Why do Somali men take pride in being

[Suldaanka]

Dude you dont sh1t on women from somalia. They are strong as fvck and pillar of their community. I been in somalia plenty of times, I paid for my cousins educations and to call these women golddiggers shows how far you are attached from reality. Nothing wrong with a woman taking care of her house. Thats what our women and women across the world has done forever. You come to the west yesterday and preach to us about liberals view on womens role. You are an enemy of the somali family who is working in turning us against each other. This is why Im happy i left Sweden long time ago....it makes you a nacas

Wallahi there are more educated women in somalia then the diaspora. Hands down not even close.
He wants are women to be like western who dont marry and have childern. We are muslim. Are women enjoy their lifestyle. We respect our women to the point if they were unhappy they would force us to change. We have morals and dhaqan. You dont hear somali women complaining.

 

[East side]

Wallahi there are more educated women in somalia then the diaspora. Hands down not even close.
He wants are women to be like western who dont marry and have childern. We are muslim. Are women enjoy their lifestyle. We respect our women to the point if they were unhappy they would force us to change. We have morals and dhaqan. You dont hear somali women complaining.

exactly....I can see his/her agenda very clearly. The enemy within.......he is actively working on turning us against each other by constant negativity

 

[Mercury]

Dude you dont sh1t on women from somalia. They are strong as fvck and pillar of their community. I been in somalia plenty of times, I paid for my cousins educations and to call these women golddiggers shows how far you are attached from reality. Nothing wrong with a woman taking care of her house. Thats what our women and women across the world has done forever. You come to the west yesterday and preach to us about liberals view on womens role. You are an enemy of the somali family who is working in turning us against each other. This is why Im happy i left Sweden long time ago....it makes you a nacas

I didn’t shit on them I just said they’re golddiggers or opportunistic meaning if they talked with 2 guys one is a local and one is a diaspora 9/10 she would go with the diaspora because he can provide a better life for her

the education you’re bragging about here ain’t nothing special you have students copy paste English assignments directly from Wikipedia and the teacher than corrects their spelling mistakes and they pass

 

[Kodeen]

@Kodeen
@Suldaanka
@East side

Let me clarify since all of you seem to confuse me with a girl

I have seen and know a lot of Somali guys that view their women as commodities and look for submissive and docile women who could perform certain tasks for them instead of an actual wife who you can share your life with that’s why you guys highly rate the girls back home

No sister, I'm not going to let you spin this and make it about Somali men.

I would personally import a wife from from the fucking Baltics or Russia before I choose one from Somalia. But you're lying when you say Somali guys marry from back home because they want a maid and not a wife. Most of the guys from our generaton that marry home are actually decent and religious guys that feel disconnected from their female counter parts here.

I think it's agreeable by everyone that Somali girls have acclimated to the Western lifestyle at a much higher rate than the guys, for better or worse. Why is it wrong for them to marry from back home?

 

[Mercury]

exactly....I can see his/her agenda very clearly. The enemy within.......he is actively working on turning us against each other by constant negativity

I’m speaking the truth most Somali men back home are lazy and won’t lift a finger in their own home because they believe it’s the wives job she’s the one whose gonna feed the kids change the diaper and do the child rearing and housework

That part of the dhaqan I don’t agree with its stupid

 

[Mercury]

No sister, I'm not going to let you spin this and make it about Somali men.

I would personally import a wife from from the fucking Baltics or Russia before I choose one from Somalia. But you're lying when you say Somali guys marry from back home because they want a maid and not a wife. Most of the guys from our generaton that marry home are actually decent and religious guys that feel disconnected from their female counter parts here.

I think it's agreeable by everyone that Somali girls have acclimated to the Western lifestyle at a much higher rate than the guys, for better or worse. Why is it wrong for them to marry from back home?

choosing someone from back home over someone in the west comes down to two things being easy to manipulate and having lower standards

 

[The alchemist]

 

[Inquisitive_]

I've been back home, and due to the poverty and the level of responsibility the girls feel towards their family, money is a very important factor when choosing a spouse, so much so, i found their mindset very crazy.

Did i judge? No, because if I was raised there I would be the same or more. I'm not saying they are all like that, but many are. But is human nature, love and all that malarky comes 2nd as securing a positive future is more important.

Somali women back home are not only hardworking and resourceful, but also very, very intelligent. They can make a man feel as though she loves him for him when really and truly she only cares about his wallet. Seeing them showed me how maskeen and not smooth western Xalimos are. like, i was looking at them like, i could learn a thing or two.

I have two cousins that have been burnt and I have had countless of conversations with young Somali women from back home. The difference between my experience and yours is that they can talk to me honestly as I am a woman, whilst you are a man, you're not obviously going to have a real understanding of their mindset as you are a potential target.

Again, not all are like that though. But it is still a common phenomenon. I have countless tales of family members and family friends being used.

The only difference is that the western raised female on average is so stupid and detached from reality she is solely driven by multiple irrational self destructive impulses that she herself and no one else can make sense off.

While the wretched ones back home with far superior intelligence and craftiness who understand life much better are driven by more rational motives

The critical difference with both is that the latter recognise good males when they come across them and do everything to keep them while the former are so stupid they wouldn't even recognize a prophet much less a good husband

An intelligent wretched xaalimo will always be superior to the stupid obtuse wretched xaalimo's.

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

You are too nice. They are emotionally crazy especially your buddies @R.Kelly and @Saalax Bidaar it might be a clan thing.

@R.Kelly wont even notice you crying or being sad. Smh. Waa darbi soo tagaan



I think @Saalax Bidaar atleast has the decency to recognize someone else’s emotions even though he will probably punch the wall if he wants to cry..

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Dude you dont sh1t on women from somalia. They are strong as fvck and pillar of their community. I been in somalia plenty of times, I paid for my cousins educations and to call these women golddiggers shows how far you are attached from reality. Nothing wrong with a woman taking care of her house. Thats what our women and women across the world has done forever. You come to the west yesterday and preach to us about liberals view on womens role. You are an enemy of the somali family who is working in turning us against each other. This is why Im happy i left Sweden long time ago....it makes you a nacas

Incompetent Somali men who rely on women too much. Taking care of the House is the responsibility for both men and women.. Allah swt didn’t create us to be to your maids..

 

[East side]

Incompetent Somali men who rely on women too much. Taking care of the House is the responsibility for both men and women.. Allah swt didn’t create us to be to your maids..

Outside of givin birth. There is nothing a woman can do better than men. Even the best chefs in the world are men. So outside of sex and kids....i dont need a woman.

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Outside of givin birth. There is nothing a woman can do better than men. Even the best chefs in the world are men. So outside of sex and kids....i dont need a woman.

Then stop crying about women taking care of the house

 

[Kodeen]

choosing someone from back home over someone in the west comes down to two things being easy to manipulate and having lower standards

lol ok, you're too far gone sxb

 

[East side]

choosing someone from back home over someone in the west comes down to two things being easy to manipulate and having lower standards

So women in somalia is of lower standards now? I guess your mum and aunts are of lower standard tgan xalimos who grew up in west as they grew up in Somalia?

 

[Mercury]

So women in somalia is of lower standards now? I guess your mum and aunts are of lower standard tgan xalimos who grew up in west as they grew up in Somalia?

I meant lower standards in the sense that a person goes over there to marry cheap

But you’re maybe retarded

 

[Suldaanka]

I meant lower standards in the sense that a person goes over there to marry cheap

But you’re maybe retarded

You sound so retarted. Lakiin i knew you were a diaspora girl. Hows your husband.

 

[Mercury]

You sound so retarted. Lakiin i knew you were a diaspora girl. Hows your husband.

Why would I pretend to be a girl ?

Did it not occur to you that I don’t really adhere to Somali dhaqan?

I think it’s silly

 

[Ferrari]

You don't own us. We can do whatever we want.

take it or leave it nayaa.

 

[Suldaanka]

Why would I pretend to be a girl ?

Did it not occur to you that I don’t really adhere to Somali dhaqan?

I think it’s silly

So now you are dhaqanless.

 

[HalimaJ]

Emotions are for the weakminded. If yoh cried infront of me I would just walk away out of embarrassment and avoid you rest of my life

If thats the case most of the Abdis on sspot are overly emotional

Onlyba western xalimo would sh1t on somali women in somalia and call them gold diggers. This chick has been playing games for too long

I've met plenty of Somali guys who go to Somalia regularly who think a lot are golddiggers. They have seen it first hand. It is a common problem.

Btw, when I call them golddiggers or very money motivated, for me its not an insult as life for a lot is very difficult.

Many on here are absolute morons, why do you think a pot bellied man 50 something yr old man from the diaspora can get a beautiful 20 yr old? The key answer is money. A maskeen 20yr old would want to be with a young man she is attracted to.

Some of you here are absolutely delusional.

You can cuss out Western Somali girls, but we are doing much better than you in the west. You're insults mask nothing but insecurity.



How about you Somali guys focus on uplifting and changing each other, instead of pointing the finger at Somali women, when in actual fact you lot are 10 times worse.