Why are non hijabis treated like h*es in our community

[empressjamila]

I have a lot of Muslim desi friends and half don’t wear hijab and nobody in their community treats them funny because of it. Meanwhile in the Somali community no hijab= even in the west.

it seems in our culture appearance > akhlaq and morals which explains why you see Somali hijabis acting ratchet in public and on social media giving a bad name to hijabis in general.

I was having a discussion with a Somali friend the other day about hijab and she was talking about how she mostly wears it so she’s not judged by other Somalis...like the meaning of hijab is completely lost. I wonder how many others are like this

 

[yaqir]

i swear some of you guys need the hijab saw a non hijabi somali and her forehead was a 6 head astaghfirullah i could make an airport out of her forehead

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Plus this leads to girls wearing hijab and not even wearing it properly (billy marsal for ex), or falling into the transformer role where they take it off as soon as their parents are out of sight. A lot of Somali girls were told to wear hijab from very very young ages, around 6-10. Most never learned the true meaning of it and didn’t figure out that they wanted to wear it for themselves. No one should be demeaned for not wearing hijab. Yes advise them, that’s what we should do always. But calling women who don’t wear hijabs all kinds of derogatory names is unIslamic in and of itself. That’s my two cents though.

 

[Halimo-2018]

Somalis judge women hijab or not. We honestly need to reassess our culture when it comes to women. Out moms cried when no one was watching a lot of them accept bs for the sake of their kids now their boys want to do the same. Somwthing gotta change.

 

[jabsveg276]

I have a lot of Muslim desi friends and half don’t wear hijab and nobody in their community treats them funny because of it. Meanwhile in the Somali community no hijab= ***** even in the west.

it seems in our culture appearance > akhlaq and morals which explains why you see Somali hijabis acting ratchet in public and on social media giving a bad name to hijabis in general.

I was having a discussion with a Somali friend the other day about hijab and she was talking about how she mostly wears it so she’s not judged by other Somalis...like the meaning of hijab is completely lost. I wonder how many others are like this

Hijab is Fardh and we should be encouraging all non-hijabis to wear hijab, because they sin each time they go out without one. We shouldn’t treat them like h*es but what I’ve noticed is that lots of hijabis don’t take advice about wearing it.

 

[jabsveg276]

Somalis judge women hijab or not. We honestly need to reassess our culture when it comes to women. Out moms cried when no one was watching a lot of them accept bs for the sake of their kids now their boys want to do the same. Somwthing gotta change.

Yes, that’s true. Our culture has a lot of judging, even if you’re not doing anything Haram.

 

[Spartan]

Somalis judge women hijab or not. We honestly need to reassess our culture when it comes to women. Out moms cried when no one was watching a lot of them accept bs for the sake of their kids now their boys want to do the same. Somwthing gotta change.

Nah, you capped out tbh.

You really think grown Somali men in the west huddle up and talk shit about some random girl for not wearing hijab? That’s what y’all mamas do. Even back home the people who chop clits off of little girls are their hooyos and ayeeyos.

Y’all need to stop demonizing Somali men and check the females in your family.

 

[Sophisticate]

Non hijabis are not treated like s. it boils down to what you wear and how you conduct yourself. Which diaspora are you from?

 

[Dima&Damo]

Men Don't Gossip About Women Like That It's Your Very Own Naag Nools That Chitchat About Shit Like This All Day Every Day I Have Even Notice Some Women Are More Qabilist Then Their Counter Part What's Up With That And For Love God Stop Praising Your Supposed Queen Nicky The Rapist Loving Minaj

 

[Happy_]

Somalis judge period. Whether you wear hijab or not, whether you do good or bad. Way iska hadlayaan no matter what. You shouldn‘t care, I never cared and I started wearing the hijab with full conviction and faith in my late teens. Alhamdulillah. It never got off and I always make sure my actions are aligned with Islam. Hijab is so much more than a head covering. It‘s also good manners and hayaa. Anyways, let’s stop worrying about others and let‘s worry more about Allah’s pleasure.

 

[empressjamila]

Non hijabis are not treated like *****s. it boils down to what you wear and how you conduct yourself. Which diaspora are you from?

Yea they are. You could be a miskeen ass nonhijabi that carries themselves well yet still be treated like some bad influence degenerate because you don’t have a hijab on your head. Meanwhile a hijabi could commit every major sin yet still be seen as better than the non hijabi

I’m in Canada

 

[jabsveg276]

Yea they are. You could be a miskeen ass nonhijabi that carries themselves well yet still be treated like some bad influence degenerate because you don’t have a hijab on your head. Meanwhile a hijabi could commit every major sin yet still be seen as better than the non hijabi

I’m in Canada

I've never seen a Somali judge a non-hijabi so it's probably just your langaab area.

 

[Sophisticate]

Yea they are. You could be a miskeen ass nonhijabi that carries themselves well yet still be treated like some bad influence degenerate because you don’t have a hijab on your head. Meanwhile a hijabi could commit every major sin yet still be seen as better than the non hijabi

I’m in Canada

Interesting. Most religiously observing Somali guys care about character along with physical presentation. It's not a matter of either or. They would prefer a hijabi with a good reputation. The non hijabi is a bit of a gamble as the guy is not sure if or when she will wear it. However, in the scenario you mentioned above I don't think they'd be easily fooled by optics. They'd choose the non hijabi with a good reputation over a hijabi with a glaring reputation. Why? Because men are prideful and don't want to be made a fool of as the women they partner with is a reflection of them. One can change their attire but they can't reduce their baggage or erase their history. They may be able to suppress it though especially if they are in a different area code. A girl with an unsavoury rep could project the image of being miskeen but that's more of a false impression and if a guy falls for it onus on him for failing to do his homework.

 

[Halimo-2018]

Nah, you capped out tbh.

You really think grown Somali men in the west huddle up and talk shit about some random girl for not wearing hijab? That’s what y’all mamas do. Even back home the people who chop clits off of little girls are their hooyos and ayeeyos.

Y’all need to stop demonizing Somali men and check the females in your family.

Where do you think the women learned that from? Its the culture that is messed up. Women do it too because they have been told that is normal their whole lives. Men talk shit about women all the time they gossip and pass around picture of women aome they have never even talked to calling them etc

 

[Juliet]

Craziest part is that all those old crows who judge young women for not covering never even touched a hijab in their day. Hypocrites

 

[Juliet]

Nah, you capped out tbh.

You really think grown Somali men in the west huddle up and talk shit about some random girl for not wearing hijab? That’s what y’all mamas do. Even back home the people who chop clits off of little girls are their hooyos and ayeeyos.

Y’all need to stop demonizing Somali men and check the females in your family.

Its all to please our babied men, darling. Get your head out of the sand. Who's obsessed with virginity? Who slanders non covered Somali girls on here? Men or women?

 

[mustang22]

You don't see many hijabis out in public these days, especially in Australia or America, where as 10 or 15 years ago it was quite common. They are taking off the hijab to integrate better into western society.

 

[Hali]

Interesting. Most religiously observing Somali guys care about character along with physical presentation. It's not a matter of either or. They would prefer a hijabi with a good reputation. The non hijabi is a bit of a gamble as the guy is not sure if or when she will wear it. However, in the scenario you mentioned above I don't think they'd be easily fooled by optics. They'd choose the non hijabi with a good reputation over a hijabi with a glaring reputation. Why? Because men are prideful and don't want to be made a fool of as the women they partner with is a reflection of them. One can change their attire but they can't reduce their baggage or erase their history. They may be able to suppress it though especially if they are in a different area code. A girl with an unsavoury rep could project the image of being miskeen but that's more of a false impression and if a guy falls for it onus on him for failing to do his homework.

Most religiously observant Somali men are ex ciyaal suuq take their preferences with a pinch of salt. How would they know a girls reputation if he hadn’t done anything, they tend to have cognitive dissonance and know they’re trash. Question is why are girls still falling for them. A fob with nothing is better than those guys in terms of character.

 

[Hali]

I have a lot of Muslim desi friends and half don’t wear hijab and nobody in their community treats them funny because of it. Meanwhile in the Somali community no hijab= ***** even in the west.

it seems in our culture appearance > akhlaq and morals which explains why you see Somali hijabis acting ratchet in public and on social media giving a bad name to hijabis in general.

I was having a discussion with a Somali friend the other day about hijab and she was talking about how she mostly wears it so she’s not judged by other Somalis...like the meaning of hijab is completely lost. I wonder how many others are like this

The somali is gaab daro but the hijab is waajib and for your akhira so for whatever reason you wear it you’ve reduced the amount of sins you’re making.
At the end of the day your religious observance is between you and Allah. Do not think about the people - one day they love you the next they don’t. No one has ever thought of non hijaabis as t**** apart from older Somali women.

 

[NeseN]

I have a lot of Muslim desi friends and half don’t wear hijab and nobody in their community treats them funny because of it. Meanwhile in the Somali community no hijab= ***** even in the west.

it seems in our culture appearance > akhlaq and morals which explains why you see Somali hijabis acting ratchet in public and on social media giving a bad name to hijabis in general.

I was having a discussion with a Somali friend the other day about hijab and she was talking about how she mostly wears it so she’s not judged by other Somalis...like the meaning of hijab is completely lost. I wonder how many others are like this

The hilarious part is that (Not 100% sure) that it is a big sin to call a woman a hoe (accusing her of committing zina/adultery is a serious matter etc.). A woman honour is something important in Islam.