As the title stats.
Why are men go back home to find wives considered to be losers in the West?
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I agree. Even the twitter xaarlimos don’t want to see you marry from back home. In their head they are like “I am educated, independent, and good looking yet these fob girls are stealing our men by the hundreds!”.Jealousy, its riskier for a diaspora girl to do it than it is for a guy.
It is a huge blow to their ego Sxb
how would you feel if all of the diaspora girls ran back home to marry the dudes back home. You’d be upset lol
Tbh I’m on the fence. I am not against an educated women in fact I’m drawn to it, but the home making skills of some of the girls back home is legendary
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Abdisamad
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But they look like ghost back home.. There's a bleaching epidemic going on in Somalia.
Abdisamad
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@Muhammad Bire
I have been checking up on them via Facebook and almost 90% are bleached.
I have been checking up on them via Facebook and almost 90% are bleached.
I agree. Even the twitter xaarlimos don’t want to see you marry from back home. In their head they are like “I am educated, independent, and good looking yet these fob girls are stealing our men by the hundreds!”.
It is a huge blow to their ego Sxb
how would you feel if all of the diaspora girls ran back home to marry the dudes back home. You’d be upset lol
Tbh I’m on the fence. I am not against an educated women in fact I’m drawn to it, but the home making skills of some of the girls back home is legendary
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Tbh lots of educated girls here in the West can be found that can be best of both worlds.
Samaalic Era
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There are many who don't bleach sxb
They are more than welcome to explore transcontinental love. Especially if its not working in the west. Regarding feasibility it is challenging if they come to the west. Imagine if you pass away and your wife/mother of your children must navigate the education, health and social service systems, alone. I'm sure you factored that into account. Question, will you also repatriate back home or will it be a long distance romance where you drop by periodically but never fully leave the west? Just curious on logistics.
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Samaalic Era
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Never met them either, I doubt they exist.I just haven’t met them yet
or I don’t go outside enough
Only ever run into backward London xaarlimos
The situation with marrying in the west is a lot like this joke:Never met them either, I doubt they exist.
Only ever run into backward London xaarlimos
If offered you a bowl of skittles, they all tasted good, but one skittle out of the 20 or 30 was definitely poisoned..
Would you reach for one or no?
I'm conflicted with this whole thing.Women back home can create more traditional households and are elite on the domestic side of things, they are more likely to listen to their husband and understand the role of a man the way I would like it to be understood. However,it comes with a lot of baggage ,a lot of the times you would be expected to send monthly repayments back home to take care of the family she left behind.Assuming that she doesn't work and you are the sole provider ,living in the west with one income which is pretty difficult, sending money back regularly would be a tough financial hit.
Samaalic Era
QurboExit
Too many wasakhiin that the probability of ending up with one is guaranteed
London and the UK is a joke. Marrying here is shooting yourself in the foot
Because you couldn’t convince an educated halimo who grew up in the same ends as you. So you got a poor girl who wants the glitz and glamor of the west she sees on social media.
The funny thing is young fob girls who come to the west I have heard are the biggest partiers there are. So you just exported yourself a dhiilo
The funny thing is young fob girls who come to the west I have heard are the biggest partiers there are. So you just exported yourself a dhiilo
I like them odds.
I could never see myself with a girl back home. What the hell would we talk about. If I am married she’s gotta be like my best friend, so it’s ideal you find someone from your ends.
Because you couldn’t convince an educated halimo who grew up in the same ends as you. So you got a poor girl who wants the glitz and glamor of the west she sees on social media.
The funny thing is young fob girls who come to the west I have heard are the biggest partiers there are. So you just exported yourself a dhiilo
The new ones are party heads. They’re social af.
If you marry from back home and you bring her to the states most likely she’ll leave you. Once she learns how to drive and gets to know about the city better she’s belongs to the streets bradar.
I knew one when she arrived was very miskeen, ran into her in another city and man she is a whole diff person. It’s like they can’t handle all the freedom out here and like that episode of futurama when bender becomes human they don’t moderate on the partying.The new ones are party heads. They’re social af.
If you marry from back home and you bring her to the states most likely she’ll leave you. Once she learns how to drive and gets to know about the city better she’s belongs to the streets bradar.
