White guy dumped by Somali girlfriend cause he' didn't convert

[Kaafiye]

That's very linear thinking. I have seen more hoes that cover their hair because they outnumber the minority that don't. I've seen girls that are act more modest and don't wear the head scarf. I have also seen pious ones that wear it. It's a spectrum. Let's make this clear, a hijab is more than a garment it carries itself in their demeanor, or at least it should.

The female virginity is not the be all and end all, but if given the choice between one and a non-virgin that committed zina. We know which one everyone would choose. You are a self-confessed atheist so don't worry yourself mate. You'd prefer the town bicycle if she was nice to you and looked decent enough.

Saaxib, this guy VicePrez is an Atheist. His opinion counts for absolutely nothing.

 

[Sozay]

How the hell does something like this happen? Where were his cousins and friends to advise him? Where was his family to do research on this girl and find out about her bad reputation?

Happens more often than you think! This guy i know married a hoe who used to give madax all the Somali niggas in town and when we all heard about what was happening we tried to warn him and this nigga thought we're jealous of him securing a decent chick so we just kept our distance and few months later his relative told him he banged her but he didn't know it was his wife so when he came over he spilled the news, after a few weeks he divorced her and went back home to marry but before he left he said he was sorry for not listening to us!

 

[Southsidemj1]

@Sozay

Strangely naagaha sspot never bash those type of females

 

[Mercury]

Happens more often than you think! This guy i know married a hoe who used to give madax all the Somali niggas in town and when we all heard about what was happening we tried to warn him and this nigga thought we're jealous of him securing a decent chick so we just kept our distance and few months later his relative told him he banged her but he didn't know it was his wife so when he came over he spilled the news, after a few weeks he divorced her and went back home to marry but before he left he said he was sorry for not listening to us!

Personally, I would never marry a girl unless she was a virgin, and waited for marriage

Yes, I'm a virgin myself, and would never dream of giving it up until marriage, and if I meet a girl who thinks otherwise, I just walk away. To me, sex is nowhere as important as finding a good match (i.e. a girl whom you would get along with well for the rest of your life)

So many marriages are based on animalistic urges, and they mostly end in divorce. Obviously, marrying a virgin isn't a 100% recipe for the best marriage, but for myself, I would never be able to respect my wife otherwise (that may be selfish on my part, but it's simply who I am)

I don't know about other men, but the way to my heart is to be a good self-respecting person with strong morals and principles

 

[Nabeel786]

A Xaliimo who dated with non Somali are full of virus. They do no protection. be careful Faaraxs. Subhanaka

 

[Southerner]

At least she held off during Ramadan

 

[Geeljire]

Men who are obsessed with female virginity baffle me to no end.

Why would it baffle you? You do realize if someone is a virgin they have a lower chance of transmitting sexual related diseases.

Why would anyone be with someone who has been with several other individuals before you possibly carrying with them STDs from it?

There is a reason why many would rather wait until they get married judging from the risks.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Ive come to accept the fact that some xalimo's are the biggest dirt bags it's unbelievable wallahi. Farax's it's easy to get the pussy but just don't fall in love with these cheap & clean hoes.

 

[54321]

Why would it baffle you? You do realize if someone is a virgin they have a lower chance of transmitting sexual related diseases.

Why would anyone be with someone who has been with several other individuals before you possibly carrying with them STDs from it?

There is a reason why many would rather wait until they get married judging from the risks.

I don't care if someone is only interested in marrying a virgin/ waits until marriage.
It's all the hypocritical men who run away sleeping with everyone in town who look down on women who haven't done half of what they have done, that I find suspicious. Then they turn around and say they want a virgin. I think they're fake and they don't have any principles at all. Their main motivations seem to be sex and misogyny, they're nasty and there's a lot of them.

 

[Geeljire]

I don't care if someone is only interested in marrying a virgin/ waits until marriage.
It's all the hypocritical men who run away sleeping with everyone in town who look down on women who haven't done half of what they have done, that I find suspicious. Then they turn around and say they want a virgin. I think they're fake and they don't have any principles at all. Their main motivations seem to be sex and misogyny, they're nasty and there's a lot of them.

Ok, thats useful info. But what does that have to with my post? I was just explaining why some have legit reasons for waiting.

 

[gilic mech]

http://abcnews.go.com/2020/WomensHealth/story?id=123701&page=1

 

[54321]

Ok, thats useful info. But what does that have to with my post? I was just explaining why some have legit reasons for wanting

Just joining the convo.

 

[Geeljire]

Just joining the convo.

Well, from my standpoint i like for Somalis in general to wait until marriage and have few partners in life. So they can avoid sexual related diseases.

So its not ''whatever'' or ''i don't care'' on my part.

Take this article about ethnic groups in Kenya as an example.

Where men can find faithful wives, virgins By GATONYE GATHURA

Kenya: Somali women make the most faithful wives according to data covering a 19-year period, with their chastity having been rewarded with low rates of HIV infections.

On the other hand, the data gleaned from seven national studies including five Kenya Demographic Health Surveys, shows Kamba women and Kikuyu men are most likely to have the highest number of sex partners in their lives.

In the first study ever done in Kenya to explain the different HIV infection rates among various ethnic groups, researchers from Belgium, South Africa and the US show the more amorous a community is, the higher the HIV infections.

Published on Friday in the journal Plos One, the data says the Somali, both men and women with an HIV prevalence of about two per cent, are most likely to start sex late, have fewer sex partners in life and are less likely to engage in sex for pay.

The authors say the Luo in Nyanza, on the other hand, with an HIV prevalence of about 22 per cent, are likely to be involved in multiple risky sexual behaviour.

Such behaviour includes sex before marriage, more partners in life and casual sex, partially explaining the high HIV infection rates in this community.

The authors intimate that there are fewer virgin girls or young women among the Luo compared to the Somali or Mijikenda who engage in first sex much later in life. Among the two communities, sex before marriage was found to be much rarer than in most other Kenyan ethnic groups.

Inter marriages

If, for example, the Somali were to export their chastity to the rest of Kenya through inter marriage, it could change the HIV infection trends. Unfortunately, Kenyans are shown to be poor at intermarrying.

Almost 95 per cent of Kenyans, even in cosmopolitan Nairobi, are married or have sex partners from their ethnic communities. Only the Taita from the Coast region are most likely to marry into other ethnic communities.

The study led by Chris Richard Kenyon of Belgium grudgingly says male circumcision may be a significant factor in the high HIV prevalence rates in Nyanza but not the only determining factor.


The Luhya, for example, have a slightly higher circumcision prevalence than the Kalenjin, but a HIV prevalence more than double that of the Kalenjin, according to the authors.

Likewise, the prevalence of HIV is nine times higher among the Luhya than Somalis despite similar circumcision rates.

“Therefore, while circumcision plays a major role, it is likely that other factors contribute to group differences.”

Among the Luhya, the study says, almost two-thirds of women believe it is alright for a man to have extra-marital affairs, something which could aid the spread of HIV.

Worried about wide regional variation in HIV prevalence, the Ministry of Health in a strategic plan has singled out five of the most affected areas for special attention.

It is no accident why Somalis have the lowest Sexual disease rates on the continent.. The fact that we don't intermarry much and marry mainly our own also contributes to this as well.

 

[Kaafiye]

Happens more often than you think! This guy i know married a hoe who used to give madax all the Somali niggas in town and when we all heard about what was happening we tried to warn him and this nigga thought we're jealous of him securing a decent chick so we just kept our distance and few months later his relative told him he banged her but he didn't know it was his wife so when he came over he spilled the news, after a few weeks he divorced her and went back home to marry but before he left he said he was sorry for not listening to us!

Oh okay. That makes sense, but at least he was aware of her bad reputation. It was his fault for not taking the advice of his close friends and family seriously.

The worst thing to happen is if you were to marry a woman with a terrible reputation in the city while you're completely oblivious to this.

I'm all for covering up the sins of your fellow Muslim and not exposing each other, but if she's already been exposed and many people know of her sexual exploits and she's the talk of the town, then I don't think any self-respecting man would want to have her as the mother of his kids. And I'm sure plenty of Somali women agree with me if the genders were reversed.

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Guys this guy is anti Obama and he's a republican. Hes either lying about being with a Somali woman or he's a racist, anti-Muslim who loves Muslims, African women.


Click on his channel.

 

[John Michael]

Oh okay. That makes sense, but at least he was aware of her bad reputation. It was his fault for not taking the advice of his close friends and family seriously.

The worst thing to happen is if you were to marry a woman with a terrible reputation in the city while you're completely oblivious to this.

I'm all for covering up the sins of your fellow Muslim and not exposing each other, but if she's already been exposed and many people know of her sexual exploits and she's the talk of the town, then I don't think any self-respecting man would want to have her as the mother of his kids. And I'm sure plenty of Somali women agree with me if the genders were reversed.

Be honest though it's usually the other way around. Unfortunately some miskeen women especially in Africa have been subjected to deadly diseases because of their dhiley 'husbands'.

 

[Mercury]

Guys this guy is anti Obama and he's a republican. Hes either lying about being with a Somali woman or he's a racist, anti-Muslim who loves Muslims, African women.


Click on his channel.

Apparently not

 

[John Michael]

Guys this guy is anti Obama and he's a republican. Hes either lying about being with a Somali woman or he's a racist, anti-Muslim who loves Muslims, African women.


Click on his channel.

I just watch the video. I swear half the people on this forum are retards and believe just anything if a white guy is saying it. Plenty of somali girls go with cadaan guys, however, they aren't the type to have guilty feelings and be so religious to seclude themselves for Ramadan(which apparently for his girlfriend was a month and HALF).

Who needs enemies when your own 'people' using our enemies propaganda. Wallahi dayuus foqol dayuus. Either that or they're retards. I'm going with the retard option.


Edit: watched the video, still not convinced

 

[Mercury]

People who are commited in a haram relationships usually like to keep it a secret from the public

 

[Baraf]

There are some Muslims like that, they don't want to disappoint there parents and still respect them even when their committed in an unlawful relationship.