Why do people want to get married?

[Taij4an]

Well beat a few shisheeyee men then take their women folk

 

[Bebsi]

Kids-Destroy your entire life
Love-Doesn't exist
Sex-Gets old after a while
Business-This intrigues me
Money-Doesn't make a relationship will just be awkward
Lineage-Who tf cares about lineage I never understood why ppl ever cared about lineage

Im not asking question cos of a girl, The opposite, Im asking cos I cba to get married I dont see the point

How old are you ?

 

[Taij4an]

How old are you ?

Around 20

 

[Ghengis Kaarhis]

TBH not too keen on marriage, only reason I'm gonna get married in the future is because it is islamically required of me.

 

[Taij4an]

TBH not too keen on marriage, only reason I'm gonna get married in the future is because it is islamically required of me.

Same

 

[Maxmfhjkhd]

حوالي 20

You'll understand when you're thirty,

 

[GuanYu]

You'll understand when you're thirty,

Yes, Even at 25 you'll understand the need for marriage, however society in the Western hemisphere isn't structured for an early marriage as much

 

[Taij4an]

You'll understand when you're thirty,

why?
do ppl get bored and lonely?

 

[Bundasliga]

why?
do ppl get bored and lonely?

Yes & yes .

 

[Taij4an]

Yes & yes .

My theory is most ppl get married due to
social pressure
Following the crowd
thinking it will solve horniness
pressure from parents
they are sad and lonely and need love
they feel empty without a family and need a family to fill that void in their heart
Money
Social status

 

[Bundasliga]

My theory is most ppl get married due to
social pressure
Following the crowd
thinking it will solve horniness
pressure from parents
they are sad and lonely and need love
they feel empty without a family and need a family to fill that void in their heart
Money
Social status

Those are valid reasons to get married ,so what's your point ?

 

[Taij4an]

Those are valid reasons to get married ,so what's your point ?

I dont have any of those reasons and I dont understand why ppl do

 

[Bundasliga]

I dont have any of those reasons and I dont understand why ppl do

You projecting your lack of sufficient reasons unto others .

There's no magic to it, people marry for various reasons & those are valid .

 

[Username]

Weren't you saying it's not possible to go celibate? And you're Muslim correct? So why wouldn't you want to get married

 

[Taij4an]

Weren't you saying it's not possible to go celibate? And you're Muslim correct? So why wouldn't you want to get married

I don't want to get married I just have
Its one of those things u have to do but hate doing it
Like working

 

[Taij4an]

You projecting your lack of sufficient reasons unto others .

There's no magic to it, people marry for various reasons & those are valid .

when I read your replies I do it in jordan petersons voice
O feel like he is talking to mean in a stern tone

 

[NinWero]

Kids?
Companionship?
Halal Sex?

Are those not enough to want to get married?

 

[Taij4an]

Kids?
Companionship?
Halal Sex?

Are those not enough to want to get married?

Why would anyone want kids they are a nightmare and ruin ur life.
Idk about companionship its overrated for all the hard work of marriage plus being by urself is very nice idk why anyone would wanna spend the rest of their life with a person all the time
Halal sex is overrated ull eventually get bored anyway its not a reason to get married plus alot of married couples dont even have sex its like the stupidest reason to get married