do believe that men will overlook gold-digging provided they get what they want and benefit.

 

[Nak-Muay-Femeu]

Yes and a 22 yr old generally wouldn’t want to be with a man old enough to be her senior. So yes a lot of men will sacrifice the sure knowledge that a woman wants him for him so that he could be with a woman that fits into his desires even if the relationship is solely transactional.

Lol, you’ve fell into my trap. Good one. Btw, a 38 yr old could be a widow or a woman who who is divorced from a long 18 yr marriage. These days you have 22 yr olds with more relationships with older women who may have just been one long committed relationship. But that is besides the point.

I’m talking about a man going for a 22 yr old despite knowing that under any normal circumstances and he was an average man, he’d never get a look in. As a middle aged man, you must be stupid to think a woman of that age would go for you based on attractive and love.

It's ancedotal but I've seen plenty of older guys pull girls young enough to be their daughters. They weren't exactly working the sunday morning shift at McDonalds but they were older and in way better shape than the girl's peers. Did it materialize into something long term thing? No. But they still pulled. Trust me, plenty of younger women with unresolved anger issues and hatred toward their dear ol'papa and will f*ck a greying man in his 40s, it's not as uncommon as you think it is lol

 

[Bundasliga]

A better question.

A 40 yr old man would choose a 38 yr old woman with her own company and doesn’t need his money

vs

A pretty 22 yr old who wouldn’t have gone for an average 40 yr old.

We both know what a lot of men would want. And unless you think a lot of those types of men are they know what’s what.

So essentially yes, many rich men are choosing the gold-digger.

Funny right? You cannot deny this.

You don't even need all the variables.

Data indicates adult men regardless of their age find women in their early twenties the most attractive.

So your trick question answers itself.
& there's a difference between marriage and hookup/dating.

A gold digger can't really harm you ,if there's no marriage .

 

[Angelina]

You don't even need all the variables.

Data indicates adult men regardless of their age find women in their early twenties the most attractive.

So your trick question answers itself.
& there's a difference between marriage and hookup/dating.

A gold digger can't really harm you ,if there's no marriage .

It’s not about what men find attractive. We both know this. I’m saying men will sacrifice being with a woman who fits into their desires even if they’re smart enough to know that the average 22 yr old wouldn’t want them but for the money.

With regards to marriage we see this all the time in our community with men going back home. They know the gig. The girls are open about it as well . I go back home a lot and these girls definitely prefer Western men particularly older ones because of the money and passport.

 

[JohnCena]

Conservative values? Somali odeys go there because they can’t get a young and pretty 2nd wife in the West. It has nothing to do with just conservativism. There are many conservative women here, but not just ones who will lower their standards of livings. Whilst they can go back home, get the prettiest and get her a small villa and maid. That is what happens in our community.

Oh and of course women in Thailand, Brazil ect are all so conservative LOL. Those places have a rep and you know it.



Yes, they are. Especially in our culture. Also lot of second wives of rich men are significantly younger especially amongst the divorced elites. The wife that built with them the first wife is usually around the same age and the woman he gets with after is a lot younger.

Like I said I was being sensationalist. But I do believe that men will overlook gold-digging provided they get what they want and benefit.

Conservative values? Somali odeys go there because they can’t get a young and pretty 2nd wife in the West. It has nothing to do with just conservativism. There are many conservative women here, but not just ones who will lower their standards of livings. Whilst they can go back home, get the prettiest and get her a small villa and maid. That is what happens in our community.

Those women in Thailand and Brazil are usually strong willed Christain/Buddhists. They don't have to be Muslim for them to have strong conservative beliefs.

Yes, they are. Especially in our culture. Also lot of second wives of rich men are significantly younger especially amongst the divorced elites. The wife that built with them the first wife is usually around the same age and the woman he gets with after is a lot younger.

Men who end up wifing a younger wife with no strong assets are idiots. My point still stands that they are low IQ and why I'm a big believer of having a prenup.


Like I said I was being sensationalist. But I do believe that men will overlook gold-digging provided they get what they want and benefit.

Men are just interested in sex with younger women and only care to make it short term. There's no need to wife up a gold digger unless they . The one's that do are low IQ.

 

[Bundasliga]

It’s not about what men find attractive. We both know this. I’m saying men will sacrifice being with a woman who fits into their desires even if they’re smart enough to know that the average 22 yr old wouldn’t want them but for the money.

& all I'm saying is if the older man has 2 options between the 22 year old gold digger & the 22 year old who isn't one.
Who will he go for ?

You said men love gold diggers which is bullshit. There's a key difference between gold digging and being provided for .

With regards to marriage we see this all the time in our community with men going back home. They know the gig. The girls are open about it as well . I go back home a lot and these girls definitely prefer Western men particularly older ones because of the money and passport

What know do they prefer oday's or not

women know this, but the thing is hardly any women want to be with older men. That is the reality and this is only happening in Somalia due to the rampant poverty of our people

@JohnCena @Nak-Muay-Femeu

 

[JohnCena]

& all I'm saying is if the older man has 2 options between the 22 year old gold digger & the 22 year old who isn't one.
Who will he go for ?

You said men love gold diggers which is bullshit. There's a key difference between gold digging and being provided for .

What know do they prefer oday's or not

@JohnCena @Nak-Muay-Femeu

She was being a sensationalist when she said that "Men love gold diggers"