You see, religion is group think and defeats the purpose of being an atheist. Having specific rituals and organization is stupid in nature.That's why atheism is false. A true religion would inspire jihad against evil burial rites. I knew a Somali guy once who smashed his motorbike in a traffick collision and was sent leaping into the arms of God uninvited. I helped to organize a proper Islamic funeral. It was a civilized affair - flowers, candles, soft music, long speeches - the whole works. In the midst of the ceremony when his wife was on the podium hyming his praises, in rushed his mistress to kiss him goodbye.
She couldn't have done so if a cowardly atheist planned the event.