Why are non hijabis treated like h*es in our community

[Sophisticate]

Most religiously observant Somali men are ex ciyaal suuq take their preferences with a pinch of salt. How would they know a girls reputation if he hadn’t done anything, they tend to have cognitive dissonance and know they’re trash. Question is why are girls still falling for them. A fob with nothing is better than those guys in terms of character.

As they say birds of a feather flock together. No doubt his born again routine will attract someone with just as colourful a past. So its not like it will matter. Water seeks its own level.

 

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Because of how abnormal it's seen to go out without wearing one in the first place. It's literally the basic bar for minimal modesty in our culture.

 

[maryan223]

It’s just sad that they judge young people today but did waaaaaay worse tings when they were young god save me from old Somali aunties

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

This is news to me. No one cares that some Somali girls don't wear hijabs except the fobs who came recently. The exception is in some parts of Europe though. You can be beaten up or harassed by a mob of pseudo-religious men if you show hair. Your family may even cut you off.

I have seen more promiscuous hijabis than non-hijabis. Non-hijabis are actually way more modest.