Why do people want to get married?

Marriage nowadays has nothing to do with love or babies. Marriage is a business transaction.
It always has been and that is the best way to look at it if you want a healthy and long lasting relationship you should negotiate and communicate so you both know your do's and don'ts and whatever either of you intend on compromising on.

Imam shaffi classifies nikkah as a transaction.

There is no such thing as love at first sight or crushes etc it's all just lust.

love is build over time that's what the relationship is for. As long as there is some form of sexual attraction and you get everything else you need then love will only grow from then on.
 

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Who says having a family makes u happy
What if you have no care for family?

People who don’t like their family were like that from the start. A lot of people feel fulfilled when they have a family, having a family is basically our biological function and what most humans will eventually have.
 
Akhi, If you wanna be Zuhud in the western world, that's you. Just realize Soomalida waa dad guur badan, marka what's the point of creating this thread. Also, if you don't get married, maxaa sameenee? you gonna live in the mountains and denounce all xalimos smell? ninyahow, be realistic.
I want to know why people want to get married, I don't understand it, it baffles me,
 
People who don’t like their family were like that from the start. A lot of people feel fulfilled when they have a family, having a family is basically our biological function and what most humans will eventually have.
Having a family doesn't make u happier though.
 
Thats what YOU think, certainly not the case for my father or mother and including millions of people.
You didn't see all of the struggle and sleepless nights and depression and sadness and tiredness and pain and lack of freedom and difficulty and constant work your parents had to go through
 
I think at any age we are settling because no one is perfect. I'd say you're really settling once you're over 35 and still not married. People like that are usually way too picky.
I mean settling is different from compromising which I mentioned. However, the older you get the pool of prospective spouses gets smaller and eventually, you will have to settle.
 
I see marriage as like brushing your teeth, its something you gotta do but its not something you enjoy doing or get excited by, its just a daily chore
 
Marriage is required from our deen .

Without the deen most men would think negatively about modern day marriage.
Ok but most ppl don't get married bc of religion, most ppl don't care about religion, I want to know why people get married not why they should get married
 

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