Why do people want to get married?

[Taij4an]

I don't understand why people care so much about love and getting married.
What's wrong with people.

 

[Basra]

Marriage nowadays has nothing to do with love or babies. Marriage is a business transaction.

 

[Taij4an]

Marriage nowadays has nothing to do with love or babies. Marriage is a business transaction.

I think marriage was always seen as a business move
nowadays people get married for stupid reasons like love.
I don't like to see marriage as an emotional thing, it turns me off marriage, If I were to ever get married I have to be ice cold in my heart that is where I find the most peace

 

[Basra]

I think marriage was always seen as a business move
nowadays people get married for stupid reasons like love.
I don't like to see marriage as an emotional thing, it turns me off marriage, If I were to ever get married I have to be ice cold in my heart that is where I find the most peace

But huuno, u r addicted to love. Every month u have a crush on someone. Even your best friends.

 

[Taij4an]

But huuno, u r addicted to love. Every month u have a crush on someone. Even your best friends.

I don't have a crush on anyone, I secluded myself from the dunya, I do not care for dunya pleasures, Nor do I care for love either.
"Best friends"? r u calling me gay

 

[Basra]

I don't have a crush on anyone, I secluded myself from the dunya, I do not care for dunya pleasures, Nor do I care for love either.
"Best friends"? r u calling me gay

Hhhmmmm cough cough

 

[1week]

why are you so cynical. there’s someone out there for you but this ice cold persona isn’t it

 

[Taij4an]

why are you so cynical. there’s someone out there for you but this ice cold persona isn’t it

This is just me as a person, I am not cynical just more aware to realities of life than most people.
It ain't a persona, its my personality.

 

[Taij4an]

Hhhmmmm cough cough

 

[zackattack]

Halal sex

 

[Taij4an]

Halal sex

Worst reason ever

 

[zackattack]

Worst reason ever

It's the main reason throughout Islamic history, people want to have sex because it feels good and the only way for a good Muslim to obtain sex is to get married .

 

[Taij4an]

It's the main reason throughout Islamic history, people want to have sex because it feels good and the only way for a good Muslim to obtain sex is to get married .

Not a good reason to get married, people didn't get married for sex, thats the stupidest reason,

 

[Taij4an]

It's the main reason throughout Islamic history, people want to have sex because it feels good and the only way for a good Muslim to obtain sex is to get married .

any marriage based on sex will fail anyways

 

[Sheikh Google]

Under 25- Halal sex
Over 30- Settling

 

[Abu Hesi]

Akhi, If you wanna be Zuhud in the western world, that's you. Just realize Soomalida waa dad guur badan, marka what's the point of creating this thread. Also, if you don't get married, maxaa sameenee? you gonna live in the mountains and denounce all xalimos smell? ninyahow, be realistic.

 

[canjeeroiyoshah]

Under 25- Halal sex
Over 30- Settling

What about between 25 and 30.

 

[El Nino]

Having a family which makes people happy, especially with a man/woman you love etc. Many reasons, also halal sex.


Personally Im a sucker for romance, the idea of my wife and I doing disney love story shit got me giggling

 

[Sheikh Google]

What about between 25 and 30.

The sweet spot. You are most likely into your career and have some form of assets, also grown as a person and matured so know what are red flags and what you can compromise on.

 

[Taij4an]

Under 25- Halal sex
Over 30- Settling

Under 25 stupid horny kid
Over 30 have nothing better to do in life might aswell get married