Why do Younger Somali Guys have no Game?

[Qeelbax]

4/5 times that I get hit on by a Somali guy, it’s a Somali guy in his late 20s and 30s. I get these men are more desperate but these young faraxs have no social skills. It took one guy my age 3 years to ask me out. Like what do you mean you liked me since high school? We are about to graduate college!

I know I’m generalizing but this shit is all too common. My friends and cousins have the same experiences.

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

It’s affecting all young guys no matter the race I’ve seen all types of women saying men don’t approach anymore

it’s mainly a fear of rejection they’d rather slide in the dms and take their chances there instead of getting curved in real life

remember the under 25 guys grew up on socially media heavily it’s made the game much easier

 

[Abdirazaq]

4/5 times that I get hit on by a Somali guy, it’s a Somali guy in his late 20s and 30s. I get these men are more desperate but these young faraxs have no social skills. It took one guy my age 3 years to ask me out. Like what do you mean you liked me since high school? We are about to graduate college!

I know I’m generalizing but this shit is all too common. My friends and cousins have the same experiences.

So you’re telling me the younger generation is more pious and lower their gaze, you should be saying Mashallah.

 

[Sigmundd]

Some men been indoctrinated into believing women are callous thats why they are extra cautious and have turned to social media when approaching a girl rather than to approach in real life and get rejection.

 

[Kisame]

So you’re telling me the younger generation is more pious and lower their gaze, you should be saying Mashallah.

Not a good thing. Women are becoming westernized and would prefer men to flirt and court them. Young men aren't learning how to do this correctly.

 

[Abdirazaq]

Not a good thing. Women are becoming westernized and would prefer men to flirt and court them. Young men aren't learning how to do this correctly.

Flirting is absolutely against the deen, and courting should only happen when a women’s wali is involved.

 

[niggaibnh]

4/5 times that I get hit on by a Somali guy, it’s a Somali guy in his late 20s and 30s. I get these men are more desperate but these young faraxs have no social skills. It took one guy my age 3 years to ask me out. Like what do you mean you liked me since high school? We are about to graduate college!

I know I’m generalizing but this shit is all too common. My friends and cousins have the same experiences.

I think you haven’t met me yet…..

 

[hippy60]

Is all men, they have been indoctrinated into believing women are callous thats why they are extra cautious and have turned to social media when approaching a girl rather than to approach in real life and get rejection.

The way you write would suggest you are more pinky than the brain .

Goofy

 

[Kisame]

Flirting is absolutely against the deen, and courting should only happen when a women’s wali is involved.

Somalis date and flirt with each other to find a partner. We don't have an organized arraigned marriage culture like south Asians.

Not learning how to date the western way can make it a struggle to find a partner here in the west.

 

[Sigmundd]

The way you write would suggest you are more pinky than the brain .

Goofy

ok

 

[hippy60]

ok

Great show by the way my dear chap.

 

[Cartan Boos]

It's global issue but Farah still seem to have game at least better than alot of other groups, thanks to our boldness and confidence

 

[Kisame]

It’s affecting all young guys no matter the race I’ve seen all types of women saying men don’t approach anymore

it’s mainly a fear of rejection they’d rather slide in the dms and take their chances there instead of getting curved in real life

remember the under 25 guys grew up on socially media heavily it’s made the game much easier

It's worse in Muslim communities bro. A decent amount of South Asian niggas don't even gotta date cause their parents set them up with a chick back home.

Somali niggas that don't date when they're young pretty much get fucked over once they finish school. Parents have no partners waiting for them and make these niggas find a partner on their own.

 

[hippy60]

ok

I apologize no need for me to be negative to a young halimo

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

It's worse in Muslim communities bro. South Asian niggas don't even gotta date cause their parents set them up with a chick back home.

Somali niggas that don't date when they're young pretty much get fucked over once they finish school. Parents have no partners waiting for them and make these niggas find a partner on their own.

Facts unless there religious they are behind in the game you need that learning experience with women in high school and college just for personal and mental development

 

[Zak12]

It's worse in Muslim communities bro. A decent amount of South Asian niggas don't even gotta date cause their parents set them up with a chick back home.

Somali niggas that don't date when they're young pretty much get fucked over once they finish school. Parents have no partners waiting for them and make these niggas find a partner on their own.

You are exaggerating. Plenty of Somali men have no problems finding Somali women partners. If you are talking about dating ajnabis then who cares? Unless it impacts marriage/birth rates among diaspora Somalis then its no issue

 

[suspect75]

Some fobs back home have better game than most younger faraxs

 

[Burner123]

You are exaggerating. Plenty of Somali men have no problems finding Somali women partners. If you are talking about dating ajnabis then who cares? Unless it impacts marriage/birth rates among diaspora Somalis then its no issue

This is a dumb mindset to have. Woman are woman at the end of the day whether Somali or Ajnabi. If you struggle with one chances are you will struggle with the other unless some Somali woman just settles for you so you can provide for her. Dudes need to learn how to date/court woman early on in life to avoid this

 

[Zak12]

This is a dumb mindset to have. Woman are woman at the end of the day whether Somali or Ajnabi. If you struggle with one chances are you will struggle with the other unless some Somali woman just settles for you so you can provide for her. Dudes need to learn how to date/court woman early on in life to avoid this

Bruh I'm just saying Somali women share the same culture and values as Somali men so they are easier to date than ajnabis women are. Why do you think most ethnicities are very endogamous? People don't typically date out of their group even in diverse places

 

[NidarNidar]

It's worse in Muslim communities bro. A decent amount of South Asian niggas don't even gotta date cause their parents set them up with a chick back home.

Somali niggas that don't date when they're young pretty much get fucked over once they finish school. Parents have no partners waiting for them and make these niggas find a partner on their own.

I plead the 5th, you must of been around halal Somalis.