Why do Somali men take pride in being

[Tukraq]

Somali women back home are queens and should be referred to as such
how are you dissing our mothers for some hooyo mataaloo @Mercury wa yaab

 

[nine]

I meant lower standards in the sense that a person goes over there to marry cheap

But you’re maybe retarded

Marwo
You're crazy. I am too Geeljire for most western xaliimos who can't even speak fluent Somali. You think I wanna read Qamaan Bulxan poetry with someone who can't even speak Af Somali? @Suldaanka

Is right that Somali women embrace western dhaqan more than males. It is western Somali women who marry out more than men.
You shouldn't completely rule out western or back home girls. But saying Faraxs only go back home for cheap marriage makes you sound like @Reiko who is a woman
I see no issue in choosing the cheaper option. In today's World it's expensive to have a family mise you would rather work 3 jobs so you don't "be cheap"?

Abaayo macaanto no hard feelings xxx xxx

 

[Suldaanka]

You're crazy. I am too Geeljire for most western xaliimos who can't even speak fluent Somali. You think I wanna read Qamaan Bulxan poetry with someone who can't even speak Af Somali? @Suldaanka

Is right that Somali women embrace western dhaqan more than males. It is western Somali women who marry out more than men.
You shouldn't completely rule out western or back home girls. But saying Faraxs only go back home for cheap marriage makes you sound like @Reiko
I see no issue in choosing the cheaper option. In yoday's World it's expensive to have a family mise you would rather work 3 jobs so you don't "be cheap"?

Abaayo macaanto no hard feelings xxx xxx

Adeer i want 10 strong warriora who become the future. No western women can give me that.
Qamaan bulxan is to advanced. Kuwaan cant even speak conversational somali with saying um um.
Do you want wendys or chipote while my girl is thinking about waslaad geela.

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Only ugly, bald headed, fat men go to Africa to marry smelly fobs.

I said what I said!


You can't compare 5 star hotel to a motel 6...

Haters.

 

[Vanessa]

Lol @Reiko, I’m too emotional unavailable.

 

[Suldaanka]

When you hear me talk you think I'm fresh from Mudug. Bring a western xaliimo anoo kale who likes suugaan.
Reiko do you like Farah Caytame and Abdi Galayax? I know the answer ain't even no bevause you never heard of them like most western Somalis

No lie. My somali is good lakiin both my wife's gabayada bey xifdiyeen. Find me one diaspora girl who even has the shortest and easiest poem memorized

 

[HalimaJ]

No lie. My somali is good lakiin both my wife's gabayada bey xifdiyeen. Find me one diaspora girl who even has the shortest and easiest poem memorized

Are you okay, some of us have memorised the Quran which is more important than any poems. Your points don't make sense.

 

[nine]

No lie. My somali is good lakiin both my wife's gabayada bey xifdiyeen. Find me one diaspora girl who even has the shortest and easiest poem memorized

Iskabadaa suugaan @HalimaJ can you go to Somalia and not be recognized as diaspora by your broken Af Somali?

 

[Suldaanka]

Are you okay, some of us have memorised the Quran which is more important than any poems. Your points don't make sense.

Quran isnt even on the list because its is automatic. Almost everyone has the quran memorized. Its a given.
Suugan isnt easy

 

[Suldaanka]

Are you okay, some of us have memorised the Quran which is more important than any poems. Your points don't make sense.

Lakiin manshallah. Congrats of hifz of Quran

 

[Libaaxseendheer]

Somali men are emotionally unavailable because they lack coping strategies. They always look for excuses when it comes to their shortfalls and when they see no way out of the situation they turn the blame back to the woman. They are most likely to become the biggest sociopaths. I’ve seen some firsthand.

Yet the sociopath list is dominated by...

somali men wa raxmo ilaahay idin siiyey

 

[Libaaxseendheer]

I’m speaking the truth most Somali men back home are lazy and won’t lift a finger in their own home because they believe it’s the wives job she’s the one whose gonna feed the kids change the diaper and do the child rearing and housework

That part of the dhaqan I don’t agree with its stupid

Women enjoy those tasks .

 

[Libaaxseendheer]

Somali women back home are queens and should be referred to as such
how are you dissing our mothers for some hooyo mataaloo @Mercury wa yaab

"Sonkor xaafada mey taallaa"
" may hoyo sonkor ma joogo"

 

[Muji]

I realised being with a Somali man would f*ck up my mental health since they are not adults. You will find yourself arguing like children about what other couples don’t argue about.

My married friends do the housework together and they both bring in an income. If her husband ran to his room like a petulant child because he was told to wash his dishes, I don’t know what I would say wallahi. But the incels...sorry faraxs here make these unreasonable demands seem normal.

 

[Tukraq]

I realised being with a Somali man would f*ck up my mental health since they are not adults. You will find yourself arguing like children about what other couples don’t argue about.

My married friends do the housework together and they both bring in an income. If her husband ran to his room like a petulant hold because he was told to wash his dishes, I don’t know what I would say wallahi. But the incels...sorry faraxs here make these unreasonable demands seem normal.

Do you think washing the dishes is such a big deal do dishwashers not exist in the uk and is a dual income a must what if you bring in enough for both

 

[Muji]

Do you think washing the dishes is such a big deal do dishwashers not exist in the uk and is a dual income a must what if you bring in enough for both

Most faraxs are not tech bros they are travellers, coffee devourers or taxi drivers. The women is forced to be the homemaker as well the bread winner

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Lol @Reiko, I’m too emotional unavailable.

I guess it's the reer Mudug side lmfao.

 

[East side]

I realised being with a Somali man would f*ck up my mental health since they are not adults. You will find yourself arguing like children about what other couples don’t argue about.

My married friends do the housework together and they both bring in an income. If her husband ran to his room like a petulant child because he was told to wash his dishes, I don’t know what I would say wallahi. But the incels...sorry faraxs here make these unreasonable demands seem normal.

I only know somalis, asains and blacks.....i dont roll with whites and I dont know a single guy who do dishes with their wife. sure they may help every now and then....but its not even 60-40. It seems like you hang around white people cause it sure aint somalis or black people in general what you are describing

 

[Tukraq]

Most faraxs are not tech bros they are travellers, coffee devourers or taxi drivers. The women is forced to be the homemaker as well the bread winner

Taxi that more for older men, maybe Uber would be more believable
I would advises them to do trucking for a larger income but then like you said you’d be away from the house although here in the states everyone and their uncles seem to have a business of some type though selling something,
So I haven’t really seen any women be the breadwinners in our community jobs are readily available and our unemployment is at an all time low of 4 percent so pretty much everyone’s employed

 

[HalimaJ]

I only know somalis, asains and blacks.....i dont roll with whites and I dont know a single guy who do dishes with their wife. sure they may help every now and then....but its not even 60-40. It seems like you hang around white people cause it sure aint somalis or black people in general what you are describing

Unless you can afford for your wife to be a house wife then you better get used to the kitchen.

You can't staunchly believe in gender roles, when your Mrs has to help you provide which is YOUR role.