The society stigmatizes the man when talking about mental health issues, while the woman are expected to to talk about how they feel. You say that men suffer from toxic masculinity, but women only like masculine men, and an emotional man who is in tune with his feelings are not the sexual ideal partner. Men needs to have muscles and be brave, while skinny wimpy men are ignored. I mean godamn, look at all the superhero movies, that sets a standard and get's ingraned in our mind since birth, and you women also love those men. This has happened for millenia so we are conditioned, and you women have been enjoying that privelige, beause we protected you in the wild. But now that we have become 'modern', it has become a problem to be a masculine man and you expect us to just become like you? How many times do i hear xalimos say that somali men are feminine, and they would rather get a 'real man'. lol
Alhamdullilah i am a rational masculine man, but it is not easy to fill these shoes as women always seems to think. If i was weak, women would ignore me. I've had plenty of short, skinny, fat friends that never got looked at. But because of genetics i was the one getting the attention. Does that sound fair?
Don't get me wrong, people should definently get help if they suffer, but don't act like you are not part of the problem.