VixR
Veritas
You’re one those who shift their views differently to the opposite of how you’re characterizing them at any given time.Literally every part of that statement is false.
1) I'm not generalizing the experience to all women. I know plenty of really good women and have good dating experiences before and after the borderline.
2) I don't consider the person enigmatic at all. I actually feel that I understand them very well.
3) The only reason why I am entertaining this idiotic conversation with you is that I'm procrastinating. If anything I need less time.
Suddenly you understand them when earlier you couldn’t.
Suddenly you realize your experience isn’t general, when earlier you were making BPD out to be rife/incredibly high.
Best of luck.